untitled Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 Well, never knew i was gonna make a thread for this but i felt like making one Yesterday my girlfriend asked me if she could come to my house..well sure anytime I asked her if she wanted to sleep at my place etc.. She was like: i don't know how to tell you.. I asked what's wrong She said: Well i think i'm no more in love with you, but i don't understand it, i think you're perfect and i always feel great when i'm with you but when i'm at home i don't miss you anymore, i don't feel like i want to go to your place.. so i don't understand what's wrong..she wants a break..see if she will miss me when she's alone for a while, but at the same time she says she loves me, and whenever she's with me she feels good.. i asked her what the chances were we'd get back together after some time off..she didn't know so i asked her well what do you want honestly she said being with me.. the night she told me this, she did sleep at my place because i wanted to talk..and eventually we started kissing again etc.. so really i have no idea what's wrong..just needed to share it cause i love her alot and i'd do anything to get her back, i really don't want to break-up and well dunno if this is important but she's 18 and i'm almost 19.. any help would be appreciated.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Friðbjörn Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 let me get this straight. she likes you, adores you, but she doesn't feel love, about you? that's what I got from what you said at least. and if so, I don't think there's much you can do, unfortunately. but maybe she's just confused about what she feels, that's natural. if you do take a break, she might come to realize fully what it is she feels. which for you hopefully would be that she's in love with you Quote [broken External Image]:http://img259.imageshack.us/img259/2784/lpfas08mostintelligentym8.jpg
untitled Posted May 23, 2007 Author Posted May 23, 2007 let me get this straight. she likes you, adores you, but she doesn't feel love, about you? that's what I got from what you said at least. and if so, I don't think there's much you can do, unfortunately. but maybe she's just confused about what she feels, that's natural. if you do take a break, she might come to realize fully what it is she feels. which for you hopefully would be that she's in love with you yeh that's exactly what i meant.. i told her to take all the time she need, she felt really bad about telling it.. that's also what she said, and i really hope the answer will be positive she will go to rome(italy) next week for 9 days, so i hope she comes to realize what she really feels but it's weird you know..she doesn't even understand it herself.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Friðbjörn Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 ahh yeah she's stuck in a dilemma I guess I think in that case, she just needs some time and space, but obviously that's tough on you... Quote [broken External Image]:http://img259.imageshack.us/img259/2784/lpfas08mostintelligentym8.jpg
untitled Posted May 23, 2007 Author Posted May 23, 2007 ahh yeah she's stuck in a dilemma I guess I think in that case, she just needs some time and space, but obviously that's tough on you... lol yeh it really is, it's killing me but theres nothing i can do..like you said, she needs time and space all i can do is wait and hope for the best thanks:) Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Jeezy Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 I think she should get her feelings together...and clearly tell you what's up... Quote
Friðbjörn Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 yeah that's what you gotta keep in mind I think. just gotta stay strong while she figures it out glad to help Quote [broken External Image]:http://img259.imageshack.us/img259/2784/lpfas08mostintelligentym8.jpg
untitled Posted May 23, 2007 Author Posted May 23, 2007 I think she should get her feelings together...and clearly tell you what's up... yeh..but i'm not gonna count on getting back together, even though it's hard cause if i do count on getting back(she said theres was a high chance..) it could only be disappointing if it's not.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
untitled Posted May 23, 2007 Author Posted May 23, 2007 and just thought about this..why would she kiss and hold me all the time if she doesn't "love" me:confused: Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Tomer Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 and just thought about this..why would she kiss and hold me all the time if she doesn't "love" me:confused: Hm, good point actually. All you can do now is give her some time to "consider" what she really wants. from what i've understood, she thinks you deserve better, convince her that she's the one and not someone else. tell her if i DIDN't care.. I wouldn't have done all the effort to make sure we won't break-up. Quote GONE (Thanks everyone for the good memories)
untitled Posted May 23, 2007 Author Posted May 23, 2007 Hm, good point actually. All you can do now is give her some time to "consider" what she really wants. from what i've understood, she thinks you deserve better, convince her that she's the one and not someone else. tell her if i DIDN't care.. I wouldn't have done all the effort to make sure we won't break-up. i guess i'll just have to wait..give her some time, the last thing she needs is me right now.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
tuba Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 just give her time... all u can do is wait for her answer.... good luck:thumbsup: Quote
LÎnkinPärkExtreme Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 let me get this straight. she likes you, adores you, but she doesn't feel love, about you? that's what I got from what you said at least. and if so, I don't think there's much you can do, unfortunately. but maybe she's just confused about what she feels, that's natural. if you do take a break, she might come to realize fully what it is she feels. which for you hopefully would be that she's in love with youYeah I agree with that, But it happens... That's kinda how my ex was... she went out for me and she was all lies saying that she loved me and all that... But it was just bullshit... Quote
untitled Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 Yeah I agree with that, But it happens... That's kinda how my ex was... she went out for me and she was all lies saying that she loved me and all that... But it was just bullshit... well i truly know that she loves me(or loved..)but i can't stand being without her, i feel like shit, i can't stop thinking about er goddamnit, guess i truly am totally crazy about her, didn't even realize how much i loved her till she broke up with me.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
