Melodramatic Fool Posted December 26, 2005 Posted December 26, 2005 Ok, here, I just had a Christmas Dance, and only one guy asked me. We're used to dance with different guys, and I don't want to be alone in the dances. Can you help me with this please? We have another dance and I really want to ask this guy out but he rejected me and he's the only one I wanted to dance with. I'm just not popular, and the guy who asked me was Brian. He was nice, and I hate it when guys just asked girls to see how many girls they dance with. I want a guy to ask me for real and how I can ask a guy...can you guys help me please? Not sounding desperate am I? Quote Vizit mah site plz and thank you! *~Då®k §#ãdØWz~*
Stenners Posted December 26, 2005 Posted December 26, 2005 Just go out n say them man..... I know easier said then done but me as a male wish that more girls would ask the man rather then us having to guese. So I say go for it Quote Delete my account, the is no reason why it should be against standard procediure, do it do it do it. Or LPF Sessions 3 leaks before it's done and Spoilers will be posted for every film release. Not to mention periodic troll invasions.
Friðbjörn Posted December 26, 2005 Posted December 26, 2005 Stenners is right and I mean no one's gonna look down on you for asking guys to this, I figure they want that...of course except the ones who are about to come out of the closet lol I say ask, rather than regretting later not doing it. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img259.imageshack.us/img259/2784/lpfas08mostintelligentym8.jpg
Pheonix791989 Posted December 26, 2005 Posted December 26, 2005 I agree with fribby and stenners. the worst they can say is no. of course I have the same problem cuz guys at my school can be pretty harsh when they say no. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/905b4d5028c3e3d1ceb11b9069165e4b.jpg "You can't please everyone and trying to do so is the kiss of death."- criss angel
o0SugaxNxSpice0o Posted December 27, 2005 Posted December 27, 2005 Awww bless, that's so cute! I would never have the guts to ask anyone to dance. And I mean NEVER, in a bazillion hundred thousand years! But you definatly sound like you have the confidence, I dunno, just go up to him and ask him politely if he's got a partner for the next dance:D Good luck, I hope he says yes =P 1 Quote [broken External Image]:http://img299.imageshack.us/img299/9765/newsig2qs.gif It's Jen!!!
Shadowed Heart Posted December 27, 2005 Posted December 27, 2005 Hehe, yeah. u just gotta ask. But, on valentines day I wanted to ask this huy to dance, but he was rejecting EVERYBODY that asked him to. So I didn't. IDK why, but I kinds colapsed about 3 feet from him and started crying w/ my friends by my side. They were gunna ask for me, but I swear I threatened them... I don't recall. But we saw two of his friend pulling him off his chair and in my direction, but he sat back down... Wish I would've asked him. Talked to him a few months laterz and he said he would have danced with me, before his sister came (his older sister showed up about 10 b4 is was over). Who was this boy you may ask? Yeah, you guessed it: Aaron. ..... So my point is: ask them. It's better then not. Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
stupidsoul1 Posted December 27, 2005 Posted December 27, 2005 You could always have a no, but you could get a yes. haha i asked a guy out once that was funny anyways. just ask, if he rejects you then you can move on..atleast you wont have to keep thinking about it and let it eat you from the inside out. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Maggot Faggot Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 walk up to him,push him to the floor,and ask "hey bitch! wanna go with me to the dance??!!",then kick him and walk away. Quote
Shadowed Heart Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Oh yeah, ^^ great advice. :) and if he cums after u, he luvs u, even if it's to say no and kick you back. but if he doesn't, go back 5 mins later, and do it again unti;' he says yes. it always works like a charm. Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
Maggot Faggot Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 hell yeh! for sure! it works for me Quote
Shadowed Heart Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 XD, actually, I think crying in a corner works better, but hey, that's an awesome choice as well, but seperate urself from ur friends from time to time, in all seriouness, if u want him to ask you, it's a good chance he won't ask you if ur w/ them, that is if u would rather have them ask you... Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
By_My-elf Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 why do all that just ask'em When a girl ask's me I'm not brave enough to do it but I say I would but I'm too much of a Anti-social wus LOL Quote [broken External Image]:http://img87.imageshack.us/my.php?image=signature002jo8.jpg Can't get my sig to work
