Insulting peoples children

[Cassiopeia]

NazzNeg,

 

Whatever. I mean, really. You don't know me at all, and to make all these assumptions, well...it just shows that you are unwilling to accept that there might be some people out there that do right by their kids.

 

What I told you is fact. You can accept it or not, it makes no difference to me. I know who I am, and how I live my life. Thats what matters, and not your miniscule little opinion.

 

You are right. I could easily have taken the time away from my child, that he needed after his Dad left. I could have gone out with men, and found him another daddy... BUT, thats not who I am. I feel it is more important to be independent, and a strong constant figure in my child's life...especially since his father essentially abandoned him for another woman and the ready made family she had.

 

However you are going to see things as you see them. I am not interested any longer in trying to show you your errored thinking. You don't know me, and apparently will never know me, as you have already decided(through a computer screen, no less) exactly who you think I am.

 

Too bad that you will never know how wrong you are. I am not going to waste my time with this anymore.

[Cassiopeia]

Thats NazzNegg with 2 G's please.

 

 

 

What do you consider doing right by your children?

 

What you have told me is your opinion of events, in most cases an individuals opinion of events is skewed towards their point of view, a rare individual it is, who is truly objective about such things. And you are correct my opinion is absolutely valueless, however i am not presenting my opinion, I am drawing conclusions based on probabilities, observation and in some cases experience. While you can deny the specifics you can not deny the broader paint strokes that encompass human tendencies. In denying such things you are simply highlighting them as truer then others, by refusing to lay it out and discuss it you are in effect admitting to it, as well as denying what is common human reactions and motivations, you are saying you are not human, not governed by the usual human response mechanisms, and that, unless you are an alien, is impossible.

 

I am going to see things as you present them, no more no less.

 

I can not mourn for losing something I never had. In your giving up you may be losing what it is you have been looking for. Scared is not a way to go through life.

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Ok, I will give this one more shot.

 

 

well I apologize for misspelling your name.

 

Doing right by my child? Well, it's simple, really. When he was very young, obviously it began with the basics of making sure his immediate needs were met. Above and beyond that, were a myriad of other things, that made him feel loved. Giving him my time and attention, socializing him, teaching him right from wrong, reading to him from an early age, so that he picked up on it early.(He was reading books on his own before kinder, and is now on a 6th grade reading level in 3rd grade.)

After his father left, there was a lot more involved in doing right by him, because it became more and more obvious that I would be the ONLY parent, effectively. When his father and I "had it out" about his affair, my son was at school. His father moved out that day(before school let out), but when he came back over the weekend to pick up his things, I insisted that we tell our son together that we were going to get a divorce. I made sure that my son knew(and still make sure he knows) that the divorce was no where near his fault, and that it simply happened because his father and I could not live together any more.

Unfortunately, his father couldn't stick to the story. He not only moved the girlfriend he cheated with in with him immediately, but got her pregnant within 2 months. All this happening while he essentially ignored his son...calling and telling him he would see him the following weekend, then calling me to tell me he couldn't come see him, because he was out of gas money, or because she wanted to do something that weekend, so he would have to reschedule his visit with our son.

I have spent a lot of time, over the past 3 years undoing the damage that my ex leaves in his wake. Most recently a trip that my ex took to disney world (via a disney cruise) with the girlfriend, her daughter, and their son. My son was not invited.(told by his father that he didn't invite him because he lives with me. Despite the fact that in private, I made it clear to my ex that he was welcome to take Jordan.) Yet they were "kind"enough to show him all the pictures from the trip, and the souvenirs that they bought for themselves, and that the other kids came home with.

I will admit that there have been many times that I have been tempted to blast my ex in front of my son, but I haven't done it. I won't do that to my child. I WANT him to have a good relationship with his father. I have done everything in my power to facilitate that, but I cannot force the man to visit his son. I don't speak negatively about him to my child. Just as I do not talk negatively about my ex's child with the girlfriend. This child is my son's half brother, and despite the child's origins, I encourage a good relationship between he and his brother. Family is important.