LÎnkinPärkExtreme Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 well i truly know that she loves me(or loved..)but i can't stand being without her, i feel like shit, i can't stop thinking about er goddamnit, guess i truly am totally crazy about her, didn't even realize how much i loved her till she broke up with me..Yeah well think positive or at least try to... I know it's hard and I guess I'm not really the person to say it but you did everything you could. Quote
untitled Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 Yeah well think positive or at least try to... I know it's hard and I guess I'm not really the person to say it but you did everything you could. yeh..thanks..lol she even said she would be stupid if she'd let me go.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
diana Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 Well, things aren't really looking so bad... How long have you 2 been together? I can tell from my own experience that after certain time you kinda feel like you're not in love with your bf/gf...it's just something you need to go through...or you do a mistake...like I did when I dumped my bf...I felt sorry after some time... So, I guess giving her time is a good thing...especially since she says she loves you..she'll realize what she feels and what's the best to do... I feel like this is gonna end nicely... Good luck!^^ Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/8b479714c2981449a34f1f582adc8fb2.jpg ...ljubim...<3
untitled Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 Well, things aren't really looking so bad... How long have you 2 been together? I can tell from my own experience that after certain time you kinda feel like you're not in love with your bf/gf...it's just something you need to go through...or you do a mistake...like I did when I dumped my bf...I felt sorry after some time... So, I guess giving her time is a good thing...especially since she says she loves you..she'll realize what she feels and what's the best to do... I feel like this is gonna end nicely... Good luck!^^ well 4 months and a bit..i know it's not that long but sometimes you just know it feels good..you probably know the feeling did you get back together with him? i hope she does indeed realize it..and if not well..nothingi can do right thanks:) Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
untitled Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 she read this thread..don't know if it was wise to let her but i wanted to..but she agreed with all the reply's etc and what i said..so let's hope for the best..time will tell.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Linkin_lp_park Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 Well, things aren't really looking so bad... How long have you 2 been together? I can tell from my own experience that after certain time you kinda feel like you're not in love with your bf/gf...it's just something you need to go through...or you do a mistake...like I did when I dumped my bf...I felt sorry after some time... So, I guess giving her time is a good thing...especially since she says she loves you..she'll realize what she feels and what's the best to do... I feel like this is gonna end nicely... Good luck!^^ Yeah that's really well said, when you are just together you are all in love and all, you can't stop touching and thinking about eachother, but when your relationship is growing, that all turns to i love you, it just feels more mature then, i'm together with my girl for 1 year and 9 months now, and it is nothing like when we just started, it all changed, maybe she doesn't know that kinda feeling, and it's weird for her, and she doesn't know what to do or how to react Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
untitled Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 Yeah that's really well said, when you are just together you are all in love and all, you can't stop touching and thinking about eachother, but when your relationship is growing, that all turns to i love you, it just feels more mature then, i'm together with my girl for 1 year and 9 months now, and it is nothing like when we just started, it all changed, maybe she doesn't know that kinda feeling, and it's weird for her, and she doesn't know what to do or how to react thats what she said exactly..it's an unknown feeling for her.. and well you know how close she and i were.. Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Linkin_lp_park Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 thats what she said exactly..it's an unknown feeling for her.. and well you know how close she and i were.. Yeah what she said came out of nowhere, wat seems like it came out of nowhere to her, and she got scared Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
allieking Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 have you ever heard the saying "abscence makes the heart grow fonder" ? maybe she just needs some time away from you to realise you are what she wants. she sounds very confused to me, she needs time to think about things. relationships are very complicated, one day you can feel totally loved and close to someone and the next day it can feel totally the opposite. if at the end of it she decides its over then you have to come to tearms with it and try to move on with your life. maybe if that happens you can try to stay friends with her. i really hope it all wrks out for you and she decides to stay with you. Quote [broken External Image]:http://www.inoshishi.co.uk/allie/aa.png
untitled Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 have you ever heard the saying "abscence makes the heart grow fonder" ? maybe she just needs some time away from you to realise you are what she wants. she sounds very confused to me, she needs time to think about things. relationships are very complicated, one day you can feel totally loved and close to someone and the next day it can feel totally the opposite. if at the end of it she decides its over then you have to come to tearms with it and try to move on with your life. maybe if that happens you can try to stay friends with her. i really hope it all wrks out for you and she decides to stay with you. yeh i know the saying, let's just hope it works out the same way for her..she is indeed confused..that's for sure, i'll let her read your post..it might help somehow, your post is very well said i know i have to move on if things don't work out, but that's not the problem atm, now i have to live with the feeling of doubt, that's even harder.. thanks alot:) Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
MrsBennington-Delson Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 It's hard but you should give her some time... I bet she'll see how much she really loves you and you'll be together again... :thumbsupp: Good luck!!! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/f03af096463589b6a2bebdd0c1455573.jpg
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