too young to love?

[misspiggy]

okay ive been having a little prob. with like... boys.

I'm 13 and i think im in love but i don't know i mean i feel that im to young to feel what i feel for him. anyways his name his silvestre and i used to have a crush on him but then we got really close but we never went out. it was like a best friends with benefits type thing. and then the school year is over and we start a new one (hes in 9th im in 8th) and i cant stop thinking about him.

i mean he has hurt so much but i still feel something strong for him. Am i in love?

[KissOfDeath]

I know how you feel and i think no one is to young or to old to love. Like they say love is nothing but a number. You may also be in love but just need a little more time to realize how you really feel.

[ForgottenKid]

Your not too young to experiance love your just to young to understand it. Im about the age of this guy and I still dont know what it is. The veil of deseption has been cast upon you and uhh...silvestre- causeing you to be blind from what it truely is.

[acdcrules04]

no never to young to love... it posible that ur in love (my situation is almost the same as urs, and i'm pretty positive that i'm in love) just keep one thing in mind, there is a very thin love between love and hate

[misspiggy]

no never to young to love... it posible that ur in love (my situation is almost the same as urs' date=' and i'm pretty positive that i'm in love) just keep one thing in mind, there is a very thin love between love and hate[/quote']

i kinda crossed that line a little too much

[Friðbjörn]

Once you hit a certain intellectual phase in your growth progress towards adulthood (a little hint: puberty), you're never too young to love.

[Hyper]

i think you're just really infatuated with him. you said it yourself, you never went out. just did the whole friends with benefits thing, which is bullshit. i mean, yeah, you do have feelings for him, but could it be because of what you did as fwb? it's not a matter of being too young to love.. just.. being able to clearly recognize it, just because you want it to be love, doesn't mean it is. and vice versa, denying it wont help either.. no one can tell you for sure how you feel.. cuz it's how you feel..

[majinkamahl]

Infatuation. Grade 8 love is such a fad.

[stupidsoul1]

I think you could be an alright age to love...but not for that fwb thing..

there is no certain age for love as mentioned before

 

but seriously only you can determine what is a phase and what is love

[Mikes_Shadow]

Dude I know how you feel...

I'm 13 too.. and yeah.. theres this guy.. and yeah

My mum doesn't seem to have a problem with it though..

[Sygy]

i don't think your in love. you might be but i think it's more of a crush turned obession.

[Mikes_Shadow]

i don't think your in love. you might be but i think it's more of a crush turned obession.

 

Lol.. That reminds me of alex.. he said he was "In love" with this girl.. and it WASN'T a crush. everyone found out who she was in the end, Keshna (sp?). But I'm like "Dude, you can NOT fall in love in year 7. It's called a crush dude. If she doesn't love you then it's not love x.x"

Every single year 7 couple from last year broke up. I know things ^_^

[Black_Angel]

I think it could be love... but its more likely just to be a big crush on him. Well Grade 8.. thats Year 7 right?... anyway yeah, I think year 7 is a little to young to be 'in love' with someone

[Black_Thought]

Well.. I think you`re in love with the idea of being in love. Happens all the time.

[misspiggy]

you guys are really helpful but im still confoosed!!! anyways since he is in ninth and im in eigth (here its diff. skool when you go to ninth.) this time away from each other will probably do us good.

[Rusu_luvs_LP_4ever]

Are you sure its love not lust? In year seven your hormones are developing, (stupid hormones can backfire), but it means you could just be confused with how you are feeling, attracted to him, not fully the whole package. Just give it a bit of time, try to see clear, if you still want to be with him, then your in love.

[Black_Thought]

you guys are really helpful but im still confoosed!!! anyways since he is in ninth and im in eigth (here its diff. skool when you go to ninth.) this time away from each other will probably do us good.

 

 

Definitely. Just give it time.

 

It`ll all be great.

Oh..an advice. Try to find out what he feels too. Don`t want to see you get disappointed or something. Either way, in me you`ll find a friend.

[Shadow_Serpent]

Situation is the same with me, but i have parents who are obsessed w/ meh personal life, and PURPOSELY MOVED ME TO AN ALL-GUY SCHOOL BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT ME TO START TOO EARLY!

I say keep trying to talk to him. works most of the time.

[misspiggy]

thanks black thought but see the thing is i dont know if he lies when i ask him things like that. i have a feeeling he is even more confused than me.

[Black_Thought]

thanks black thought but see the thing is i dont know if he lies when i ask him things like that. i have a feeeling he is even more confused than me.

 

You`re welcome.

Hmm.... Let me get this straight. You tried asking him? Or maybe you don`t trust him enough if you think he`d lie..

 

I see no reasons for him to lie to you.

After you answer, I`ll see if I can give you any advice.

[misspiggy]

You`re welcome.

Hmm.... Let me get this straight. You tried asking him? Or maybe you don`t trust him enough if you think he`d lie..

 

I see no reasons for him to lie to you.

After you answer, I`ll see if I can give you any advice.

i have asked him and he says either "i guess" "no" or "i dont no"

but through his body language he misleads and you end up thinking he likes you.

[Black_Thought]

i have asked him and he says either "i guess" "no" or "i dont no"

but through his body language he misleads and you end up thinking he likes you.

 

 

Hmm.... I`d say go for it. You only have to regret what you didn`t do and we don`t want any regrets now, do we?

[misspiggy]

Hmm.... I`d say go for it. You only have to regret what you didn`t do and we don`t want any regrets now' date=' do we? [/quote']

i dont now our relationship is so confusing cuz we'll be all happy and sappy and like mushy and then the next day we end up fighting or we just get so annoyed with each other.

[Black_Thought]

i dont now our relationship is so confusing cuz we'll be all happy and sappy and like mushy and then the next day we end up fighting or we just get so annoyed with each other.

 

 

Been there. Done that

It all depends on you guys. The most important part is not to focus on the are-we-in-love-or-not question but to make the most of your relationship.

If you go on questioning your relationship you`ll end up destroying it. At least that`s what I think.

 

I never thought I`d say this but .. don`t give it that much thought. Just "go with the flow". Wait and see where this thing is headed.

[misspiggy]

Been there. Done that

It all depends on you guys. The most important part is not to focus on the are-we-in-love-or-not question but to make the most of your relationship.

If you go on questioning your relationship you`ll end up destroying it. At least that`s what I think.

 

I never thought I`d say this but .. don`t give it that much thought. Just "go with the flow". Wait and see where this thing is headed.

thanks black thought ill try but if i ever need anymore help ill post something else on this thread.