wrist cutters

[Peterdea]

i hate it when people cut. there is little or no need for it. if you cut, i suggest you get help before you cut yourself too deep. It's not worth it!

by the way, can anyone tell me the reason people cut themselves (not as in cuz they are dperessed, more why they do it when they are dperessed.) ?

i never got that at all. is it supposed to proove something

[LPShinodaFM]

I hate it when people cut for attention.

 

That's like committing suicide because it's cool.

[Peterdea]

so its attention?

 

if they want attention and they cut urself for it, all thats going to happen is shit is going to flow behind their backs and they will end up mroe dperessed!

[LPShinodaFM]

i don't think all of them does it for attention, but there are people who does it because others do it. Strange, indeed. I would never cut myself because my friends do it. My wrists are too pretty for that ><

 

lol

[Peterdea]

lol

i still don't get WHY ANYONE WOULD INFLICT PAIN ON THEMSELVES TO BE NOTICED! THATS BULLSHIT!

lol

i'm over this topic. i hate cutters, end of story!

[LPShinodaFM]

I agree that it's not good to cut, but i dont' think that's something to be hated. I think they should just realize what's right and stop (like you said) inflicting pain on themselves

 

Not talking about those attention-wanters... But i mean when you get to a stage when life is so crap you hafta cut yourself, you should really just start being practical, face reality, and try to overcome this whole thing. Cutting is like using alcohol to forget about your problems, momentarily. It just doesn't help.

[Peterdea]

I agree that it's not good to cut, but i dont' think that's something to be hated. I think they should just realize what's right and stop (like you said) inflicting pain on themselves

 

Not talking about those attention-wanters... But i mean when you get to a stage when life is so crap you hafta cut yourself, you should really just start being practical, face reality, and try to overcome this whole thing. Cutting is like using alcohol to forget about your problems, momentarily. It just doesn't help.

dude have u ever tried to convince a cutter to stop?

it's an impossible job for the average person.

im not comming back to this topic after saying this:

IF YOU CUT, GO GET PROFFESIONAL HELP!

[LPShinodaFM]

dude, of course i know that cutters won't stop just because you tell them "It's bad for you" lol, what i'm just trying to say is, in the real world, no one can help you except for yourself. No one can make you realize what's the best for you, cuz you might not listen. If you want to cut, drink, do drugs, etc etc, then do what you think is right. But i mean if you really just *realize* it's just so much easier...

[linkinparker1]

dude' date=' of course i know that cutters won't stop just because you tell them "It's bad for you" lol, what i'm just trying to say is, in the real world, no one can help you except for yourself. No one can make you realize what's the best for you, cuz you might not listen. If you want to cut, drink, do drugs, etc etc, then do what you think is right. But i mean if you really just *realize* it's just so much easier...[/quote']

i appreciate your input and think you're 100% right! i wouldnt argue with a thing you said.

you shouldnt hate cutters.

they just need help and maybe a little love.

[Peterdea]

dude' date=' of course i know that cutters won't stop just because you tell them "It's bad for you" lol, what i'm just trying to say is, in the real world, no one can help you except for yourself. No one can make you realize what's the best for you, cuz you might not listen. If you want to cut, drink, do drugs, etc etc, then do what you think is right. But i mean if you really just *realize* it's just so much easier...[/quote']

the way i see it, if they don't want to accept help then they can go fuck themselves. They aren't going to just suddenly realize it's a bad idea and stop. because it REALY OBVIOUSLY ALREADY IS a bad idea, no matter what way you look at it.

And it's realy obviously not the right thing to do aswell.

The reason i hate them so much is because they are all depressed, they try to get attention, but when help is offered to them they just shut it out. Who wants to let themselves be depressed seriously?!?

oh yeah, i said i wasn't comming back but, eh whatever.

[GraDoN]

haha petry i agree with you... if you want to help them and they dont stop then you tried.. then they can go cut. atleast u gave it a shot.

[LPShinodaFM]

I'm not telling you to go console them and to make them stop cutting... i'm just saying, you don't have to hate them for what they do... I think hating ppl should be as individuals, not as something like hating all cutters or hating all jocks and etc

 

But if you don't think that way, i can't convince you. It's just like how you can't convince someone from cutting

 

GraDoN is right, if you've already tried (and you don't have to try at all) to convicne them, just let them be

[Dayzd]

Somebody said they thought cutting is selfish, just like suicide. I totally agree. I have a sister who used to cut, and it really hurt me and her friends. But i guess its just some people's way of venting emotions. Me, I just yell at people and burn things.

