How "far" Would You Go On a First Date?

[ShinodaBear]

This is yet another one of those.... 'sex-related' topics, that once again, i've created.... hey, what i can i say? It's interesting!

 

If One Needs an Explaination::

 

Choice 1: No Kiss

That's self explainitory... You Dont Kiss on the first date

 

Choice 2: Only A Few Kisses

As in, maybe an innocent little pop kiss and maybe that 'magical' kiss at the end of the date. No Tounge!

 

Choice 3: Innocent Making Out

Tounge! Kissing Quite alot but dare not to get TOO feely with the other person.

 

Choice 4: Intense Making Out

You wont go an further than feeling up all over the opposite sex while making out. What's a little rub on your favorite spots?

 

Choice 5: "Favors"

Whether you give or you recieve, either way, you know it's tons of fun, but you're definately not going to have sex on a first date. You gotta leave atleast a little imagination left.

 

Choice 6: As Far As Possible

On the first date, typically, you try to get as far as you can... I'm not going to be surprised if alot of guys are choosing this. lol. S'ok if you're a girl and vote this too.

 

 

As for myself, i will break the ice and say that i believe guys have to hold their own too. Most of the time, it's a girl i wanna get to know for real, so on the first date, i try to draw the line at only innocent making out, but i usually end up going a little more intense. So i'll go with intense, since it's the usual for myself.

[Hybrid Soldier]

well, right when i saw the title i said "as far as shell let me" so, i guess that makes me choice 6. see, im not shallow, and im not just looking for sex and shit like that, but i still would like to get as far as possible

 

EDIT: also, depends on what feels best, its as far as shell let me, but in turn its also as far as ill let me

[stupidsoul1]

lol it depends how long i have known the person before the "first date"...if i met them like the same day...it wouldn't be too far.

[Hahninator]

im a damn 5 mmmm cheerleader err I mean

 

RANDOM SPAM SINCE ITS 2 AM <3 when it's 2 AM, it's Hahninator Crazy Time lol

[Sygy]

i clicked intense making out

[diva__007]

innocent making out

[LPGirl]

it depends on how much i "like" them if it was the person i have a crush on i'd go Choice 3 but it was say a person i just met Choice 1 and if they were lucky Choice 2..

[shadowfax1007]

i reckon 2 is a resonable level for a 1st date, although i have done as far as 4

[woodyloveslinkin]

choice 4: theres no such thing as innocent making out...

[Chazz]

Choice 3 or 4

[XrockinfreakX]

Innocent making out but it could always change to number 4.

[uwantme2b]

Choice 2... making out would be on the second date

[Friðbjörn]

well, right when i saw the title i said "as far as shell let me" so, i guess that makes me choice 6. see, im not shallow, and im not just looking for sex and shit like that, but i still would like to get as far as possible

 

EDIT: also, depends on what feels best, its as far as shell let me, but in turn its also as far as ill let me

Same here man. I don't consider myself shallow, but a guy has needs you know

but, if I didn't really know this person, I'm not sure I'd let myself go all the way, maybe with some girl I knew who was, but not someone I'd meet randomly and stuff.

[LPDarkMark]

i dont really tend to go 2 far on a first date I feel a little uncomfortable with my frinds since i normally date my friends who become more than friends. do u get it? so choice #1

 

why the hell wont my sig show?

[azemkamikaze03]

Ok, if its a freidn I've known for a wihle I'll usually make out. BUT, Im going with somebody, I dont know all to well. Ill probably just kiss her. You know. Cant put all you eggs in a basket. I give a lil take a lil. Second date Makeout is guaren-damn-teed.

[Stenners]

Probs just a couple kisses

[Marizka]

I'll go as far as innocent making out, though that could turn to intense making out, but no further. It's certainly not a must for me, just a few kisses or no kiss wouldn't kill me lol.

[Figure.09]

I don't kiss on the first date..I take that time to get to know her as best as I can.

[Sygy]

after how many dates is it ok to do level 5 ?

[azemkamikaze03]

They say 3, i say whenever your old enough and you feel comfortable with that person

[Figure.09]

Exactly....

[Sygy]

Exactly....

 

exactly what?????

[Hybrid Soldier]

i think (s)he was agreeing with azem

 

for me, none of those choices are completely valid, alothough 6 is most valid, i just go with the flow, go as far as feels comfortable, which is different for every date.

[Sygy]

i think (s)he was agreeing with azem.

 

oh, i just didn't know what they meant.

[LPGotLinkinPark]

I'd say innocent making out, but ya know that could turn into intense making out it just depends. But if I didn't really feel like it then I wouldn't even go that far.