Guts

[woodyloveslinkin]

I need some guts to ask someone out. Cos im in the "retard" and "popular" group, and he's in the "highest popular" group, and if he rejects me, i am going to end up like crap becuase i am a 3 weeker newbie at the school and i am so mad about him. I've gotten to know him (my mistake learnt with ex bf *cough maggot faggot cough*) and he's pretty funny and nice.

Now i need the guts. He likes me because he always talks to me, and we crack jokes together. and he showed me around the school, which was really nice of him.

[CCB_Faint]

Why not just him out for a coffee or something ( that is if you drink coffee LOL )

Make it a real casual thing like.... ' Hey im going for a coffee ( drink, something to eat, WHATEVER maybe the case ) you wanna come ??? ' That way if he says no, you can just go ok no worries maybe next time and leave it at that. No pressure and no embarressment. Then if he says yes, you take it from there. Play it casual and cool

[By_My-elf]

that sounds nice but you should IDK Let's see HHhmmm.......

....just do it cause just think Atleast I tried but it will

probably screw up the firnedship

[.hP.]

I totally agree with CCB Faint. Cool, calm and relaxed!!

Deff the way to go.

[Hahninator]

im such a pussy, I get so nervous and scared I cant even ask a good friend thats a girl to go see a movie....its sad....

[CCB_Faint]

Confidence isnt something your born with,

Its something you work on for years and years.

I had no confidence until i was about 25yo.

 

GAWD that makes me sound old huh!

[LP186]

fortunately for me i dont really have that problem

i find is quite easy to ask girls out, but i can understand why other people cant

its just a confidence thing, and you really dont have anything to lose

if he says no, well you gave it a shoot, you should be proud of yourself for having a go

[Clogz]

Just swallow your fear and ask, and forget the stereotypes. Sounds like your pressure is coming not from asking the guy out, but from being labeled.

[stupidsoul1]

Don't worry about getting rejected after all if you are in the popular group there will always be someone that wants to go out with you.

so if you ask him out and he says no, then maybe someone that likes you will get the courage to ask you out.

 

if he says no, then i guess you could always be really close friends, if he says yes that would be great.

 

um...observe his body language, if he seems to like you then you should go for it, if he seems to not like you then ask him anyway because he maybe scared to show feelings.

[Heart_LP]

heh..it really isn't as easy as it sounds

but atleast you know that he likes you. That makes things even easier!

I mean, you did mention that in your post so..

As Fiona said, he maybe can be scare to show his feelings, maybe his scared of being rejected too! who knows

so I say, ask him out :thumbsup:

it really isn't as easy as it sounds *sigh*

[woodyloveslinkin]

im such a pussy' date=' I get so nervous and scared I cant even ask a good friend thats a girl to go see a movie....its sad....[/quote']

 

 

that's how i feel. still.

[stupidsoul1]

It really is as easy as it sounds, if you just relax and breathe.

[woodyloveslinkin]

okay i just called him and he sounded nervous, and i was totally freaking outn and asked for his mobile number and he's like "why?"

and im like "cos"

i don't know if its me or not, but he sounded freaked out.

I hope he doesn't find out that i like him, because my reputation will be up for grabs.

[By_My-elf]

oh yeah rep My rep at school is a satanic retard and someone took it from me ;_;

but I took it back by showing'em what I got to do to be satanic *evil laughs*

and sarah don't worr yi use to like this chick and she liked me but both of us

just stayed friends in the end and also It hurt me inside ;_; So Just to tell you it might help you out in your decision

[stupidsoul1]

my rep at school is basically the same one i have had since like forever...so i dont know what it is like to change that that much

 

i mean, your social status shouldnt depend on one thing not working out.

 

even though you think i stabbed you in the back, i am here for you.

when you asked for his number you should of just said you just wanted it...after all you did

you could of also ask for other people to give you their numbers so you could of added more people in your phone and made it not look over obvious.

[Blue Sky Turtles]

hey, aren't you going to Redlands? Jeez, your repuatation is fucked if you make one big mistake like this. It's private, its 100x more exclusive than any other skool other than Harvard and Yale and it's 100x more risks involved.

 

 

Take Care.

[stupidsoul1]

just because it is more exclusive, doesn't mean that she can't get what she wants all she has to do is ask then she can find out if it is yes or no instead of just thinking if it was a yes or no.

 

 

people are people no matter what school we go to, we are all the same.

[woodyloveslinkin]

 

people are people no matter what school we go to, we are all the same.

 

You obviously don't know what it feels like to be in a private school.

[NYAH]

You have to try and seize the oppurtunity. Life dosen't wait for those who stand and watch it pass. Just do your best, muster up all your confidence and play it cool, AND BE YOURSELF AT ALL TIMES! Back when i dated, I loved it when a chick had the guts to ask me out, if he's been chattn to you heaps, then it would be pretty safe to ask him out. And hey, just coz he was nervous, id be guessing he might be having the same butterflies buzzing around his stomach as well. Good Luck

[stupidsoul1]

i agree with nyah

 

you shitting me, i wouldn't be caught dead going to a private school, my parents wanted me to go to one since i was little,i would hate to go to one.

 

feel sorry for you.

[linkinpark91393]

You obviously don't know what it feels like to be in a private school.

yea well i do. just ask him to go like, to, idk, just somewhere. if he says no just say 'ok thats cool.' theres nothing to it

[stupidsoul1]

yeah,or like when you and your friends are going out ask if he wants to go or bring some friends along.

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

Yeah bringing along friends might be a better idea if you're really shy. Although, please refrain from bringing your annoying giggling friends who will just ruin it for you lol

 

Wow your school is really stereotyped into groups aren't they lol? I've never known what's that like as we don't really have that at my high school at least lol. This rep thing is weird also! Well it sounds like you both like each other, just go for it, but do it really casually, as to not "freak him out" Go out for a movie together or something lol.

[woodyloveslinkin]

bringing friends along would be the best way to humilate myself.

[stupidsoul1]

oh please, when we hung out with anson you two seemed to get along just fine, i mean you said some blonde things that made sally and vickie go...dumb ass -____-'' but they were pretty funny things, electronic staircase was funny..even you laughed.

 

LMAO remember when we wanted to watch that hindi movie, so we came all the way out to see you but we watched batman instead.