fullauto Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 I just had a good conversation with someone that some people would call fat... and it got me to thinking about how shallow I was when I was in highschool... But as I've gootn older, I have changed my opinion a bit and was wondering if any one else felt the same way I do.... I would like to know just what people would rather have, or more acurately, which aspect of someones attractiveness people find more appealing.... The choices are simple.... #1 Physically hot, but bad smile, attitude, and sense of appreciation #2 Physically not so hot, but great smile, attitude, and very appreciative I will say that I would MUCH rather have the second... for a few reasons.... 1.. They are all pink in the middle... and if they know what they are doing, it's better than a skinny skank with no clue 2.. Smiles are very important to me... I find that they are more important to me than a hot ass 3.. There is just NO SUBSTITUTE for a good attitude... ever been with a TOTAL BITCH? than you know what I mean... 4.. I have to feel appreciated... like I'm valuable, and If I don't get that, I don't really care how hot the bitch is, I'm just not going to stick around... Quote Liberals... Saving the world one semester at a time "I'm not a racist... I'm a realist! And if you don't know the difference, You're an Idiot!" -- Fullauto Present - 1. (Noun) The point that divides disappointment from hope
builder Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 They all start to look good if you haven't had any for years> Quote Persevere, it pisses people off.
Vortex Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 honestly.....those who are drastically good looking are something i stay away from. They can get whatever they want and never seem to be happy with what they have. Look at the stars (or the ones we are supposed to look up to) their marriages never last and they move on quicker than my pop tart can rise from my toaster. People who are so goodlooking that everyone wants them are trouble....and always will be. They know they can get what they want at any time they want... why would you want that? however..........for one night....take it...but kick it aside before it ruins you! a combination of looks, intelligence, humor, and compromise are the way to go! even if you have a mediocre mix of them all...you will be much happier. Magazines that say whats hot really only means "whats hot for those much hotter than you".....FUCK THAT.....if you can have sexual feelings for someone even if they arent up to brad pitt/angelina jolies looks then baby...you have hit the jackpot! yes i prolly spelled thier names wrong...but i feel no need to look up how to spell them because their lives have ZERO impact on mine....and i could care less if they adopot a baby from the bla bla bla rainforest or cheat on whomever spouse they are with.......their lives make nothing but a big heap of shit on my door step. They are nothing.......other than they might be pretty and a good actor/actress.......thats as far as their impact goes Quote -I don't know about you...but I am SICK and tired of being nice and understanding!!! -The Liver is evil and must be punished! -The Early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese. How can your opinion be the correct one....if, infact, its only an opinion?!?!
Cogito Ergo Sum Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Looks come and go... A warm smile and an appreciative heart last a lifetime. 1 Quote . I put no stock in religion. By the word "religion" I have seen the lunacy of fanatics of every denomination be called the will of god. I have seen too much "religion" in the eyes of too many murderers. Holiness is in right action, and courage on behalf of those who cannot defend themselves, and goodness. WE'VE SPENT HOW MUCH IN IRAQ? www.costofwar.com - http://icasualties.org/oif/ - http://iraqbodycount.net/
builder Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Looks come and go... A warm smile and an appreciative heart last a lifetime. Damn. Can't give rep. Gotta spread that rep. Is that your own, CES? Quote Persevere, it pisses people off.
ALLAH IS GREAT Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Looks come and go... A warm smile and an appreciative heart last a lifetime. Oh that's nice.I'm having the same problem buildy.I gotta spread some rep. CES,I'll get back to you. Quote 'They intend to put out the Light of Allah with their mouths.But Allah will bring His Light to perfection even though the disbelievers hate it' ''Oh Allah!Make the best of my deeds my last deeds, and make the best of my life my last moments, and make the best day of my life the Day I meet You!''
builder Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Vorty, I have to agree with you about the stunners. Waaaaaaaay more trouble than the pleasure of having one on your arm. I'm more of a common interest "shopper". a) Does their Dad have a big boat? b) Do they enjoy long days in a boat? c) Can they catch fish? d) Can they drive a boat? and, most importantly........... do they have a sense of humour? Quote Persevere, it pisses people off.
Cogito Ergo Sum Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Damn. Can't give rep. Gotta spread that rep. Is that your own, CES? Yes, it is. Quote . I put no stock in religion. By the word "religion" I have seen the lunacy of fanatics of every denomination be called the will of god. I have seen too much "religion" in the eyes of too many murderers. Holiness is in right action, and courage on behalf of those who cannot defend themselves, and goodness. WE'VE SPENT HOW MUCH IN IRAQ? www.costofwar.com - http://icasualties.org/oif/ - http://iraqbodycount.net/
builder Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Yes, it is. Pearler. Quote Persevere, it pisses people off.
