DarknessLover Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 As anyone that has read my Lyrics in the writer's corner, you can tell I am very emotional. I am not an emo. Ok so here is the deal. My girlfriend I have been dating for I would say about 5-6 months. The first 1-2 months, we were a secret and no one knew about us dating, I have to say those were the best times. Eventually people got smart, and saw us talking one day and holding each other. The next 1-2 months we were public and people knew. Those times really made me show how I felt about her. I lost some friends, but got new, better ones. We got in a fight about what I said to her friend. I had gotten really pissed off at her friend for saying that my girlfriend hated me, when she didn't. I said somethings I shouldn't have and we broke up for about 3 days, until I pracitcally broke down on the phone appologizing. After that, we had decided, we are saying we are a private relationship. For the rest of the months we have been private. Recently she has been really stressed, and she thought if we went on break she can settle the other things first. That was 3 weeks ago, she hasn't said I still Love you, or I Miss You, or anything like that and now I feel really deprived of love. Two days ago, I told her "...I still am madly in love with you, so tell me soon if we are going to get back together one of these days, or should I just move on..." I fear the answer now... My dilemma now is today I am going to find out, and if she says it's over, I am afraid of what I might say or do. If anyone could please help me out. please do. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 You should respect her decission...and don't get mad at her....maybe you'll still have a chance in the future....but I hope that she still wants to be with you....if not...you should still respect each other Quote
DarknessLover Posted January 20, 2007 Author Posted January 20, 2007 Yeah Jeezy thanks. Seriously thanks, i know the respect part, she is my best friend, i jsut wish she would understand that in a sense we were meant to be together. I mean honestly i am the only mature person in my school, i was walking from the school dance when i saw my two friends in a fist fight drunk out of there mind, what a effed up place we live in, huh? Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 Yeah Jeezy thanks. Seriously thanks' date=' i know the respect part, she is my best friend, i jsut wish she would understand that in a sense we were meant to be together. I mean honestly i am the only mature person in my school, i was walking from the school dance when i saw my two friends in a fist fight drunk out of there mind, what a effed up place we live in, huh?[/quote'] as I said before...I wish you the best of luck with her...and even if she wants a break...their will still be a chance for you...I mean a break doesn't mean that you are completly seperated...there's still a connection between you..I guess... Quote
DarknessLover Posted January 20, 2007 Author Posted January 20, 2007 actually thats my definition of it, hers is date other guys, but if there is a failure in that, i am technically the "Back Up" plan. Dude check out the other song i posted on Writers Corner. I am wrtiting another one right now. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 actually thats my definition of it' date=' hers is date other guys, but if there is a failure in that, i am technically the "Back Up" plan. Dude check out the other song i posted on Writers Corner. I am wrtiting another one right now.[/quote'] yeah...i know how you feel...you really should set things straight with her....rather you guys have a relationship....or you break up....I think there's no other solution Quote
Cloud Posted January 20, 2007 Posted January 20, 2007 Talk to her face to face about it. Try to make it serious as I find that will stop and lies that may be told. I think you should be fine, I mean a break from stress seams reasonable. Although I do question her needing time for an answer. I just hope for the best for you man. Welcome to the forums :thumbsup: Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5db114ce5078c1bc868260c3094bb843.jpg
DarknessLover Posted January 20, 2007 Author Posted January 20, 2007 yea well i am on the phone with her now. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
crazy robster Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 I wish you the best of luck with it mate! I really do! Cause I can tell you're very sensitive and emotional just like me (I once posted poems about an old lost love of mine here too and I understand) But hey, everything happens for a reason ok buddy? Keep that in mind! If that (God forbid) goes wrong it's because life will give you something better in the future... Again, best of luck! Just don't push things, does no good. Quote [broken External Image]:http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g189/rbffe/rob_opens-eyes.gif My sis about Rob: "You'll be celebrating your golden infatuation with him one day.."
Cloud Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 How is it bud? Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5db114ce5078c1bc868260c3094bb843.jpg
LPShinodaFM Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 Well i do wish everything turns out ok... but i mean everything has a positive side so when something does go wrong, look on the bright side k? Quote
Shadowed Heart Posted January 21, 2007 Posted January 21, 2007 That's funny. I'm going through the same thing. Kind of. Like issues with taking a break and stuff with my boyfriend... But uhm... yeah, just be patient with her. Like for me, my boyfriend's been like... avoiding me or something ("busy") and it's been over three weeks not (ironic?) and by now I'm not sure how I feel about him. So. Just give it time, she'll figure it out. Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
DarknessLover Posted January 22, 2007 Author Posted January 22, 2007 Well it is nice to see I am not the only one in this Dilemma. I am talking to her Lunch tomorrow. It is actually quite Ironic that you have the same...problem over all, but in a different perspective. I am not avoiding her, and she is not avoiding me. But I feel I gave more to her then I recieve. my friend tells me just end it. I don't know though, I feel like. I am in true love here. Seriously. Last night we got really far, and I think if I just do something um, special tomorrow I can probably show her my love. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
diana Posted January 23, 2007 Posted January 23, 2007 Oh, I really hope that everythin is gonna turn out okay...if not...well...that's life! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/8b479714c2981449a34f1f582adc8fb2.jpg ...ljubim...<3
DarknessLover Posted January 23, 2007 Author Posted January 23, 2007 yeah well, i finnaly decided, i am under enough stress as it is. The deal is, whenever I talk to her next, she has one final day to decide, and if she says no, I am just going to not talk to her for the next few days just to clear her out of my mind. I think it's a good plan. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Shadowed Heart Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Lol sure xD Although for me atm, I'm trying to figure out how to tell my boyfriend that I want to break up.. for awhile at least... Heh... Hm... What do you mean you got pretty far!?! Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
DarknessLover Posted January 24, 2007 Author Posted January 24, 2007 Lol sure xD Although for me atm, I'm trying to figure out how to tell my boyfriend that I want to break up.. for awhile at least... Heh... Hm... What do you mean you got pretty far!?! Sorry I don't understand the last part of the Question. Yeah she is dodging me too now, she hasn't returned my phone calls, stood me up in school, and even ran away in the mid of a conv between classes :-( Quote The Park is Back? No way!
DarknessLover Posted January 24, 2007 Author Posted January 24, 2007 awwww...i hope it goes out well..really Well, today is the second to the last day she gets, tomorrow she gets her final decision. If she says no, she loses the most loyal, trust-worthy, caring, loving Boyfriend she is going to get in this school Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Well, today is the second to the last day she gets, tomorrow she gets her final decision. If she says no, she loses the most loyal, trust-worthy, caring, loving Boyfriend she is going to get in this school well...I wish you good luck again.... :thumbsup: Quote
Shadowed Heart Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Me too. Her loss! Yo sound like a great guy! Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
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