Age Difference in a Relationship

[Sponge]

It rather be better if it is like 2-3 years difference. And rather just have it like that.

[Stllmn8j]

I think 2 years is an okay difference in age,me and my gf are both the same age so I don't really have to worry about it lol

[Shadowed Heart]

When I was 12 I dated a 16 year old.

When I was 13 I dated a 15 year old.

I was with him when I was 14 and he was 16.

And when I was 15 and he was 17.

 

The last guy I dated last is almost 3 months younger than me...

I typically think it's an automatic deal breaker if the guy is younger.

But I really loved him. Still do tbh.

 

But I think age doesn't REALLY matter as long as you're both on the same level and you're both mature.

 

Problem with my past is that the first time, I wasn't ready, the second time, neither of us were ready, I wasn't mature... and the last time... he wasn't mature, he wasn't ready. *sigh*

 

But still. Maybe like 10 years can be bad, but once both people have fully matured it doesn't mean anything. Like a 33 43 year old... Not a big deal right? But a 17 and 27 year old might be different. Chances are, you're in different places.

 

As long as you're both on the same page... whatever.