ToriAllen Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 ?? The consensus seems to be that attractive people are ugly on the inside and ugly people are attractive on the inside... I have found that many unattractive people have bad attitudes. Mainly due to a lack of confidence. They tend to have a chip on their shoulders and often try to compensate for what they lack physically with an 'I'm a bad ass' attitude. Haven't you noticed that those most likely to go into law enforcement are those who were 'picked on' in school? They are control/power freaks. They tend to take things far too seriously. They are resentful of those with confidence. Attractive people tend to be more confident. They tend to have a better sense of humor than those without confidence, and are more personable. Their attitude usually gets them farther in life. I think a confident average person is much more attractive than an unconfident supermodel. Attitude makes all the difference in the world, but for the most part confidence is held by those who are more attractive. That being said I would choose 2 if those were the last two choices on earth, but since they are not Quote Smart men learn from their own mistakes; Wise men learn from others. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man.
tizz Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 So where are all the men that fit that descrption. I let the last one go and he up and got married and had a kid on me LOL Quote "An intelligence that is not humane is the most dangerous thing in the world" Ashley Montague "No one should have to walk alone" Phuong Du "An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind" Ghandi "If I were asked to define an American in a single phrase, I would say 'An American is a person who has the right to be different' and I think that right is growing" William Manchester
angie Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Definitely option 2. Every "hot" guy I have dated has turned out to be a turd. My boyfriend is average. Not ugly, not hot. But he is my perfect match, and that to me is the most attractive thing in the world. Quote http://www.darwinawards.com/ http://www.snopes.com http://www.breakthechain.org STOP THE SPAM!! Click Me You Know You Want To
ToriAllen Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 I just want to clear one thing up... We are talking about relationship rather than one-night-stand, right? That would change the whole dynamics. Quote Smart men learn from their own mistakes; Wise men learn from others. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man.
RoyalOrleans Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 As long as she's got big tits. Quote To be the Man, you've got to beat the Man. - Ric Flair Everybody knows I'm known for dropping science.
TheJenn88 Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 ?? The consensus seems to be that attractive people are ugly on the inside and ugly people are attractive on the inside... I have found that many unattractive people have bad attitudes. Mainly due to a lack of confidence. They tend to have a chip on their shoulders and often try to compensate for what they lack physically with an 'I'm a bad ass' attitude. Haven't you noticed that those most likely to go into law enforcement are those who were 'picked on' in school? They are control/power freaks. They tend to take things far too seriously. They are resentful of those with confidence. Attractive people tend to be more confident. They tend to have a better sense of humor than those without confidence, and are more personable. Their attitude usually gets them farther in life. I think a confident average person is much more attractive than an unconfident supermodel. Attitude makes all the difference in the world, but for the most part confidence is held by those who are more attractive. That being said I would choose 2 if those were the last two choices on earth, but since they are not Quote
sixes Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 This poll is a hard choice for me. Dose she have no teeth for the bad smile part? Cause that is a major plus! Quote .
Silver_dragon87 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I think most people will say they would prefer personality over looks, but most of them are full of shit. Sure, they'll lose the hottie in the end, but they DO try for him or her. If you saw an ugly person standing beside a hot one, you'd go for the hot one. No one wants to take the time to get to know any of the ugly people. My proof? I know scores of not so attractive yet fantastic people and none of them were ever asked out in all the time I knew them--except for total creeps (who wanted sex, you know how it is) who thought they'd be desperate. Some of them were. At any rate, we all say we don't care but most of us do. You can take my word for it; I know No one looks twice at me and frankly, I don't care. Take heart, homely but good people--being unattractive is a good filtering system. You know anyone who's your friend or who asks you out is on the level. Quote Everyone pound your feet to this phenomenon. Now, let's make it loud, let's show 'em all how you move to this phenomenon. Roll! Open your soul, maybe lose control inside of this phenomenon. Just let yourself go and let everyone know you move to this phenomenon. Phenomenon --- Thousand Foot Krutches
ToriAllen Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Maybe it's just a highschool thing, but there are tons of hot girls at my school, and not so many hot guys. Generally, though a hot girl has a great and caring personality, she WILL not date a guy who isn't so hot, even though he has a great personality. For some people, a great personality only extends as far as not having to date an "ugly" person. P.S. <3 you, you-know-who. Yeah, it's a high school thing. Most of the 'hot' girls get fat around 19 or 20 (maybe childbearing), while the average guys mature into 'hot' guys around this same age. Quote Smart men learn from their own mistakes; Wise men learn from others. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man.