 

 

 

 

Of COURSE, I was hurt by the way things went with my ex. It kills me every time I see my childs' heart break due to his fathers' callousness. But I have not, and will not contribute to his heartbreak by fighting with his dad, in front of him or not. I keep a blog, for that very reason, as well as attend a divorce group once a week. These things help me to vent my frustrations without causing my son to be in the line of fire. I have moved on with my life, but have simply chosen to not move on with another man. A relationship is not a priority for me right now. My son, my work, my education(I am going back to school), and maintaining my home and my financial stability...those are my priorities. Perhaps one day I will make room for a relationship, but not right now. I have too much else on my plate, and I refuse to allow myself to get into the position I was in before. When I enter into a relationship next, I will be standing on my own 2 feet, and can have a relationship that is on equal footing. Depending on my undependable ex was my biggest mistake, and one that I have learned from.

[lashton]

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[lashton]

Thats NazzNegg with 2 G's please.

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wooo woo heres comes the spelling police, grrrrr

[lashton]

well I apologize for misspelling your name.

Well good spelling does show good maturity, nah bullshit, i couldn't resist saying that.

 

Doing right by my child? Well, it's simple, really. When he was very young, obviously it began with the basics of making sure his immediate needs were met.

OMFG this is not a parenting guide is it!

Above and beyond that, were a myriad of other things, that made him feel loved. Giving him my time and attention, socializing him, teaching him right from wrong

"Yes son, Mum is right, DAD is a cock sucking conniving little fucken piece of dog shit"

reading to him from an early age, so that he picked up on it early.(He was reading books on his own before kinder, and is now on a 6th grade reading level in 3rd grade.)

Why he'll never read again, once he discovers movies allow him to see the sex rather than read about it!

After his father left, there was a lot more involved in doing right by him, because it became more and more obvious that I would be the ONLY parent

WRONG whoo hoo, here comes the clue train, next stop is you, YOU are NOT the ONLY parent, and never WILL be, there will always be HIS dad, even when dead!

effectively. When his father and I "had it out" about his affair, my son was at school. His father moved out that day(before school let out), but when he came back over the weekend to pick up his things, I insisted that we tell our son together that we were going to get a divorce. I made sure that my son knew(and still make sure he knows) that the divorce was no where near his fault, and that it simply happened because his father and I could not live together any more.

Unfortunately, his father couldn't stick to the story. He not only moved the girlfriend he cheated with in with him immediately, but got her pregnant within 2 months

Maybe she was simply better than you, i mean he did knock her up to, maybe you need to analyze WHY he cheated on you?

All this happening while he essentially ignored his son...calling and telling him he would see him the following weekend, then calling me to tell me he couldn't come see him, because he was out of gas money, or because she wanted to do something that weekend, so he would have to reschedule his visit with our son.

Meaning you could not offload him onto the father.

I have spent a lot of time, over the past 3 years undoing the damage that my ex leaves in his wake

Man you really are trying hard to look like an angel aren't you, pity when he hit puberty he'll hate you anyway.

Most recently a trip that my ex took to disney world (via a disney cruise) with the girlfriend, her daughter, and their son. My son was not invited.(told by his father that he didn't invite him because he lives with me. Despite the fact that in private, I made it clear to my ex that he was welcome to take Jordan.) Yet they were "kind"enough to show him all the pictures from the trip, and the souvenirs that they bought for themselves, and that the other kids came home with.

True maybe that you hate the fact that you cannot now afford to take your kid on the trip and your ex can!

I will admit that there have been many times that I have been tempted to blast my ex in front of my son, but I haven't done it. I won't do that to my child. I WANT him to have a good relationship with his father. I have done everything in my power to facilitate that, but I cannot force the man to visit his son. I don't speak negatively about him to my child. Just as I do not talk negatively about my ex's child with the girlfriend. This child is my son's half brother, and despite the child's origins, I encourage a good relationship between he and his brother. Family is important.

 

 

 

 

Of COURSE, I was hurt by the way things went with my ex. It kills me every time I see my childs' heart break due to his fathers' callousness. But I have not, and will not contribute to his heartbreak by fighting with his dad, in front of him or not.

Thats what you are doing here complaining about him, maybe if you said that to him, or is NazzNegg the father

I keep a blog, for that very reason, as well as attend a divorce group once a week. These things help me to vent my frustrations without causing my son to be in the line of fire. I have moved on with my life, but have simply chosen to not move on with another man.

