What can I do if...

[MiindLess]

...So I have a crush on this guy and he likes me too...Problem is...he always has to be right and he doesn't like me questioning him. I really do love him because he's always there but I just don't want to hurt his feelings. One time I told him that he was being way too bossy and he got a bit sensitive and didn't talk to me for 2 days. He still loves me though....but...I don't know what to do.

[crazy robster]

Oh, he's rather opinionated isn't he? Well... see I know the problem is you have a crush on him and that doesn't let you judge objectively or be mad at him...When we have a crush on somebody we tend to turn a blind eye to the other person't flaws, we tend to forgive everything... But what if that crush is gone? All of a sudden, what seemed trivial now becomes enormous!!! What you have to do is try and think; is he too oppressive towards you? Does his behaviour smother you and your personality, even if you don't want to admit it because you're lovestruck? Is he so bossy to the point of making you feel you lack the right to express any opinion whatsoever? If so, then I guess as much as you love him, he's not the right guy for you. But if those things he is opinionated about are not that important...like for example he insists on going to watch thrillers while you love comedies then I suggest you put up with that. If you love him as much as you say you do then you wouldn't mind playing along sometimes, would you?? Hope I helped, even a bit...