LPpinkfreak821 Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 So there's this kid named Aaron. He's really cool and I've known him since sometime in June. He's really nice and funny. His parents are really cool. well, he likes me. He keeps asking me out and I dont know what to say to him. I mean I'll change the subject [cuz I'm good at that. I can change a subject without someone noticing]. Well, Friday night... me & him were sitting outside and it was cold so we were sitting pretty close together. He kissed me. . . and then asked me out and I didn't know what to say... so you know what I said. .. I DIDN'T SAY YES!... I said Maybe. Now he won't leave me alone. I couldnt just not answer & change the subject cuz we weren't talking... we were kissing. So now... he's like "have you thought about it" and I think he's cool and he's cute. but I dont like him like that. BUT I dont want to hurt him because I did lead him on. so I dont want to be like "No" or "I dont like you like that" cuz he REALLY likes me. & promised my friend, Ivy, that I wouldn't date him because I dont want to hurt him. I have this habit of dating guys that I dont even like and she made me promise to not date him so that way i wont hurt him, but I what the hell am I suppsoed to do!? Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
By_My-elf Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 shit like this is annoyin I know that same shit happened to me with two chicks ended up with a fight.. but I didn care. but your is diff to mine. I would say just don't bother and tell him "no" and their you go it's done with. if hes gonna be pissed or anyhting that means he can't respect you...and your decisions. And no body likes to be disrespected...and after he cools off just try to talk. if he doesn want to...than he doesn like you as a friend. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img87.imageshack.us/my.php?image=signature002jo8.jpg Can't get my sig to work
J-Sun Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 Not good, the best thing to do without hurting his feelings. OK, sayig "No." will piss him off, and you don't want to do that. So say this instead, " Have you ever thought of what I feel? " That's not gonna hurt him, just gonna make him think for a while. Just say Bye afterwards, and hang up or go away or whatever. AS for your Ivy friend, I think she likes Aaron. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5626680a528810ead182f7d28ca6fd39.png
Black_Angel Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 You'll have to tell him how you feel somehow, just let him down gently, say that you still want to be friends, tell him what you like about him but that you just don't like him in that way. Hopefully you can still remain friends, but I can see this getting in the way of a friendship, it's kinda happened to me before. Quote i still love you, girl from mars.
Jeezy Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 Just tell him that you don't have the same feelings for him... He's gonna understand that... Quote
LPpinkfreak821 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Posted November 1, 2006 Thanks. I'm still not sure about what I'm going to do. I just don't want to hurt him. And I know that Ivy doesn't like him. I dont know.... I'll just have to figure something out. Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
mistressravenna Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Krista Loves Aaron! Oh wait... HE LOVES HER! Quote
LPpinkfreak821 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Posted November 1, 2006 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . everyone meet Ivy. . . . . Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
Clogz Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Not telling him the truth, is leading him on. Remember that. Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
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