A relationship is not a priority for me right now. My son, my work, my education(I am going back to school), and maintaining my home and my financial stability...those are my priorities

Awww did I get the warm fuzzys there or ... nope ... I just threw up

Perhaps one day I will make room for a relationship, but not right now. I have too much else on my plate, and I refuse to allow myself to get into the position I was in before. When I enter into a relationship next, I will be standing on my own 2 feet, and can have a relationship that is on equal footing. Depending on my undependable ex was my biggest mistake, and one that I have learned from.

[Cassiopeia]

Forget it.

I came in here to clarify a few points, due to something NazzNegg said that rang true.

I did NOT come in here to be blasted by people who ADAMANTLY refuse to consider the possibility that I(being someone that they do not even KNOW) just might be speaking the truth.

Damn it, I realize that I am not perfect. I make plenty of mistakes. I also KNOW however that I am a hardworking single mother, who is doing everything humanly possible to be both Mom and Dad to a child that deserves both in his life, but unfortunately has been denied his father(by his father).

I am not remiss in acknowledging the hard won battles. I have fought my way through hell, and have come out of it strong, and happy. I KNOW the child I have, and I KNOW the life that I live. I am proud of that life, and have EVERY reason to be.

If you cannot accept that, then that truly is your problem. It truly saddens me that it seems to be impossible for some people to believe that there really might actually BE a good mom out there, but all in all, oh well.

So, I gave it a couple of shots...but I truly am not willing to waste my time on trying to convince hateful people of the truth.

Good night.

[Cassiopeia]

NazzNegg,

Thankyou for your response. I was reacting(yes, my error I realize) to Lashton's post. Had a bad day at work, and reacted accordingly...I know I shouldn't have. It would have been better to be much more calm when reading what that person wrote.

 

What you said did ring true. I had reacted defensively to you before, and when I was able to sit back and read through the things that "raised my hackles", I felt more able to address it.

 

I am defensive of my parenting, due to issues that actually have nothing to do with my life with my son. It's taking time for me to work through them, but I am making headway, certainly.

 

As to denying myself love? I am not there yet. I was badly hurt by the circumstances of my divorce, and am not emotionally ready to handle trying love again. I want to believe it is out there for me, but I also feel that I am not in a good place to offer someone's heart a welcome home. I am still very insecure about my standing with men, and want to make sure that I am 1) Financially independent 2)Emotionally independent 3) Socially secure among other things, before opening myself up to love again.

 

I have come a long way in the past three years. I was agorophobic when my ex left. Terrified. When we moved from the home I had shared with him, I not only found myself able to get out and about on my own, but began working in a job that required constant contact with many people every day(retail), and have even been able to go out at night on occasion by myself, without cowering in the corner hoping that no one would notice me.

 

To many, these things might seem inconsequential, but I can tell you that these were major accomplishments for me. I have a lot to be proud of, but a lot of work ahead of me as well.

 

Anyway, thankyou for talking with me. Sorry we started off so rough, but I am glad that we are able to talk.

[Jhony5]

Is agoraphobia common in Texas? I have an acquaintance who is agoraphobic and also lives in Texas.

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Everythings bigger in Texas. Even mental defects.

[Phantom]

Is agoraphobia common in Texas? I have an acquaintance who is agoraphobic and also lives in Texas.

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Texas is a big, scary place. We are all agoraphobic!

[Cassiopeia]

Texas is a big, scary place. We are all agoraphobic!

 

 

 

Yeah, thats the truth... But some places here are a hell of a lot scarier than others.

 

Let us not forget that Texas is also the home of the infamous Leslie....

[hugo]

I live in Texas that is why my penis is exceptionally large.

[manicmonday]

I live in Texas that is why my penis is exceptionally large.

 

Yeah, but it's overshadowed by the size of your nose.

[phreakwars]

Best ways to improve sexual function: quit smoking, start excercising, lose weight.

That positively is 100% accurate.

 

Better blood flow is the key.

 

I LOVE my Bowflex.

