The 'How You Feelin'' thread v5.0

[woodyloveslinkin]

i consider a trial separation to be when you spend at least 3 months away from eachother with NO!! contact whatsoever. that way you will know if your happier without him, 2 weeks isn't enough time hun.

 

It was meant to be 3 weeks but I've had to come back early....

I don't know wtf is wrong with our relationships, it has its ups and downs, it's just gone through a major down and now after the last conversation with him this morning, we're on our up.....I seriously think there's something wrong with me...

[diana]

Just woke up...I want to sleeeeep...but can't...

[littleblackstone]

nervous.. gotta have an exam in half an hour..

 

but then, party tonight!

[allieking]

there is nothing wrong with you hun, but there is something wrong with you two being together. you clash and are from what i can tell not suited. he sounds like hes very impatient and quick tempered, something wich you don't need, you need someone who will sit and listen to you and understand why you feel the way you do about certain things. in a nutshell you need someone understanding and caring.

[Jeezy]

I feel great

[Peterdea]

allie you could probably have your own help thread! lol...

 

...anyway im ok... a tad depressed about school but overall im a meh.

[woodyloveslinkin]

there is nothing wrong with you hun, but there is something wrong with you two being together. you clash and are from what i can tell not suited. he sounds like hes very impatient and quick tempered, something wich you don't need, you need someone who will sit and listen to you and understand why you feel the way you do about certain things. in a nutshell you need someone understanding and caring.

 

 

My sister said to me today that if I'm in a relationship that I feel like I can't talk to him, I shouldn't be in it to start with, and it really hurts me a lot and it brings on unwanted moodswings with me because yeah, by him telling me there's something wrong with me, i am at the point where as demonstrated by the previous post I'm questioning my ability to make decisions and judge properly between right and wrong within the boundaries between him and me. Like, he is, by zodiac, a Libra while I am a Gemini and he's stubborn and I am more indecisive and that's really conflicting. Sometimes I am ready to say "Hey! Let's be friends just like you've always wanted us to be just as!" but it's my kindness that gets in the way and even my mother has said it, I've been in abusive relationships before and it took me 9 months to break it off with the guy. And like my sister said (and you), I shouldn't be with a guy that makes me feel like I am in a nutshell. Mean, right now, I am having interesting convos with him now about the rise and the fall of Hitler. Like, yes it was only a couple of hours that I had known this guy until we were drunkly making out at a uni party. I even thought at one moment that he was gay....but like there's good things i like about him, he's fucking random like I am, we love having interesting debates like how apparently australia is a dictatorship because of it's voting regulations, we socialise fine, he doesn't physically put me down, like he doesn't call me fat (like previous bfs have done) or anything like that and he only bags me out when he tries to cheer me up.

 

 

Peterdea - she has someone's just gotta bump it up I remember seeing it "Ask Allie" it was called. I just didn't want to bump it up that's all.

[littleblackstone]

feeling great!

exam went good...

 

and gonna have fun tonight!!

[untitled]

feeling good, only have to work today

[allieking]

My sister said to me today that if I'm in a relationship that I feel like I can't talk to him, I shouldn't be in it to start with, and it really hurts me a lot and it brings on unwanted moodswings with me because yeah, by him telling me there's something wrong with me, i am at the point where as demonstrated by the previous post I'm questioning my ability to make decisions and judge properly between right and wrong within the boundaries between him and me. Like, he is, by zodiac, a Libra while I am a Gemini and he's stubborn and I am more indecisive and that's really conflicting. Sometimes I am ready to say "Hey! Let's be friends just like you've always wanted us to be just as!" but it's my kindness that gets in the way and even my mother has said it, I've been in abusive relationships before and it took me 9 months to break it off with the guy. And like my sister said (and you), I shouldn't be with a guy that makes me feel like I am in a nutshell. Mean, right now, I am having interesting convos with him now about the rise and the fall of Hitler. Like, yes it was only a couple of hours that I had known this guy until we were drunkly making out at a uni party. I even thought at one moment that he was gay....but like there's good things i like about him, he's fucking random like I am, we love having interesting debates like how apparently australia is a dictatorship because of it's voting regulations, we socialise fine, he doesn't physically put me down, like he doesn't call me fat (like previous bfs have done) or anything like that and he only bags me out when he tries to cheer me up.

 

 

Peterdea - she has someone's just gotta bump it up I remember seeing it "Ask Allie" it was called. I just didn't want to bump it up that's all.

 

 

you need to sit and make a list "pros and cons" whats good about your relationship and whats bad, then decide if its more good or bad.

[MayaTheVampire]

pissed off>:o and stressed...and angry...and...I don't know...why won't people just leave me alone and stop asking me to be perfect...I'M NOT >_<

[woodyloveslinkin]

you need to sit and make a list "pros and cons" whats good about your relationship and whats bad, then decide if its more good or bad.

I thought of doing that at one stage but I got told I was blowing everything out of proportion and I should just quit while I am ahead.

Anywho, I'll try to catch you on msn aunt allie.

and thankies for the advice. you dont know how much it means to me to be told it's not me that's fucked up.

[Linkin_lp_park]

I'm good, had a long day, but it was fun

[diana]

Sleepy...and still a bit drunk, lol...=P

[woodyloveslinkin]

My knees hurt but happy, going back to wagga tomorrow.

[allieking]

feeling ok, another day at work. just waiting for chloe to get ready for school, how many times do i have to tell her to go brush her teeth!!!!!

[Jeezy]

feeling good...gonna go to the bank soon.

 

and hopefully get something new in some store

[woodyloveslinkin]

..it's not everyday you get a marriage proposal

[littleblackstone]

fucking tired and sleepy...

just slept for 4 hours cause had class this morning... *falls on floor*

[diana]

Feeling kinda ill...damn...and that so fuckin sucks...uber shitness...=(

[crazy robster]

A bit disappointed, cause I made a great LPU 8 logo for the Logo contest and then I realised the contest is only for residents of the USA! Meh...their loss

[Peterdea]

I feel like skipping school tomorrow... But going pays off in the end

[allieking]

feeling tired, work was boring today but being on my feet for 5 hours isn't fun

[Jeezy]

A bit disappointed, cause I made a great LPU 8 logo for the Logo contest and then I realised the contest is only for residents of the USA! Meh...their loss

 

ahh...that sucks

[Linkin_lp_park]

I'm good, did nothing at school today, was fun