Linkin_lp_park Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 Ok..so here's the story.. Me and my girl are together for almost 2 years now And the last few months weren't going so well.. So we decided to have a temporary break-up as from coming weekend, to have some time apart, to think and stuff.. This is hard for me, i love her really much and i don't wanna lose her, so if this have to happen for not to lose her..it has to If we don't do this, i'm afraid the relationship is gonna be f*cked up more and more, and i don't want that to happen Although my fear is that if we have the temporary break-up that other guys will try to get to her and try stuff you know.. I go crazy if i just think of her kissing another person, imagine something else.. She said she couldn't see me with another girl also, so i really hope she doesn't do anything with another guy, 'cause if so, it really get's hard for me, to have the picture in my mind of her with another guy..i'll go crazy.. She says she loves me and don't want to lose me, but just wants some time apart So wouldn't it be weird if she try's something with another guy? I'm really afraid, i think this temporary break-up is good for our relationship, but nothing has to happen with other guys or something I love her and we both want to get back together after this coming time apart, we both have the feeling that we're meant for eachother, so this has to happen.. But i'm afraid.. Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
MrsBennington-Delson Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 I totaly understand you and if all that is true (what I believe you) then you'll get back together and it'll be good again wish you all the best! for both of you! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/f03af096463589b6a2bebdd0c1455573.jpg
GraDoN Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 yeah im with jos let things settle and then try again hope for the best and good luck Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/095443c5f5914cdd05b1d389456c201e.jpg http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/8df3638f80a4f010e06ef2c959f426e8.gif http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/fe80ab99471398f0ef121d8f90c31038.jpg
DarknessLover Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 Okay I hate to put a downer...I had done this ahile back with my girlfriend, and all that happened was all her friends hated me, and me and her were worse. She had liked this other guy...Ben, and that really startled me. I went to bed everynight with one image, her kissing him. It hurt, and it really did, but I let it relax in my heart, and told myself, she says we are meant to stay tgether...finally she said, "I can't belive myself. I love you, I can't be with someone else, please let's just talk" I was in shock! But I was like okay... We talked in the end, and everything was better than ever...so try talking to her a bit, don't go on full break, stay her best friend, and make sure you let her realise you are still her best friend although you aren't dating, don't say I love you, unless you think it is ABSOLUTELY neessary. It's what I did. Just don't worry too much, let love take its path, if things are as you say, don't worry, just if she does that, do the same... Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 16, 2007 Author Posted July 16, 2007 Okay I hate to put a downer...I had done this ahile back with my girlfriend, and all that happened was all her friends hated me, and me and her were worse. She had liked this other guy...Ben, and that really startled me. I went to bed everynight with one image, her kissing him. It hurt, and it really did, but I let it relax in my heart, and told myself, she says we are meant to stay tgether...finally she said, "I can't belive myself. I love you, I can't be with someone else, please let's just talk" I was in shock! But I was like okay... We talked in the end, and everything was better than ever...so try talking to her a bit, don't go on full break, stay her best friend, and make sure you let her realise you are still her best friend although you aren't dating, don't say I love you, unless you think it is ABSOLUTELY neessary. It's what I did. Just don't worry too much, let love take its path, if things are as you say, don't worry, just if she does that, do the same... Yeah but i'm not that guy who will kiss somebody if she does you know.. I'd be devastated if she does it, but i can't say anything about it because we are on a break, that really kills me Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
DarknessLover Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 Nor am I. I mean make her feel a bit guilty about it, but don't over do it Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 16, 2007 Author Posted July 16, 2007 Nor am I. I mean make her feel a bit guilty about it, but don't over do it No, your right, thanks:) Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
DarknessLover Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 Just only if she does the kiss dude, don't do it for no reason O.o it will fuck up the relationship completely to do it for no reason Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 16, 2007 Author Posted July 16, 2007 Just only if she does the kiss dude, don't do it for no reason O.o it will fuck up the relationship completely to do it for no reason Yeah i know, talk about it first is important:) Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
DarknessLover Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 DEFINATELY if she knows how you feel, she will know you are more open Quote The Park is Back? No way!