[Peterdea]

Somebody said they thought cutting is selfish, just like suicide. I totally agree. I have a sister who used to cut, and it really hurt me and her friends. But i guess its just some people's way of venting emotions. Me, I just yell at people and burn things.

and i do the same as you... yell at people and burn shit!!! and sometime damage my already completely fucked garage door... which isnt realy a door anymore.... ... ...

anyway about cutting...

in the words of my new slang, it is the weakest, un-fistowrthy thing to do. well that adn suicide.

i dotn have anything against people that suicide when they are realy sick adn in pain from like cancer or something like that. once pain becomes unbearable then whats the point of having it if there is a 0% chance its gonna get better?

[yoh asakura4]

I think your giving good advice linkinparker1 I believe in God. Ive thought about cutting myself before I just didnt do it.

[Hahninator]

Somebody said they thought cutting is selfish, just like suicide. I totally agree. I have a sister who used to cut, and it really hurt me and her friends. But i guess its just some people's way of venting emotions. Me, I just yell at people and burn things.

 

ok....how the fuck is suicide selfish?

[LPShinodaFM]

Because the people alive would be sad.

 

BUT if the suicider's family and friends were totally useless during their time of need for help, or didn't attempt to try harder, i guess if i was the one depressed, I wouldn't think "Gee, if i committed suicide, then my friends and family would be sad" and decide not to. Even though it's difficult to persuade people to abstain hurting themselves, a lot of the suicides occur without the people around them actually knowing the situation beforehand. When they find out, of course they would be miserable... because they didn't do anything beforehand that could have stopped the suicide.

 

People commit suicide because they don't have anyone who can reach out to them properly and solve their problems and does not have the moral strength to get over their problems themselves. So as the friends/family of the person hurting himself/herself, they are responsible for helping them too.

 

EDIT: Did i contradict myself lol? @_@

[Chelsea x Horror]

Hi, I would just like to say a few things about cutting and religion.

 

some of you may have read I posted about cutting called "cutting: a serious Issue". I have a new sn now because my other account got hacked and was acting really funky so I just decided to make a new one anyways. Also because I hadn't been on in years. you may remember me, but I won't be surprised if you don't. My Old SN was xpaintballvixenx.

 

Anyways Moving on.

 

Cutting is definitely something a lot of young adults and teens/pre teens think about. Honestly, If the thought hasn't crossed your mind at least once than you are lucky. Those of you who have thought about it and decided not too, Congratulations!!

 

Someone (I don't feel like quoting everyone) one page 2 said that your life isnt as bad as other peoples. that everyone should look at the big picture. Well, sometimes thats a lot easier said than done. Sometimes its very easy to just get upset and look for some kind of release.

 

I am not religious, But sometimes it does help me to pray, Seeing has I've only been cut free for about... 4 months. maybe 5. I didn't cut my wrists,. however. I cut my thighs. on any given day you could see...50 or more cuts on each thigh.it was hard for me to stop, but I met someone who cut worse than I did and had been very very seriously depressed for 10 years. and I helped him and he helped me.

 

But for those of you who think cutting is stupid, you're right. But you also say that it doesn't do anything... there you are wrong. cutting for ME, helped me calm down and focus. all the emotional pain I couldn't control, but the physical pain, I could say "i cut myself. Its bleeding. It hurts. I know what caused the pain and I know how to stop it."

 

I could go on, but i'll let you guys ask questions if you need to. I don't want to hijack this thread.

[Stllmn8j]

Hi, I would just like to say a few things about cutting and religion.

 

some of you may have read I posted about cutting called "cutting: a serious Issue". I have a new sn now because my other account got hacked and was acting really funky so I just decided to make a new one anyways. Also because I hadn't been on in years. you may remember me, but I won't be surprised if you don't. My Old SN was xpaintballvixenx.

 

Anyways Moving on.

 

Cutting is definitely something a lot of young adults and teens/pre teens think about. Honestly, If the thought hasn't crossed your mind at least once than you are lucky. Those of you who have thought about it and decided not too, Congratulations!!