tizz Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Guys don't reach their FULL potential for looks until around 35 (right when women really begin to loose some of theirs) Damn between the looks and the sex drive thing, there is a DAMN small window of compatibility there LOL) Quote "An intelligence that is not humane is the most dangerous thing in the world" Ashley Montague "No one should have to walk alone" Phuong Du "An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind" Ghandi "If I were asked to define an American in a single phrase, I would say 'An American is a person who has the right to be different' and I think that right is growing" William Manchester
angie Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Guys don't reach their FULL potential for looks until around 35 (right when women really begin to loose some of theirs) Damn between the looks and the sex drive thing, there is a DAMN small window of compatibility there LOL) Ain't that the sad truth? I have seen pictures of my BF from years ago...I think he is MUCH better looking now than when he was younger (Bobby is 30). Why can't they have the sex drive in their 30s with the good looks? Damn we just can't win!! Quote http://www.darwinawards.com/ http://www.snopes.com http://www.breakthechain.org STOP THE SPAM!! Click Me You Know You Want To
fullauto Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 It all depends on what your looking for... I, personally, can be bothered with a hot girl that I don't much like... I was married for 8 years and am well aware that after a while, looks becomes a distant second to compatability... My ex wife was hot when I met her, and is still a very attractive woman, but every time I see her, all I see is a miserable bitch with nothing better to do than make me feel bad about myself... I don't care how hot she is, I can't even be in the same room as her! I'm 29 Years old, married once, so I guess that has alot to do with it, but what I have noticed is that Industrious men (the type women want when their looks fade) are far to busy for any sort or major social life, and are really just looking for someone that they can spend some desent time with when they get home... Looks have little to do with good company after a few years... I will admit, I have the wondering eye for young attractive girls, but that's just eye candy... I'm on the move alot... I have a lot of responsibility, and no time for bull shit... Guys like me want a woman, not a girl... regardless of how hot or not they are.... Quote Liberals... Saving the world one semester at a time "I'm not a racist... I'm a realist! And if you don't know the difference, You're an Idiot!" -- Fullauto Present - 1. (Noun) The point that divides disappointment from hope
Outlaw2747 Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 In short, she does not have to be the hottest thing in the world. SOME physical attraction would be cool but she don't have to be a model. But some brains and a great attitude is a must. Quote "I wish I was in Tijuana, eating barbecued iguana." - Wall of Voodoo http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/fb910e0baa5b4e108ffee98f66cdb3cc.gif
EnterNetProphet Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 hmmm interesting I don't really care if the chick is flat chested or what ever, it's personality, and to a degree intelligence(The brighter the better...there are several styles of intel)hmmm gotta be thrifty/loves reading/nature/sense of history/sense of humour, well if she does not have these things ,I will introduce them to her...if she thinks herself a master manipulator...subtle or not hahahahahaha keep it coming grasshopper! smacks a cramp on dat ass what a turn on!..but all in all..it's absolute loyalty as well. And anyways I come from a familiy of big titted women..the last thing I need to see is more big tits (<-----plz don't psycho analyse that Royal Orleans) Quote
Cogito Ergo Sum Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 Small teeth, large luscious lips, and the gloriously wonderful lack of a gag reflex...that's my preference. Simple, natural, and to the point. The way nature intended it to be. Quote . I put no stock in religion. By the word "religion" I have seen the lunacy of fanatics of every denomination be called the will of god. I have seen too much "religion" in the eyes of too many murderers. Holiness is in right action, and courage on behalf of those who cannot defend themselves, and goodness. WE'VE SPENT HOW MUCH IN IRAQ? www.costofwar.com - http://icasualties.org/oif/ - http://iraqbodycount.net/
ToriAllen Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 hmmm interesting I don't really care if the chick is flat chested or what ever, it's personality, and to a degree intelligence(The brighter the better...there are several styles of intel)hmmm gotta be thrifty/loves reading/nature/sense of history/sense of humour, well if she does not have these things ,I will introduce them to her...if she thinks herself a master manipulator...subtle or not hahahahahaha keep it coming grasshopper! smacks a cramp on dat ass what a turn on!..but all in all..it's absolute loyalty as well. And anyways I come from a familiy of big titted women..the last thing I need to see is more big tits (<-----plz don't psycho analyse that Royal Orleans) This is not a newspaper. Save the personal ad for a dating site.... I want a tall handsome man with a great sense of humor. He must have a nice muscular chest in order to make up for what I lack in the area (no bird-chested men please). He must be good looking, sexy, intelligent, and cocky. That's right. I want a man that is a complete ass to everyone but me. Confidence is important. He must think he is God Quote Smart men learn from their own mistakes; Wise men learn from others. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man.
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