Jeezy Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 It's probably a good thing to have some time for yourself...and for some friends and stuff... I think chances are good that you guys will be back together again after that break. Quote
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 It's probably a good thing to have some time for yourself...and for some friends and stuff... I think chances are good that you guys will be back together again after that break. Yeah that's what I think 2, But what IF something happens with another guy..it will never be the same for me, because this break is for some time apart and to think about it all, so why try something with another person then? I really hope it doesn't happen, because it will change everything for me I know some guy is in love with her, and they have a good connection, and i'm afraid he's gonna go for it as soon as we start with the break-up Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
stupidsoul1 Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 If something happens with another guy, just accept it. Most girls do it for attention, so just prove to her you love her and are willing to stand by her. Hang out with her, but treat her like you would a normal friend. No kissing, holding hands. Just a simple hug, your body language should tell her all she wants to know. Fuck that other guy, she is with you for a reason. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 17, 2007 Author Posted July 17, 2007 If something happens with another guy, just accept it. Most girls do it for attention, so just prove to her you love her and are willing to stand by her. Hang out with her, but treat her like you would a normal friend. No kissing, holding hands. Just a simple hug, your body language should tell her all she wants to know. Fuck that other guy, she is with you for a reason. Thank you:)That really helps me Thank all of you guys:) Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
untitled Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 well (me as his brother) can tell you they really are great together i really hope it turns out ok when me and my gf were "on a break" nothing happened either, at first i was really down and constantly sending her messages and stuff, don't do that!! believe me, it'll only make it worse after i realised it was better to just wait and let her realise how she felt about me, she wanted me back just do some little things to show her you love her, but don't overreact my relationship is now better than before so i hope the same happens for you, you know that Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 23, 2007 Author Posted July 23, 2007 Well, we broke up since last saturday, but she kissed me today, and it felt really good:)she thought that 2:) Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
MrsBennington-Delson Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 Well, we broke up since last saturday, but she kissed me today, and it felt really good:)she thought that 2:) aaawww thats so sweet ^.^ hope you'll get back together very soon :thumbsup: Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/f03af096463589b6a2bebdd0c1455573.jpg
Jeezy Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 aaawww thats so sweet ^.^ hope you'll get back together very soon :thumbsup: I hope that too:) Quote
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 26, 2007 Author Posted July 26, 2007 Thanks:) Although she said the didn't had the love feeling back already..but damn i hope it get's back soon, it's killing me Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
untitled Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 Thanks:) Although she said the didn't had the love feeling back already..but damn i hope it get's back soon, it's killing me be patient, it will..atleast that's what i think:) Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 26, 2007 Author Posted July 26, 2007 be patient, it will..atleast that's what i think:) Yeah..but how long will it take? She's meeting with alot of guys, who she sees as 'good friends' but they don't, they think, oh my god a girl -> ..... You know, and last week i had a lot of time to think all things through again, and when i was together with her i was jealous as hell..and now i think, it wasn't necessary..i trust her, even if another guy would try something, she wouldn't let him, but now we're apart and you never know.. All i can do is wait and hope, i really miss being with her, and now i appreciate all the seconds i'm with her, and i should have done that before, we both made mistakes, and she said there was improvement, she liked being with me better now than the last times, so i just pray we get back together soon:) Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
untitled Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 Yeah..but how long will it take? She's meeting with alot of guys, who she sees as 'good friends' but they don't, they think, oh my god a girl -> ..... You know, and last week i had a lot of time to think all things through again, and when i was together with her i was jealous as hell..and now i think, it wasn't necessary..i trust her, even if another guy would try something, she wouldn't let him, but now we're apart and you never know.. All i can do is wait and hope, i really miss being with her, and now i appreciate all the seconds i'm with her, and i should have done that before, we both made mistakes, and she said there was improvement, she liked being with me better now than the last times, so i just pray we get back together soon:) just be patient and hope for the best, that's all you can do i guess Quote my lp item's PICS of COLLECTION my lp audio-video collection
geeko Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 i definitely understand you... you know... the exact same thing is happening to me and my bf... i know i need to give him time...but its just killing me not to talk to him even just for a sec... i know how you felt... Quote OUR LAIR. DARE TO ENTER. [broken External Image]:http://img81.imageshack.us/img81/5668/ubda2041ui3.gif
Linkin_lp_park Posted July 27, 2007 Author Posted July 27, 2007 i definitely understand you... you know... the exact same thing is happening to me and my bf... i know i need to give him time...but its just killing me not to talk to him even just for a sec... i know how you felt... Yeah and she is meeting with al these guys, that doesn't bother me so much, but one of them stays over at her place tonight In her bed, on my place, and it's killing me She think it's normal, because we aren't together and it's just a friend, but i know there's more, so i'm really scared, but if i found out something happened between them, i don't want her anymore, because it's been only a week, and then you don't do that Quote ιη тнє ѕιℓєη¢є σƒ тнє ∂αякηєѕѕ
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