Cutting?

[linkinpark91393]

I cut only when I'm really mad or depressed which doesnt happen that often since its summer....

[LSUTiger]

have you ever punched a wall out of anger?

 

I prefer punching the actual person. But I see the point you are trying to make, but there is a fallacy with your argument. When people punch walls, other people, etc., they are not doing it to inflict the pain on themselves. Example; people don't say "I'm so mad, I'm gonna puch this wall to hurt my hand." They do it to vent the anger, which is fine. That still doesn't mean harming yourself is an acceptable alternative.

[keza]

its not acceptible its a way someone can control an uncontrolable situation around them...no ones said its the right thing to do...

[spike91232004]

Hmm... It appears too me all the Newbs are getting extremly pissed off by my post... Hmm...interesting... Just putting my two cents though. Don't take it personal. I have a right to my own opinions.

 

 

Vash: Please do not do that again Spike, that was uncalled for.

[Hyper]

Hmm... It appears too me all the Newbs are getting extremly pissed off by my post... Hmm...interesting... Just putting my two cents though. Don't take it personal. I have a right to my own opinions.

 

mmk, apparently i'm a newb. anyways, your'e right, you do have a right to your own opinions. however, you do not have a right to present them in an offensive way.

[uwantme2b]

I prefer punching the actual person. But I see the point you are trying to make' date=' but there is a fallacy with your argument. When people punch walls, other people, etc., they are not doing it to inflict the pain on themselves. Example; people don't say "I'm so mad, I'm gonna puch this wall to hurt my hand." They do it to vent the anger, which is fine. That still doesn't mean harming yourself is an acceptable alternative.[/quote']

 

But self-harm is a way of venting anger too.

 

And I agree with Hyper. Spike, of course you have a right to express your opinions but you don't have to be rude about it. Other viewpoints than yours may be acceptable as well, and because you personally don't like cutting, doesn't mean it's actually wrong.

 

Who are you referring to as noobs? Hyper is not a noob... neither am I... I'm not sure who you're talking to. :/

[x_Hybrid_Angel_x]

Im new but i wasnt getting pissed off, i was just saying...

[cmlp]

Hmm... It appears too me all the Newbs are getting extremly pissed off by my post... Hmm...interesting... Just putting my two cents though. Don't take it personal. I have a right to my own opinions.

 

Hmm...I'm not a "Newb" and I'm extremly pissed. And that doesn't happen to fuckin' often. Yes, you have a right to your opinion, but what you said, harsh, man. I'm glad you're not a cutter. I'm very happy for you, but it's not all about a boyfriend/girlfriend dumping the person who cut. (Inless they are drama kings or queens.) There's way more to it. Alot of cutters come from broken homes, a childhood without happiness, an event that took away from the person (like rape or seeing a murder), or the fact the person can't deal with the stress and pain. If they are depressed, they don't see a freakin' point in life and living a life, but can't kill themselfs. You really need to get the facts before you go bashing something.

 

And what's your deal with emo/goth?! What did we ever do to you? We deal with OUR problems OUR own way.

 

Note, I'm not fighting, I'm just..what do you say.... Adding my two cents.

[LSUTiger]

There's way more to it. Alot of cutters come from broken homes, a childhood without happiness, an event that took away from the person (like rape or seeing a murder), or the fact the person can't deal with the stress and pain. If they are depressed, they don't see a freakin' point in life and living a life, but can't kill themselfs.

 

 

Sorry, still not a valid reason to cut yourself...not even close.

[Sygy]

Hmm... It appears too me all the Newbs are getting extremly pissed off by my post... Hmm...interesting... Just putting my two cents though. Don't take it personal. I have a right to my own opinions.

 

 

Yes, you do have the rights to your own opinions. But there is a time and place to state your opinions. on a thread about people talking about self-harming in confidence without fear of been told off is NOT one of them!!!!!!

 

i am getting extremely pissed off but i'm NOT a newbie!!!!!!

[Minzara]

yikes... this thread has gone violent lol

[cmlp]

Sorry' date=' still not a valid reason to cut yourself...not even close.[/quote']

 

Know what, I had a huge post here, but fighting over something no one will look deep into is pointless and I don't want kicked off the sight for anger. So whatever. Why waste my time?

[LSUTiger]

Since when did this turn into fighting? I don't remember rubbing sand in your vagina at anytime during the discussion, but whatever.

 

And you've got to be kidding me with that whole "look deep into cutting" reference. What are you expecting out of us, a research paper? Yeah, I'll be sure and bust out a Works Cited page on the history of cutting so I can get some sort of "deep" understanding of why you spend all your time in the silverware department of Sears.

