Coming Out to Your Parents = Getting kicked out of house.

[Person]

Personally...I don't care of other homosexual people, BUT, if any of my sons or daughters said they were homosexual, i'd kick them out as well. its reality dude...i mean, just like hahn...i wouldn't put up with it either >.>

 

sorry as well.

[xXMelancholiaXx]

I remember telling my mom I was gay. She even more surprised when I told her I wanted to be a girl. She's gotten over the shock and everything and we get along pretty well now fornately for me. Although most of my family tries to avoid me now. -_-

[Person]

i'd understand why they do...

i have a gay uncle...and i have nothing against the dude, but idk. it just feels weird...i try to avoid him...and now i feel bad =/

[xXMelancholiaXx]

I don't even like my family so it doesn't bother me that much. Though it does get annoying at times.

[Person]

being practically disowned by yor family must suck though >.> i mean, no matter how much you hate them or how much it doesnt bother you, it must blow =/

[xXMelancholiaXx]

being practically disowned by yor family must suck though >.> i mean' date=' no matter how much you hate them or how much it doesnt bother you, it must blow =/[/quote']

Yes it does. It's also caused me to have a lot of psychological issues. And people wonder why I listen to Black Metal and worship satan.

[Person]

LOL

 

i guess it goes away over time...right?

but yea, i mean, its nothing personal agains homosexuals...its just =/ it seems too unnatural (no offense). I also have no problem with people that i dont know being homosexual but if they're relatives, it'd just be plain weird. im sorry you have to go through all that stuff >.>

[xXMelancholiaXx]

i guess it goes away over time...right?

The psychological problems or worshipping satan and listening to Black Metal?

 

im sorry you have to go through all that stuff >.>

Oh it's not so bad you get use to it after a while.

[GraDoN]

Just saw this thread.

 

I really am disappointed to say that I would have done exactly what his parents would have done. I don't put up with that crap.

 

Sorry dude.

ya same

well i dont think ill kick him out of the house but ill sure as hell send him away where he can get help...

[xXMelancholiaXx]

Help for what?

[GraDoN]

to eat cereal with a spoon....

[xXMelancholiaXx]

to eat cereal with a spoon....

Har. Never got why people think gays should get help or something. My mom tried to do the same thing with me. She was hoping sending me to therapy would would "save me from homosexuality." She was disappointed because it didn't change anything. People don't choose to be like this. I mean it's a lot easier to be "normal." Whatever that is.

[geeko]

good thing you dont think much about it..its mind blowing.

hey im logging out..

[.hP.]

My mum, she took it...well i dont know what word describes they way she took it.

 

'Mum im gay.'

'No your not.' *walks away*

 

and thats is all she said. I have now been with my girlfriend for 8 months and she's fine with it. Loves her actually.

 

And my dad, well his reaction nearlly made me piss my pants in laughter.

 

'Dad im gay.'

'thats totally cool....*long pause*......so whos hotter?? *pulls out the porn mags he has*...this is going to be fun!!!!'

 

It sucks that you've been kicked out though man. I mean your still human, it's not like being attracted to the same sex changes your DNA or anything. My outlook on the whole 'if my kids are gay i'd kick them out' problem is...if the parent says that and actually follows through with it if it happens, then in my eyes they certainly are not ready to bare a child...

 

Im here for you too kaycee!

-hugs-

[xXMelancholiaXx]

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My outlook on the whole 'if my kids are gay i'd kick them out' problem is...if the parent says that and actually follows through with it if it happens, then in my eyes they certainly are not ready to bare a child...

Quoted for verity.

[Friðbjörn]

can't say I understand your situation kc, all I can say is sorry your folks took it that way...sad

 

I don't know if you really read them all, but don't let some of the replies in here get to you.

another thing that you know, but I feel I must say: You can't change who you are. if some people (even your parents) can't handle that, it's their problem, not yours. obviously that doesn't help much though, cause they take it out on you.

life's unfair