LP_Soldier Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 Usually it doesn't bother me when my friends dont like a guy that Im really into. But lately, my "best friend" has been irritating the shit out of me, and now her girlfriend has started (yeah, she is a lesbian). Every single time I see them, they full out yell at me and get so pissed off at me because I like this guy, and they dont. Sure, he was an asshole to them, but that's only because they started shit with him first. He's a really nice, sweet, funny guy (well, to me. We're in the same class together, along with my best friend). She is constantly saying shit about him, and she wonders why he's mean to her. I just can't stand it. Besides, how is me liking this guy her problem anyways? It has no effect on her. She claims she does this "because she's concerned about me", but I know thats just BS. With her, its a personal preference thing. She hates him, therefore none of her friends should have anything to do with him. She would be the first person to snap at me if I ever made fun of her gf, and her saying shit about this guy is the exact same. I'm just so pissed off at her! Sorry, I needed to get that off my chest Quote [broken External Image]:http://prodegebanners.sitegrip.com/images/chesterbennington-468x60.jpg Sign up and refer me please?
Clogz Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Friends who don't want thier friends to be happy, aren't good friends at all. If they get mad at you over liking a guy, then like you said, they aren't looking out for your best interests. Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
stupidsoul1 Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 I don't know what it would be like to be in your situation, but i would do what i believe is right. maybe you should tell your friend to calm down with the teasing, because like you said she would snap at you if you said anything about her girl. try to tell her what you feel about it and try and compromise something. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Mikes_Shadow Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 I suggest you tell her to shut up. It's your opinion. She can't control it. That reminds me SO much of my friends group.. and the guy I have a crush on at the moment T_T Quote hurr durr [broken External Image]:http://img11.imageshack.us/img11/3860/dffhgfhfghfgfghhg.jpg http://www.last.fm/user/fAgalloch
keza Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 i dunno, really it depends on the guy u like; if he really is good for u, if you can honestly say hand on heart that he is looking out for u in the best possible way ur friend should understand and respect that... my friends going out with a total dick atm...hes played her arouind more times than i can count on both hands...but we all keep our mouths shut>.< tell ur friend...and when she says snide comments try not to react..not getting a response sometimes irratates a person into silence^^ good luck with it though!!! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/ce845b5e1cfffbb4e7ea78abcb7bf1ae.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/3b7255122472a9285083158e67a4c66b.jpg
LP_Soldier Posted March 8, 2006 Author Posted March 8, 2006 Thanks for your help everyone. It's hard when you have to comfront your best friend about something like that. I did try and talk to her, and so did my other friend, on countless accations. But she is still so adminent about staying mad at me. Oh, well. Maybe she'll come around soon Quote [broken External Image]:http://prodegebanners.sitegrip.com/images/chesterbennington-468x60.jpg Sign up and refer me please?
Cloud Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Well you gotta look at this from all points of view, and I'm pretty sure you have... I'm typing this just incase you have missed something out. Your friend's P.O.V! Well from what you have said... assuming you've talked to her about it (she says '' she is concerned for you '') and prolly is. You may have a rlly bad crush on this guy and not see him for what he is! I can't see her doing this for no reson so lets go to the extreme... She might like you, or have feelings. This shows the urge to not lose you to another person. This dudes P.O.V Well he likes you obviously if he chats to you and isn't horrible to ya! So... I don't know the guy I aint gonna judge right now... You You may just have a crush right... I mean if youve liked him for some time it feels right now that your getting to know him. But your friend keep bugging ya, so tell her to stop it. If something goes wrong say sorry for not listening... all in all just go for it, tell ur friend (not aggresivly) to stop bugging you about it. and talk to her about it! as for the dude if hes nice good lukc babe hope this helps Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5db114ce5078c1bc868260c3094bb843.jpg
CCB_Faint Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Your friend doesnt like him because ?? He was an asshole ? Arent most males at some point in time ? ( Just like most females are bitches at some point in time aswell ) If shes your best friend, you should be able to tell her to BACK OFF without her getting all pissy at ya. Best friends take the good with the bad, And if they dont take the bad, Then they AINT best friends~!! Quote " I am, a little bit insecure, a little unconfident Cuz you don't understand I do what I can " [LP] [broken External Image]:http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e180/faint_lpu/LPCS.jpg
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