Guys are dumb! (help thread)

[Clogz]

Girls, this a thread for you to post your guy problems. Whatever they are. The catch is that us guys on the LPF will give you some advice. The point here, is to kind of let you see the guy's perspective.

I think this is a great way to get questions awnsered, problems solved, and keep all this subject matter in one thread.

Obviously, I can't kick this off since I don't have any guy problems. But anyone who would be willing..please do!

[stupidsoul1]

Nice!!

damn if only i had a problem...

but thanks for the thought clogz

[JammerG]

Why is it that the nice guys are too shy to talk to girls they like...

[Heart_LP]

yeah I know JammerG

 

Well sometimes this happened like I like one guy and then well I´m a pretty shy girl so I´m not the one who goes ahead and talks to the guy well then after a time I just dont care about the guy anymore lol and then he likes me o.O

no use damn it lol I dont like him anymore! lol

[Minzara]

well.... i think its fear of rejection... thats one of the reasons i didnt ask out alot of girls. and i also feared it might ruin are friendship.... :/

[Heart_LP]

hm...may be

Yeah the freindship thing is important to me..

cause I would rather more freinds then boyfreinds in my life, honestly

[Hybrid Soldier]

I think its because the nice guys are usually gay. I'm not saying always, I mean, I'm a nice guy, but they are alot of the time gay. Also, I'll ask out some chicks, but I'm too shy to ask out others, like the really hot ones, even if I know they like me.

The moral of the story: there are straight guys that are nice and ask chicks out.

[misery]

well.... i think its fear of rejection... thats one of the reasons i didnt ask out alot of girls. and i also feared it might ruin are friendship.... :/

You pretty much just hit the nail on the head right there. It's the same thing for me. Gah, it sucks!

[Heart_LP]

aah...doesn´t it?

 

damn you all nice guys for not daring lol jk

[Xblackwidow20X]

well lets see for me... my ex cheated on me but still said he loved me. ha thats joke. ok why do guys feel the need to cheat and they all need sex all the time?

 

ok and my new bf well i had to tell him i liked him over the internet. and i had to make the 1st move for the 1st kiss. why do guys wait like that?

 

ok im dont complaining now. lol

[MrRandomGuy]

not all of us cheat, but sadly most do.

 

I knew one guy who had 4 girlfriends at one time. one at his hometown and three on the internet. It wasn't long before they found out and I have never really heard from him after he graduated a few years ago.

 

also, girls do cheat on us, it's just not as...what's the word...not as...as...known.

[misery]

I have never cheated on one of my girlfriends. I'm pretty loyal when it comes to things like that. Just no point in cheating.

[stupidsoul1]

loyalty is good...my friend has 7 "hook ups" which i guess is like having a bf

its just not right...

i know its sad that guys fear rejection because girls do too...but most of my friends dont get rejected and later kick themselves after for not mentioning anything sooner also if their person gets taken they then kick themselves for not making a move prior to them being taken.

[Minzara]

well lets see for me... my ex cheated on me but still said he loved me. ha thats joke. ok why do guys feel the need to cheat and they all need sex all the time?

 

ok and my new bf well i had to tell him i liked him over the internet. and i had to make the 1st move for the 1st kiss. why do guys wait like that?

 

ok im dont complaining now. lol

 

cause msot guys think with there dick and not there brains...... sadly those are the guys most women fall for....

[XrockinfreakX]

Ehh I dont have any problems with guys lol. That green shirt really does something though, this one guy that I knew since the 4th grade was checking me out AND he has a girlfriend! My ex didnt really cheat on me but he was just using me and I seriously loved him, people can be sooo brainless. My friend has been going back and forth between two guys, one of them wants to have a real relationship and one justs wants to get in bed with her! I have proof he texted her and he said Ill take you to the candy shop when you come over to my house. I was freaked out lol oh well she kinda well she is a slut, its sad.

Dude that was too much typing over guys.

