Kissing

[DarknessLover]

Hey guys, me and my girlfriend like kiss pretty much everyother day or so... is that bad for a normal relationship? I don't know I just want to make sure is just right.

 

Thanks Rep To all that help

[Greyfoxx]

wait, you're worried that kissing too much is bad for the relationship?

[LPShinodaFM]

^hmm... well, it can't be that bad. I mean kissing is showing intimacy and love. But if you kiss everyday and then suddenly one day you didn't (because you were busy or something?) then one of you might start doubting each other... but, nah

[DarknessLover]

yeah, i am just worried that i am too "sexually active" and coming on like a pervert

[Greyfoxx]

well, as a girl, with a boyfriend

i can honestly that kissing that much isn't a big deal, as in you dont come on as a perv. If she didn't want to kiss you, then she wouldn't. You aren't considered a perv, trust me, my boyfriend and i kiss LOADS and yea, we've been together for almost two years. I can say from experience that kissing alot dosnt mean anything besides "love" and "Intimacy" and stuff like that.

[DarknessLover]

Ok, since its like really often recently, and I know she likes it, since she blushes (good thing) and giggles after the kiss (good thing) but i don't want to come on as a perv and stuff.

 

Another question when we are sitting together, but not in a area where we can cuddle, would it be perv if i put my hand on her leg? I think it would.

[LPShinodaFM]

your hand on *your* leg? no, it wouldn't

 

lol

[Greyfoxx]

Well, it depends on how ya do it and who yer around

(from past experience)

 

If its lightly on the leg=not perv

If its more like rubbing the leg, then thats a perv gesture.

[DarknessLover]

Oops...lol...you know what i mean...i edited it

[DarknessLover]

Well, it depends on how ya do it and who yer around

(from past experience)

 

If its lightly on the leg=not perv

If its more like rubbing the leg, then thats a perv gesture.

 

 

ok so if i just put my hand there, nothing else. its not perv?

[Greyfoxx]

ok so if i just put my hand there, nothing else. its not perv?

no its not perv, just dont put yer hand too far up her leg, that's perv.

[DarknessLover]

no its not perv, just dont put yer hand too far up her leg, that's perv.

 

 

so around her knee is completely safe?

 

ok another question (I might as well get them all out now)

 

Over the past few years of hand holding, i never knew an "alternative" idea. Like when your holding hands, what can you do during, to make it more "romantic" I mean discreetly, like under the table. Since we aren't a "public" relationship.

[Greyfoxx]

Well, More romantic about holding hands? i don't thing you could do that. Holding hands arent ment to be romantic. My boyfriend always holds me around my waist, thats romantic cause it makes her feel protected.

 

Uh, yea, thats what i have to say about "holding Hands"

 

sowwie if i wasnt helpful

[DarknessLover]

well what i mean, its like what we do when we are doing something discreetly, going back to the fact that we aren't a public relationship. I already do the holding waist thing, when we are out walking, and i move to do the kiss, after the kiss i just stop and hold her.

 

So there are nothing else i could do during holding hands?

[Greyfoxx]

well, i don't know really. Um, well, My boyfriend would play with my fingers i guess, to let me know he's there for me. He also combines the hand-on-the-leg and holding hands and places our hands on my leg. *shurg* thats all i can think of for holding hands,

 

 

any other questions?! ^_^

[DarknessLover]

thanks for the answers!

 

ummm hmmm

 

oh!

 

When we are sitting together in private, side by side, do i hold her above the shoulders, or around the back?

[Greyfoxx]

shoulders or back? Ya mean when ya'll are sitting up.

Hold her around the back. It'll give her the feeling of being protected. XD

 

 

Alright, thats all the advice i have for tonight,

I'll see ya later

Bye Bye

 

And Good Lucks!

[DarknessLover]

Thank you soo much Greyfoxx and the occasional LP~Shinoda~FM

[diana]

Hmmm...I can see you're a pretty insecure person...

 

Answers were given by Foxx...I only want to say something about kissing...

I think it's normal that you kiss her every time you see her...and if that's everyday...then it's all good...I mean, wouldn't it be awkward if you wouldn't kiss her? I'd fell strange, I'd think that there's something wrong...so yeah...kinda good thing...

 

I just don't understand how's your relationship not public if you're holding hand in public and kiss and stuff like that?

[LPHybridSnax]

well... not really bad.... like i kiss my ex girlfriend every chance i get (roughly 4-8 times daily) cuz she's ganna move and we're basically in an open relationship and she wants me to... but at my school some normal relationships do more than kiss every other day.

 

BUT

 

you just seem like you're a pretty shy person, my ex taught me basically everything i know about relationships, girls like it when you put your arm around their shoulders more than waste, as greyfox said when standing behind your girlfriend hold her around her waste. Kissing is appropriate everyday as long as you dont get too into it in public (too many times, tongue, etc.) just make her feel appreciated and that you're attracted to her and everything. Just don't be like my friend and over do it, still gotta make her work a little so she respects you.

[Jeezy]

Yeah I think it's not bad at all if you guys kiss a lot...just do what you like and it will all just happen natural...don't worry too much

[Shadowed Heart]

I have one thing to say... Like.. I might not be too helpful though, I've never had a real boyfriend =/

But about the hand-on-leg thing... Seriously, I don't think she'll care, I wouldn't....

This guy, my buddy Jarren, when we sit together he put his hand on my leg and I don't care or think he's perverted or anything *shrug* but that's just me...

[DarknessLover]

yeah last night we hung, i moved into holding when we were talking about another relationship,

 

it waslike

 

"So have you heard about Logan and Carla" said Girl 1

 

"Yeah, Logan is really bad at moving to hold her" replyed Girl 2

 

"I noticed." Said Christina - My GF

 

"Yeah the way to do that is this" i say, I said I loved her, and i put my arm around her and pull her in.

 

Girl 1 and Girl 2 - AWWWWW

 

Christina and me - giggle

 

lol...

 

I am not as shy anymore...just want to know my boundaries so i don't step on/over them

[Shadowed Heart]

^_^ Goody!

[Lenneh]

You're quite like me, this thread helped me a bit, it'll be useful later, thanks Greyfox and DarknessLover.

 

Btw her feet are certainly a boundary >_> I stepped on my ex her feet once, that was crap. damn me for having a large shoesize lol (just needed to get that out:P)