LPF's "Official Lonely Hearts Club"

[Friðbjörn]

haha yeah that's definitely it

[Sponge]

what is that supposed to mean?....now i feel confused and embarrased:confused:

[Friðbjörn]

sorry, I was just trying to get in on your joke lol

[Sponge]

it's ok. i was joking....or was i?

 

Well i feel kinda left out...but i don't know why!!

[Jeezy]

could we go back on topic?

[Friðbjörn]

yes, sorry about that.

[Sponge]

sorry about that.

[Ravynlee]

Still here... still... well... single I guess.

 

I have a real problem though that I am getting angry when almost everyone I talk to, even my mum, asks me at least once a week, after the initial hello's, "have you found a man yet?"

My answer:

 

SHOW ME ONE first!

 

Goddamn it, so sick of this mentality. Like I'm somehow incomplete on my own. Like I "need" another bringing their baggage and crap and bad habbits and so on to me when I already have enough for the both of us... where's it justified in society that we can't be a 'success' in life unless we're 'part of a whole' - that's an insult to both potential parties, and a great cause for escalating self-esteem issues right?

I don't know of one single couple, not ONE pair, married, defacto, girlfriend/boyfriends that are trully happy. Not ONE! They are under this 'Oh well, better than being alone. You're not Mr/Miss Right, but you'll do til something better comes along' reasoning.

I mean seriously, wtf?

Wonder why the divorce rate is so high, why suicides are so common, why there's so many broken homes, teen pregnancies, kids without fathers/mothers, etc with that kind of mentality.

Christ.

Why's love, or the notion of it, so bastardised by commercialism? (Things like Valentines Day, or where buying things like expensive jewelry is supposedly tantamount to 'true love', as in the more he spends the more he apparently proves his love for her). Why does it HAVE to be sociatally parrallel to sex or the act of simple physical pleasure, at the cost of ignoring the rest such as heart and emotion and esotericism/spirituality etc that lays at the root (pardon the pun) of things like Tantric Sex etc? Where's TRUE love? I mean aside from just the physical (alone is lust, completely different to the love I'm on about) - The kind that inspires poets and sonnets and fables of yore and such?

 

I feel so fuckin' cheated...

[woodyloveslinkin]

Ok. I'm back here. Grovelled back as usual. Fed up with a relationship that was bound to go downhill from day one and fed up with feeling like I did something wrong to cause the first collapse. Who ever said opposite attract, I am going to stone their grave with fists full of gravel until my hands are black with gravel residue. Not true !!! Fuckin' moron.

Don't know how long I'll be in here for. I've got a couple of guys who like me, but afraid of making them a 'bounce-back'. *sigh* single life, I'm supposed to be used to it, but hating it right now. Hate feeling like I can't talk to no one and being lonely, right now...especially with my home sickness.

 

*goes underneath my table and sits there, occasionally coming out for food*

[FireHawk]

I'm here as well...but I don't know if I want to stay alone or not...I am afraid me and Jess are going to get together again (we have been talking ALOT again). She actually brought up our 2nd date and said it was the funniest days of her life and wished we could do it again. I told her it would be nice but we couldn't do stuff like that when she has a boyfriend. I don't want it to be another couple of month relationship and her to go back to her boyfriend. She says she love him and I just want her to be happy. I am almost wondering if I should cut off contact with her. She gets so hurt whenever I am brought up around her boyfriend. Then they fight with her defending me. This back in forth relationship with her is so weird. Especially since she is my best friend.

[woodyloveslinkin]

Don't get back together after what's been going done now. Be strong mate.