sovikolp Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I hate admit this but i've been having some really not interesting sex lately. it's... redundant almost... anybody else going through this? is it the summer heat? or just stress? by the way, i'm not married. Just my gf... of a year. What defines a boring sex anyway? Quote
Lethalfind Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 My first husband...he defined boring sex !!! I used to catch myself watching TV over his shoulder...or over his head depending on the activity. It got to the point where I thought all the hype about sex was just bullshit because sex was SO bad with him and I was young and had not had really good sex yet. After my divorce I met this guy who had Natural talent ( ) and he could go for ages, I could barely walk for a week, thats when the light went on and I realized what all the hoopla was about. One day he was headed to work, I grabbed him before he could leave and had him over the end of the bed, he didn't have time to get his shoes off...he always had a extra bounce in his walk when he was with me. Thats how sex should be. I am one of the few women who will say I do beleive some people are not sexually compatible and you should never buy the cow before you have tasted the milk or buy the car before taking it out on the test track and then the endurance race. Quote I am a pathetic piece of shit leeching single mom.
DizzyME Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I have been married four years and haven't had boring sex yet. Are you sure you aren't bored of the girl? Quote
GrayGal Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 My first husband was the true defintion of BORING SEX! IT was just a chore. I really didnt want to do it but if it didnt get done...Id have to do it sooner or later. But with my husband now ..HOLY shit!!! Its awesome....I mean i do have my times when i am not in the "mood" but when i am ....DAMN! 4th of July ..OVER AND OVER again, LOL Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bf579d790688a5b6ce4acac92ae0b3e3.jpg Gray~Gal ..... You can only be young once. But you can always be immature. ~Dave Barry "I am free of all prejudices. I hate everyone equally." WC Fields. Everyone is entitled to be stupid, but some abuse the privilege. Unknown There is nothing more frightening than active ignorance. ~Goethe
RoyalOrleans Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I don't think I've EVER had boring sex and I am of the opinion there is no such thing. Quote To be the Man, you've got to beat the Man. - Ric Flair Everybody knows I'm known for dropping science.
builder Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 It does happen, even for blokes. It all depends on the expectations. Quote Persevere, it pisses people off.
Vortex Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 It does happen, even for blokes. It all depends on the expectations. arent you like 16? Quote -I don't know about you...but I am SICK and tired of being nice and understanding!!! -The Liver is evil and must be punished! -The Early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese. How can your opinion be the correct one....if, infact, its only an opinion?!?!
builder Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 arent you like 16? Don't I wish, and knowing what I know now. That would be so good. Quote Persevere, it pisses people off.
RegisteredAndEducated Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I don't know, I've had some really awesome sex, some mediocre sex, and some ehh... sex. I was with this one girl for like a month, well we weren't dating, we were fuckbuddies, anyway, after about 3 weeks of having sex everyday, I was bored. I couldn't believe it, I had sex with another girl for 2 years exclusively before I started with this one, and had not once found myself bored. Hell, before this girl, I was always wantin to fuck.... Hell, now I want to fuck all the time.... I guess it was just her, or maybe the love factor played in some here.... Quote Intelligent people think... how ignorance must be bliss.... idiots have it so easy, it's not fair... to have to think... WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO BE AMONG THOSE FORTUNATE MASSES..... Hey, "Non-believers" I've just got one thing to say to ya... If you're right, then what difference does it make, it wont matter when we're dead anyway... But if I'm right... Well, hey... Ya better be right...