 

Methinks you don't want to "waste your time" because you can't suffice an argument worthy of combating the "why you shouldn't cut yourself" points we've made.

[cmlp]

Since when did this turn into fighting? I don't remember rubbing sand in your vagina at anytime during the discussion, but whatever.

 

And you've got to be kidding me with that whole "look deep into cutting" reference. What are you expecting out of us, a research paper? Yeah, I'll be sure and bust out a Works Cited page on the history of cutting so I can get some sort of "deep" understanding of why you spend all your time in the silverware department of Sears.

 

Methinks you don't want to "waste your time" because you can't suffice an argument worthy of combating the "why you shouldn't cut yourself" points we've made.

 

Look who's trying to start a fight. I don't want to waste my goddamn time with you because typing word that can be looked over is stupid. I wasn't starting a fight, I was adding my thoughts. If I wanted to fight, I'd beat the shit out of someone. And I HAVE been in fights, so shut you trap before you reply to this. And I don't want you to do a freakin' report on it. I'm done with this. I don't want banned, and I'm sure you don't. And if I do get banned over this, I'm not going to go down alone. You better get it too. I'm done!

 

Peace out.

[LSUTiger]

If anybody gets banned over this; this place officially sucks balls.

 

BTW - You were the first person to put the word "fight" in any post about this issue. I'm the one trying to avoid it.

 

I was merely pointing out that you took the cheap way out of what could of been a good discussion.

[Hyper]

If anybody gets banned over this; this place officially sucks balls.

 

BTW - You were the first person to put the word "fight" in any post about this issue. I'm the one trying to avoid it.

 

I was merely pointing out that you took the cheap way out of what could of been a good discussion.

 

you have a twisted definition of avoid then. because your'e the one who slid in little insults within your post. and who the fuck are you to say what's a valid reason and what's not? if we're gonna say what's valid and what's not, then you're not valid as a person, so just stop trying.

[starr]

wow...hostility in this room..it went from serious to a place to vent to a place to bring people down..not that it helps the situation....but that's just my opinion..i say we just drop it and move on...just..end it...no more replies to that....

[LSUTiger]

you have a twisted definition of avoid then. because your'e the one who slid in little insults within your post. and who the fuck are you to say what's a valid reason and what's not? if we're gonna say what's valid and what's not' date=' then you're not valid as a person, so just stop trying.[/quote']

 

And who the fuck is she to decide what's valid? And who the fuck are you to decide what's valid? And who the fuck told you that your last sentence made any sense whatsoever? Valid as a person? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard.

 

Look if you wanna slice and dice yourself, fucking go for it. I've still got every right to get creeped the fuck out by your style of "venting."

[starr]

this is my personal opinion..but THIS IS STUPID AS HELL TO FIGHT OVER NOTHING OVER THE INTERNET!!! they are just typed words..damn...leave it alone already

[Hyper]

And who the fuck is she to decide what's valid? And who the fuck are you to decide what's valid? And who the fuck told you that your last sentence made any sense whatsoever? Valid as a person? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard.

 

Look if you wanna slice and dice yourself, fucking go for it. I've still got every right to get creeped the fuck out by your style of "venting."

 

rofl, the last sentence makes total sense, just too complicated for your comprehension. and who said i cut? i sure the hell didn't, you can't even get facts straight before sayin stuff, nice.

[starr]

i never said everyone did...i just said...the people here like to vent....but whatever....im staying out of it now...

[cmlp]

you have a twisted definition of avoid then. because your'e the one who slid in little insults within your post. and who the fuck are you to say what's a valid reason and what's not? if we're gonna say what's valid and what's not' date=' then you're not valid as a person, so just stop trying.[/quote']

 

So I'm not the only one who noticed the insults.

 

I'm out of the whole fight deal.

[Minzara]

I think the insults need to stop, or this thread get closed... : /

[spike91232004]

Ok wait, unless I am mistaking one of you guys said "Some of us come from familys who abuse us" hmm.. Then why after getting abused and hurt would go and hurt yourself. Doesn't that seem just a little bit retarded? I mean come on now. Why cut when you can do other things to get away your anger? Hmm.. Scream in a pilow, watch TV, you know what I am saying.

 

 

Sorry for getting everyone pissed off. I know I went a little bit overboard with my post. Again sorry...

 

-Spike

[stupidsoul1]

wow, i'm surprised a mod hasn't closed this by now.