[i_love_mike_shinoda2]

Ok, heres my problem. Im very open with almost everything I talk to, including my crush. My crush is like a bro to me, he even calls me his "little sis" (we are about a year apart). His name is Jay. We've dated before but only in the summer for like 6 days. Ive also gone out with his younger bro, Jeremy, which is my age. Our relationship was way longer than Jay (4 months) Im really liking Jay a lot. Ive moved to a different school so anytime that me and Jay can hang, we do. But what my problem is that Im afraid he wont like me back because our friendship is so strong. My friend was talking to him and he is thinking I do like him. I kind of want to go out with him, but Im afraid that I will go out with him to make Jeremy jealous or something. Any help?

[Clogz]

Ok' date=' heres my problem. Im very open with almost everything I talk to, including my crush. My crush is like a bro to me, he even calls me his "little sis" (we are about a year apart). His name is Jay. We've dated before but only in the summer for like 6 days. Ive also gone out with his younger bro, Jeremy, which is my age. Our relationship was way longer than Jay (4 months) Im really liking Jay a lot. Ive moved to a different school so anytime that me and Jay can hang, we do. But what my problem is that Im afraid he wont like me back because our friendship is so strong. My friend was talking to him and he is thinking I do like him. I kind of want to go out with him, but Im afraid that I will go out with him to make Jeremy jealous or something. Any help?[/quote']

 

For guys (or at least me), the whole friendship game is very hard to describe, as to what the rules are and what you could expect if you did ask Jay out. But, I would say you should do it again. He has been steady with you before, so its not like the idea is new in his head. He may even be wanting to go out with you. Ask Jay. And if he says no, you can keep your friendship and ask this other guy out.

[misery]

Do what Clogz said. Just make sure you ask him casually so it's not akward. If it's not akward, then it shouldn't be a problem

[shahfire]

ok this is not a love problem or anything, im just curious to know smtg. i have two male cousins, one is my mom's elder sister's son and another is my father's elder brother's son. im close to both of them but both of them hardly talk to each other. and when the 3 of us are present together i feel so weird coz it seems that im the only one making conversations. i wanna noe why do guys act like that. its ok if the lpf males do not noe the answer.

[i_love_mike_shinoda2]

Wow, thanks Clogz and Misery! Still not sure if I should or not but you guys made it a bit easier to ask! :thumbsup:

[stupidsoul1]

ok this is not a love problem or anything' date=' im just curious to know smtg. i have two male cousins, one is my mom's elder sister's son and another is my father's elder brother's son. im close to both of them but both of them hardly talk to each other. and when the 3 of us are present together i feel so weird coz it seems that im the only one making conversations. i wanna noe why do guys act like that. its ok if the lpf males do not noe the answer.[/quote']

 

i have noticed that too especially with guys that kinda know eachother if a girl is present sometimes they dont want to embarass themselves or they start picking a fight with the guy. its really weird...and then they next time they see eachother its like they are really close friends 0___o

[LPGotLinkinPark]

I will post my sorta guy problem. So this guy Ben moved to my area/school at the beginning of this school year. When he first came I was like obsessed with him. He's really hot and nice and has a great personality. I wasn't good friends with him until lately. We mostly hang out at lunch and stuff cause he got moved out of my classes, also we've hung out a little bit out of school (me and my best friend are both friends with him). But the thing is he knew when I used to like him, but then I didn't for a while, and now I'm really starting to like him again. I just know that ya know, he has no intrest in me besides just friends.

[misery]

Hmm. I would take the safe approach, personally, and just stay friends. I was in a similar situation, sort of. I was really good friends with a girl and then I started to like her alot, but I just left it because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I got over her, it turns out it was just a stupid crush.

[Heart_LP]

ok one more thing..what´s up with guys are staring at you?! it´s annoying..first I thought that I had something on ym face or something lol but nooo nothing. I even ask my freind sometimes but they just shrug o.O

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

I like this. A guys perspective rather than a biased view from us girls =) I don't really have guy troubles *yet*. But I also kinda wanted to ask something similar to Heart_LP lol. Why do guys *STARE* so much?! It's really... embarrassing. Are they looking at you because you're weird, you have nice hair, you're ugly and weird. What?!!? They don't really do anything about it either. Just stare... I'm paranoid like that. I can usually feel their eyes and look at them back, which causes them to look away. Or something haha. Unless they stared back... then I get freaked out and turn away lol. Some guys do it, even when they're with their gfs. I think maybe it's my paranoia lol.