SlIgHtLyOpInIoNaTeD Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I don't know, I've had some really awesome sex, some mediocre sex, and some ehh... sex. I was with this one girl for like a month, well we weren't dating, we were fuckbuddies, anyway, after about 3 weeks of having sex everyday, I was bored. I couldn't believe it, I had sex with another girl for 2 years exclusively before I started with this one, and had not once found myself bored. Hell, before this girl, I was always wantin to fuck.... Hell, now I want to fuck all the time.... I guess it was just her, or maybe the love factor played in some here.... Sounds to me like the girl for a month was just a rebound girl. I have never really had boring sex myself, but some has been border line if I wasn't "really in the mood" like if I was tired as hell or pissed of at something. Other than that... Bring on the pootie tang! Quote Free speech is meant to protect unpopular speech. Popular speech, by definition, needs no protection. -Neal Boortz
Vaness Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 Sex with my b/f is good sometimes great...but it is pretty much always the same, I enjoy it everytime. I just wish we did something that would drive me insane. You know what I mean? and it's pretty hard to do that now that Im pregnant and my stomach gets in the way and I get tired 10 times as fast... ugh . Is my sex life ever gonna be great again, even after the baby is born? ...any tips from the experienced people out there? Quote
SlIgHtLyOpInIoNaTeD Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 From what my girl says it gets better that 6 weeks after you have to wait makes it better because (maybe different for some) I hated waiting that long and your homones won't be right for like a year.... So don't despair everything gets better with time Quote Free speech is meant to protect unpopular speech. Popular speech, by definition, needs no protection. -Neal Boortz
Vaness Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 SIX WEEKS!!!! why?? I didn't know any of that. well if its worth the sacrifice....I guess. Quote
Lethalfind Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 Nazz, if your girl thinks Sex is dirty then your probably not going to see a change unless she gets some counseling. She either thinks that because something has happened to her or the person who raised her programmed her to think that way. My Mom tried to program me to think Sex was dirty but it didn't work. My sister on the other hand can't stand sex, she is really out of whack emotionally. Nazz feel sorry for her thought process on Sex. Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together. I found that when I was getting enough good sex, nothing he did was as annoying. BUT when I wasn't getting sex, everything he did annoyed me. Unless you are willing to stay with her and work through her psychological problems (a lengthy, painstaking process) then I would find a new girlfriend, its not likely to change on its own. When you said "stealing the pussy" that drove home how awful this be for you. Quote I am a pathetic piece of shit leeching single mom.
simpleguy Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 When two folks are married and have different sex drive levels, it creates a problem, but you do not ruin a wonderful marriage over it. Mine high, hers low. Probably why I gained so much weight over the years. Then, I woke up one morning, eating a snickers bar and coke for breakfast, and decided I was going to DIE if I did not change something now. I just work out allot, after losing 160 pounds to better my life (now weigh 175..used to weigh 335). I dress well, eat right, alwasy make sure I look my best in public, and be the best damn husband and father I can be. I feel better about myself, and let the frustration of very infrequent sex, go. I do get allot of married women in my town now stopping me to talk to me and tell me how freat I look etc..that part is fun, and I can fantisize about that, and smile. Most guys in town now hate me. I have no apologies. I worked my A#$ # off to lose the weight...if I can do it, anyone can. Ok, how did this reply get into weight loss...sorry folks. 1 Quote
angie Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Sex with my b/f is good sometimes great...but it is pretty much always the same, I enjoy it everytime. I just wish we did something that would drive me insane. You know what I mean? and it's pretty hard to do that now that Im pregnant and my stomach gets in the way and I get tired 10 times as fast... ugh . Is my sex life ever gonna be great again, even after the baby is born? ...any tips from the experienced people out there? How far along are you??? I'm 5 months, and sex hasn't become a problem yet. I don't want it quite as often because I am so tired by the end of the day, but my drive is FAR from gone, and the belly is big, but not too big yet (Thank god!) Quote http://www.darwinawards.com/ http://www.snopes.com http://www.breakthechain.org STOP THE SPAM!! Click Me You Know You Want To
Vaness Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 Well I have 11 wks till my due date. Im not big and the belly still doesn't get in the way for basic positions, but Im not as agil.lol it takes time to do position transition. Sometimes I dont want anything but I give in real quick to my b/f and its all worth it. I can sleep better afterwards ....Im so excited and it feels like I've been preg. forever and still have forever to go. Quote
Outlaw2747 Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 SIX WEEKS!!!! why?? I didn't know any of that. well if its worth the sacrifice....I guess. The price to pay for having kids at a young age in the first place. Quote "I wish I was in Tijuana, eating barbecued iguana." - Wall of Voodoo http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/fb910e0baa5b4e108ffee98f66cdb3cc.gif
SlIgHtLyOpInIoNaTeD Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 Hey kids are a lot of fun. Mine's 6 month's old on Sat and I would not give anything for him. It changed things a lot, but I'm glad we had him while we were young because now I can stay young myself! I get to play with toys and shit again... I like it. Quote Free speech is meant to protect unpopular speech. Popular speech, by definition, needs no protection. -Neal Boortz
ToriAllen Posted August 29, 2005 Posted August 29, 2005 I'm seeing some interesting things on here. First, let me address, 'she thinks sex is dirty. There are some females out there that feel this way, but there are also some that feel this way about certain men or certain situations. If we say we are stressed or tired, don't expect us to go buck wild when you insist on sex anyway. There is also the possibility that it is the man rather than sex that we find disgusting. Sweaty men are sexy from a distance, but showers are definitely recommended before sex. Briefs are sexy, briefs with pee-pee or poopy stains are not. Where men usually only have one main button that needs to be pushed women have several, and every woman is different. What works for one will not work for another. Lead by example. If you are just in it for yourself, don Quote Smart men learn from their own mistakes; Wise men learn from others. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man.
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