jomama10691 Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 My boyfriend of 6 months cheated on me and broke up with me this morning. See, he moved to michigan, but said that he was so madly in love with me he would come back, live on the streets as a bum, when he turns 18. He told me that i was going to be his wife, and that he would love me forever. He was terrified about me cheating on him, because i dunno. He said that he would love me forever. If i broke up with him, he would have nothing to live for. He would turn to heroin, because living without me would be a fate worse then death. WELL HE HAD ME FUCKING CONVINCED this morning he calls me, leaves a message "Joelle *boo hoo* i *boo hoo* cant do this anymore, im breaking up with you, bye *boo hoo*" THE FUCK? My mom bought him a $600 plane ticket, to come down here for spring break. He pulls this shit? I call him back Joelle: Yeah im cancelling your plane ticket Dan: *mumble* fuck. Joelle i had to...i cheated on you Joelle: ok Dan: Im sorry Joelle: ok Dan: you dont seem that upset Joelle: well im not going to lose any sleep over a pathetic faggot like you. its your fucking loss, dan. *hang up* I was kind of already losing feelings for him. Like i could tell i wasnt going to be with him forever. But i felt like i would be obligated to stay with him, because he was going to live on the streets for me. But i feel so fucking betrayed. I dunno im young and that was to serious anyone wanna go kill him? ive been sober for 11 days and im being drug tested and i hope i pass Quote [broken External Image]:http://img145.exs.cx/img145/1144/hereugo9sp.gif ~ ~ If my music is too loud... your too old ~ ~
azemkamikaze03 Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 that sucks...yeah love tends to be and overate peice of shit...everyone tries to step on it becuase people says it'll feel good but once they step on it they realize it was all a lie and its just shit and they regret it and hurt Quote ¿whysoserious?
By_My-elf Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 Love I don't wanna even go ner that kinda stuff what I'd say you should do is stay away from that It is a big bitch and no control over it It just does what ever and in the end you realise their is no love I see that so many times I tell my friends not to hook back up with them and what do you see the next day their back together I tell evryone I have no love for anyone and anything I'm scared of love I guess you can say but really I despise love trust me love is a Myth Quote [broken External Image]:http://img87.imageshack.us/my.php?image=signature002jo8.jpg Can't get my sig to work
allieking Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 poor you but hey at least you don't have to feel guilty anymore, just put it down to experiance and don't let another man fool you again, you know what they say....we learn from our mistakes. he will want you back before you want him and when he does tell him to fuck off anfd that you have a new man (even if you don't) that will piss him off even more, if he calls you get your mum to answer and tell her to tell him your out with your new boyfriend. young love is nasty when it goes wrong but belive me this wont be the firs time this will happen, its taken me 27 years and lots of broken hearts to get the man i always wanted, but i have learnt alot through the experiances i have had. good luck hun and please don't turn to drink or h will have got whet he wanted...to make you unhappy. Quote [broken External Image]:http://www.inoshishi.co.uk/allie/aa.png
stupidsoul1 Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 *hugs* this shit never seems to end for you does it? wow, i thought i felt pretty cut yesterday about my friends betting how long i would go out with my boyfriend for...his ex even betting money. but this shit is wack, hopefully one day he will realise that he probably deserves to be a bum. look on the bright side that is $600 saved && you are sober, i guess that is always good.. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Shadowed Heart Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 lol, fiona has a point ^_^ Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
Clogz Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 Alot of things are easier said then done, and this one point. Moving that far away and still expecting to have the kind of relationship you had is something only a person in love could imagine. He may have loved you, but he realized just as you were slowly realizing, that it just wasn't going to work. Cheating is definitly not right, but at the same time you shouldn't be totally surprised. Love isn't an "overrated piece of shit", its a very complicated, and at times, irrational emotion. And it sounds like he was a victim of it...I would say, just forget about it and start over. You'll find someone else... And btw: If he was a real gentleman, he would have payed for at least half that ticket himself. ;[ Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
Fort_Underground Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 I feel sorry for you. You have my pity. I myself have never found myself in that kind of jam, hell, I've never even had a girlfriend. And I'll probably go my entire life without one, but I don't care, I could I miss something if I don't know what it's like? Quote I am the guy on the forums that your conservative parents warned you about Victory not Vengence
jomama10691 Posted March 20, 2006 Author Posted March 20, 2006 I guess i am better off without him I needed to start my life over, and maybe he was holding me back well for those that stuck around me (Clogz, Fiona, Azem, etc.), through the times of jail, thoughts of suicide, other cheating accusations, Im doing so much better. I'm almost off probation, I've dropkicked those fuckfaces that hurt me the most (all of them are either hospitalized, dead, pregnant, criminals, or a runaway), and all my grades are A's and B's. I'm no longer going to rehab, and I get to go to a kickass concert in July. This white trash exboyfriend of mine can kiss my ass! Im going to live the single life for a while, and i will sooo take the advice of saying fuck off, eh? to him if he ever wants me back. He had a really teeny weeny anyways hahaha. I really thought that things would work out. If it were true love, it would have, so now i know it wasn't. My heart is not broken, but it is fractured. Just like everything else, I'll get through it, and end with a BANG. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img145.exs.cx/img145/1144/hereugo9sp.gif ~ ~ If my music is too loud... your too old ~ ~
By_My-elf Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 That is good that you choose to be on your own trust me you don't wanna mess arpund with that I Despise that crap it ruins manything only someone observant can see it others who are in love Don't think anything changes but trust me everything changes Quote [broken External Image]:http://img87.imageshack.us/my.php?image=signature002jo8.jpg Can't get my sig to work
stupidsoul1 Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Go son! the joelle we love is back in action =) great to see you home bean *hugs* Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Jeezy Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Love I don't wanna even go ner that kinda stuff what I'd say you should do is stay away from that It is a big bitch and no control over it It just does what ever and in the end you realise their is no love I see that so many times I tell my friends not to hook back up with them and what do you see the next day their back together I tell evryone I have no love for anyone and anything I'm scared of love I guess you can say but really I despise love trust me love is a Myth Totally Agree :thumbsup: Quote
Xero_ Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 distance matters...that another example...i'll give a piece of advice to ya'll: if your boy/girlfriend's outta town leave her/him.Cause cheatin's just a matter o' time,it hurts a lot believe me.I know this' post's one of the tons about this theme and i know you're not gonna trust me,but i know it's a thing ya'll should know Quote Flooders Thou Art http://senseof.rallybulgaria.com/ [broken External Image]:http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b275/Bronson_/ISaid.gif
stupidsoul1 Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Agreed, but i don't feel hurt...then again he left me before he did anything too damaging so i'm greatful for that. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Pyro_Storm Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 that sucks but im glad your starting over and doing better. best o luck to ya. can only go up right? Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5d41cad541cb99e851cc86e189b31b53.gifhttp://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/760db76fa57a9e3c2a63d299d03c32c7.gifhttp://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/c420507aea37de91fb9a2b6b73a6e595.jpg
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