DarknessLover Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 I was talking to my girlfriend, and she said she had a "disorder" and she didnt realyl want to talk about it. I kept forcing her to tell me what it was and she still didn't want to tell me. Once she did, she told me that she was crying from thinking about it too much. Then it was my turn, I have been "Cutting myself" recently, only three times though, once on my arm, once on the back of my leg and once on my hand. She then practically broke down and crashed, she is still crying as I type this, and I just need some help right now...seriously Jon...REP+ to whomever tries to help. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Wait a minute...you cut yourself...or she cut herself? Quote
DarknessLover Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 I cut myself... Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 I cut myself... ok...I see...so is it just because of your girlfriend or do you have other problems? Quote
DarknessLover Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 other problems, lots of other problems Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 other problems, lots of other problems try to solve them one after another... Quote
Shadowed Heart Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Wait a minute...you cutted yourself...or she cutted herself? hehe. I never thought I'd see a grown man use the word 'cutted'. That's like saying.. knowed... or dided. XD Lol, sorry, that was just funny. Cutting is bad though. I have before, and I stopped, I promised I boyfriend I would, and I did (i still haven't even thought he dumped after he cheated on me and he hates me now, i still wouldn't, because he asked me not to). So. 1) Don't cut. That will make her happy 2) From what I've learned... people don't like it when you pressure them to tell you something. Sometimes they want attention from it, but they'll tell you anyways if that's it. So don't make them tell you. ^_^ and! 3) SMILE. ^_^ omg how corny.... Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
DarknessLover Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 welll actually this whole conflict empowered my relationship. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
LPShinodaFM Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Here, some great advices. 1. Be happy 2. Think of reasons to be happy 3. TALK about stuff to sort them out. Things are usually better than what you think they are 4. Stop hurting yourself physically. It doesnt' work 5. This will sound stupid, but watch cartoons. Spongebob will really brighten your day up no matter what Your girlfirend's disorder... what's that about? If it's really serious, see a doctor. But just always keep this in mind: 1. It's okay 2. Everything can be mended 3. There's always tomorrow 4. Take deep breaths 5. Everything will be fine when it's sorted out 1 Quote
DarknessLover Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 ok well, she has this thing, where when she is really depressed and down and out and like...when i was when i cut myself. She does this thing where she pulls the hair out from her eyelashes and eyebrows. It's not good, but it's not the worst. I told her that even if she shaved her head bald and looked like Britney Spears, she would still be beautiful in my eyes. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Shadowed Heart Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 How 'romantical' hehe Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
DarknessLover Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Ha ha, I can't believe I have an inside joke in LPF.... Quote The Park is Back? No way!
By_My-elf Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Here, some great advices. 1. Be happy 2. Think of reasons to be happy 3. TALK about stuff to sort them out. Things are usually better than what you think they are 4. Stop hurting yourself physically. It doesnt' work 5. This will sound stupid, but watch cartoons. Spongebob will really brighten your day up no matter what Your girlfirend's disorder... what's that about? If it's really serious, see a doctor. But just always keep this in mind: 1. It's okay 2. Everything can be mended 3. There's always tomorrow 4. Take deep breaths 5. Everything will be fine when it's sorted out The Top 5 I have to say try those out first if it doesnt work your not even tryin at all I use to have a shit load of probs just like you but I Followed those top 5 things and well I've been feelin good not Happy or anyhitng like that but good. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img87.imageshack.us/my.php?image=signature002jo8.jpg Can't get my sig to work
candygirl Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Honestly, I have to agree with the Spongebob idea. I know it's sounds crazy, but after my sis dies, it really helped to watch cheery things, even if you hate it at first. Same goes with music. Try to keep it happy. Quote Yeah, what I wanna know is why my mp3 player thought it would be a great idea to delete some of my songs. And not just a handful of random ones, just all of my Linkin Park and Fort Minor songs! What is up with that?! (It's true! I swear!)
DarknessLover Posted March 19, 2007 Author Posted March 19, 2007 I feel much better today. My girlfriend reminded me, "Things may not be great at your home, at school, at anywhere for all that matter. But you do have one thing, you have me, and no matter what your problem is, I will be there." God bless her soul. Thanks to you all for the ideas. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Acezorz Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 See, now thats the sorta stuff you should be thankful for, your girlfriend seems really understanding so i'm happy for you Quote
Jeezy Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 I feel much better today. My girlfriend reminded me, "Things may not be great at your home, at school, at anywhere for all that matter. But you do have one thing, you have me, and no matter what your problem is, I will be there." God bless her soul. Thanks to you all for the ideas. That sounds great:thumbsup: I'm glad that you feel better Quote
DarknessLover Posted March 20, 2007 Author Posted March 20, 2007 I feel DAMN better right now, like seriously, everything is back to PERFECTION, nice and peace and quiet. We hung out today in the library and were just holding eachother in DEAD silence. Shit has been so much better. Talk to y'all later. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
diana Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Yeah, that kinda things happen often...one day you feel so bad and depressed and you want to hurt yourself...then the next day everything is better and great...I guess it's all normal...so don't stress when it happen...both... Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/8b479714c2981449a34f1f582adc8fb2.jpg ...ljubim...<3
DarknessLover Posted March 22, 2007 Author Posted March 22, 2007 I got a bit mad at her yesterday, not much, but a bit. Since we had went to confession with our religious classes, and she had asked the priest "Is it my fault my best friend would hurt himself?" or something liek that, but since I went right after she did, I had asked for forgiveness of hurting myself. And the priest was like, "I see, the one young girl before you had a friend that did that, and she felt responsible..." I just couldn't help but get a little bit angry, but I was okay with it, and didn't get mad at Christina. So yeah! Very great mood right now. Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Shadowed Heart Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Good. ..... Quote {Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.} http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/2f43bfab2b64268a8552c7de93432ec4.jpg Write "Love" On Your Arm. MIH Photography. Myspace. Facebook.
littleblackstone Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Good to hear!!!!! I'm glad that you feel better Quote
FireHawk Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 I got a bit mad at her yesterday, not much, but a bit. Since we had went to confession with our religious classes, and she had asked the priest "Is it my fault my best friend would hurt himself?" or something liek that, but since I went right after she did, I had asked for forgiveness of hurting myself. And the priest was like, "I see, the one young girl before you had a friend that did that, and she felt responsible..." I just couldn't help but get a little bit angry, but I was okay with it, and didn't get mad at Christina. So yeah! Very great mood right now. Priest are suppose to keep what people say confidential... Quote Please when you see spam just click the http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/4b273718b96672a5cde873c5a972756e.gif graphic and type "Spam" into the text box then click report. Its better than complaining and goes straight to the mods.
DarknessLover Posted March 28, 2007 Author Posted March 28, 2007 I know, but our town sucks. ************************************************************************************************** Also, back on the brink of suicide! My girlfriend is so damn mad at me about the fact I say that I am stupid..I refuse to listen to her, and now she got really pissed, and talked to her whole group of friends, so now they all hate me, and then I said "Life is a bitch." and one of her friends misunderstood it, and thought I said "Christina is a bitch", so they told the whole group, and then Christina heard. SOOOOO now they all think I called her a bitch! NEXT her whole group of friends ganged up on me, and started nagging me. While Christina was talking, one of her friends hit me and I called her friend a Douchebag. Once again, they misintrepeted, and thought I called Christina a douchebag! SO yep...everyone hates me.... I won't cut myself. I love Christina to much to do anything stupid like cutting myself. She got so ticked last time, and now I refuse to do it again. ~ JB Quote The Park is Back? No way!
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