 

Someone (I don't feel like quoting everyone) one page 2 said that your life isnt as bad as other peoples. that everyone should look at the big picture. Well, sometimes thats a lot easier said than done. Sometimes its very easy to just get upset and look for some kind of release.

 

I am not religious, But sometimes it does help me to pray, Seeing has I've only been cut free for about... 4 months. maybe 5. I didn't cut my wrists,. however. I cut my thighs. on any given day you could see...50 or more cuts on each thigh.it was hard for me to stop, but I met someone who cut worse than I did and had been very very seriously depressed for 10 years. and I helped him and he helped me.

 

But for those of you who think cutting is stupid, you're right. But you also say that it doesn't do anything... there you are wrong. cutting for ME, helped me calm down and focus. all the emotional pain I couldn't control, but the physical pain, I could say "i cut myself. Its bleeding. It hurts. I know what caused the pain and I know how to stop it."

 

I could go on, but i'll let you guys ask questions if you need to. I don't want to hijack this thread.

 

You raise some good points. Support from others who have gone through the same experience is usually the thing than can help some one the most.

 

As far as religion,I belive that if you're comfortable with it,it can really help with your problems. You don't have to go to church every week,but knowing someone is there that will listen can really help someone get through their problems

[misery]

ok....how the fuck is suicide selfish?

Think of how your family and friends would feel if you killed yourself.

 

That's how.

[littleblackstone]

Well, before reading all this I cant help of saying something...

 

About 3 years ago, I have many problems with my mom, like.. We were yelling all the time with each other, for stupid reasons.. I dont know how to explain this.. I just couldnt stand her, and she couldnt stand me.. at the point she hits me.. yes.. and I just couldnt do nothing, I just tried to defend myself ...

Well, after this, I went to my room, i lied on my bed for long time, and I just didn't nothing.. but listen to music very loud!!! YEAH!! And guess what band did I listen?? Of course.. MY GODS OF EVER: LINKIN PARK!!! Their lyrics helped sooo much in my life..I heard them when I was angry, I heard them when I was upset, I heard them when I was crying... That's why I call them My Gods, cause to me that's what they are. Each person has their own God...

Ok, u might be thinkin (ok, this girl is such a nerd... she will never ever understand us!!) OF COURSE I UNDERSTAND!! It's just.. There are a lot of ways to people get rid of their pain... I had mine.

It can seems VERY STUPID, but that's all I did, it was a way to let go all of my anger... And it helped me a lot.

I'v never cut myself (although I thought in suicide, stupidely, cause I've always been a coward to do it... or not!!)

 

 

So, basicly I'm just trying to tell u other ways less destructive and less painful fot u to release your pain!!!

 

Sorry if I made u waste your time...

Sorry if I can't help you...

and, Sorry if my English isn't completely correct...

 

>littleblackstone<

[eleonor]

Hi! I also think listening to music helps! Especially LINKIN PARK!!!

But I have the feeling, might as well be wrong, they often sing about self-injury (cutting in particular)...

Just some examples:

 

-Well... Foreword?

-By Myself - 'And give in to sad thoughts that are maddening?

Do I sit here and try to stand it?/... but then/I just end up getting hurt again/By myself'

-Crawling - 'Crawling in my skin/These wounds they will not heal

There's something inside me that pulls beneath the surface/Consuming/confusing

This lack of self-control I fear is never ending'

-Somewhere I belong - 'I will never feel anything else, until my wounds are healed

I will never be anything till I break away from me/I wanna heal...'

-Easier To Run - 'Than face all this pain here all alone

...The secret I've kept locked away no one can ever see

Wounds so deep they never show they never go away

...If I could change I would take back the pain I would'

-Faint - 'but I can’t help the fact that everyone can see these scars'

-Figure.09 (it's a part of me, anyway)

-Breaking The Habit - 'Like opening the wound'(I know it's a metaphor, but the video...?)

-Numb (the girl from the video ?)

-Part Of Me - 'the routine scar/New cuts cover where the old ones are...Cut myself free willingly

Stop just what’s killing me'

 

The way I feel it...

Any ideas?

[LPShinodaFM]

Well maybe not particularly hurting themselves, but LP is an angsty band. And we loves it.

[Stllmn8j]

I don't see how Foreword is about self-injury...

[eleonor]

You guys must be right, I'm just biased. :yes:

Trying to find some non-existent implicit meaning...