Sygy Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 ok. this is what you do. you throw a net over some guy preferably good looking. you know. then you torture him untill he says yes. joking umm..send him a note in class or something. Quote iam mors sola fuga est [broken External Image]:http://img409.imageshack.us/img409/9977/n76430001741552817731hb2.jpg
By_My-elf Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 why that why don't you just ask a guy but then again scared of the truth Quote [broken External Image]:http://img87.imageshack.us/my.php?image=signature002jo8.jpg Can't get my sig to work
misery Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Most guys, including myself, like to be asked out by girls.. it's kind of flattering, lol. And yes, I know that sounded kind of retarded, but it's true. So just go up and ask. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img108.imageshack.us/img108/9403/untitled28ic6.jpg [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/1118/22wc5.jpg [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/2756/7mi3.jpg
stupidsoul1 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 walk up to him' date='push him to the floor,and ask "hey bitch! wanna go with me to the dance??!!",then kick him and walk away.[/quote'] Glad to know you asked a guy out to a dance =( Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Cloud Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 As bad or good (if your a lad) as a mans ego is... I don't think he won't like being asked out. So if your worried about him saying no. Don't worry, because when you say something back funny (maybe insulting him or make it sound like you was joking) he will probably believe you! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5db114ce5078c1bc868260c3094bb843.jpg
Pheonix791989 Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 man i wish it was just as easy asking as it is giving advice on the threads. im hoping to get up enough courage to ask out a guy myself. >< Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/905b4d5028c3e3d1ceb11b9069165e4b.jpg "You can't please everyone and trying to do so is the kiss of death."- criss angel
Cloud Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Same as before, look I maybe gifted so much in a way that I don't have trouble at all speaking to people. But I usually just do it, get it over and done with. Last time I had trouble is when my GF got rid of me, it lasted a day before I was talking to her. Now if you approach him with his/her mates there. It will be difficult, try and catch him alone or pull him away for 2 seconds. Don't rush it but don't drag it. simple words... '' look *whoever your talking to* I've really liked you for some time now, and I was wondering *lil pause* would you go out with me? '' Or '' will you go to the dance with me? '' Then from the reply take it from there... I really hope this helps.Last time I asked a girl out I said (in here ear ) '' Hey babe, I know your expecting this but will ya go out with me? '' She wispered back '' course.'' Then pulling away from her I said ''ok cool so ill phone u later right?'' She said '' yea '' walked off and I DID phone her Hope this helps... Maybe training your confidence, I found it easier practicing on a teacher. You know talking to them normally then it evolved from there... :thumbsup: Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5db114ce5078c1bc868260c3094bb843.jpg
Stenners Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 I have said this before but guys like to be asked, the is no pride to be lost in it. It's also bout delivery try to sound confident, but not overly confident but dont stammer and seem shy 1 Quote Delete my account, the is no reason why it should be against standard procediure, do it do it do it. Or LPF Sessions 3 leaks before it's done and Spoilers will be posted for every film release. Not to mention periodic troll invasions.
keza Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 everyone makes it seem so easy haha id say just ask but then im a wimp and i wouldnt ask myself...so i dont want to seem like a hypocrite...but yeah Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/ce845b5e1cfffbb4e7ea78abcb7bf1ae.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/3b7255122472a9285083158e67a4c66b.jpg
Maggot Faggot Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Glad to know you asked a guy out to a dance =( ahahahahahahhaha Quote
underscore59 Posted February 4, 2006 Posted February 4, 2006 wow...I was wrong on that one...the guys that I knew liked the "shy approach"...so much for that theory... Quote
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