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[ToriAllen]

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  [ ]Average number of times a man will ejaculate in his lifetime: 7,200
  [ ]Average # of times he will ejaculate from masturbation: 2,000
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  [ ]Percent of men who say they masturbate at least once a day: 54%
   
  

 

Hmmm. So, how many times a day do the daily masturbaters have sex in order to create the '# of times in a lifetime' stats...

[snafu]

Hmmm. So, how many times a day do the daily masturbaters have sex in order to create the '# of times in a lifetime' stats...

 

Yeah Hmmm lets see.. I think your stats are off. If I live to be 60 and ejaculated once per day that would be what?... 21,900 times. of course that wouldn't be acurate either unless I started off the day I was born. So if I started at say 10 years old (I was an early bloomer) that would still be 18,250 times. In reality you would probably do it more than once a day.. So lets just double that just to be on the safe side. That gives us a grand total of 36,500 times. I plan on living until 80 sooooo......

[snafu]

... Now realistically speaking a males masturbation frequency ebbs and flows, in his teens he is likely to masturbate more, middle age will see a substantial decrees in masturbation events. ... .

 

 

..give or take but that's why I just averaged out twice a day making it a more reliable number. And if you are equating the masturbation with fornication together your women folk friends might only know half of the story.

[Jhony5]

I would say that about 99.9% of them get laid by their boyfriends/husbands about once every 2 weeks at best. many have never even had an orgasm and all of them are starved for attention.

Dude. Man. Guy. Buddy....c'mon. You do know women just say that shit to appeal to your sense of conquest don't cha? How could you be so naive?

 

When you meet women that are "taken", they will almost always say

(1) That their boyfriends/husbands don't pay attention to them.

(2) That their boyfriends/husbands don't give them sexual attention.

(3) That when they do get some from their boyfriend/husband its terrible and they never have an orgasm.

 

Women are inherently attention whores. I blame it on the constant impression given to them when they are little girls impressing upon them that they are "princesses" and should be treated that way, waited on hand and foot and showered with constant attention. Think about it.

[manicmonday]

That positively is 100% accurate.

 

Better blood flow is the key.

 

I LOVE my Bowflex.

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Isn't that Mrs. Phreakwars loves your Bowflex?

[wolvesslasher]

I know that it is schoolyard tactics....but it is one thing that gets to me.

I do view kids as innocents...even if they have shithead parents. My kid has a shithead dad, and I am here to tell you that he is a GREAT kid, despite that.

 

Other than that, people can spew anything they want and it will just roll off my back. LOL

 

The only thing great about your child is his cock sucking ability. His tight ass

is kinda great too I guess, but my large cock can't fit in it.

[Cassiopeia]

The only thing great about your child is his cock sucking ability. His tight ass

is kinda great too I guess, but my large cock can't fit in it.

 

Hey sick fuck.

 

My kid is 8 years old. You really sure that you want to post something like that? Even in jest, comments like that are taking it WAY too far dude.

[ToriAllen]

Women are inherently attention whores. I blame it on the constant impression given to them when they are little girls impressing upon them that they are "princesses" and should be treated that way, waited on hand and foot and showered with constant attention. Think about it.

 

No kidding. Only some of us are Princesses worthy of being waited on hand and foot, and showered with constant attention. The others are just undeserving attention whores. I'm with you on this one...Bitches.

[tiredofwhiners]

The only thing great about your child is his cock sucking ability. His tight ass

is kinda great too I guess, but my large cock can't fit in it.

 

 

Unless your a priest i'm taking this as a joke.

[tiredofwhiners]

Dude. Man. Guy. Buddy....c'mon. You do know women just say that shit to appeal to your sense of conquest don't cha? How could you be so naive?

 

When you meet women that are "taken", they will almost always say

(1) That their boyfriends/husbands don't pay attention to them.

(2) That their boyfriends/husbands don't give them sexual attention.

(3) That when they do get some from their boyfriend/husband its terrible and they never have an orgasm.

 

Women are inherently attention whores. I blame it on the constant impression given to them when they are little girls impressing upon them that they are "princesses" and should be treated that way, waited on hand and foot and showered with constant attention. Think about it.

 

From the bar chicks I've ran into around the country, I'd have to agree with this one.

 

And masturbating at 14-15 years old oh my god:eek: I started at about 11-12:o must have been a early bloomer.

[snafu]

Good points.

 

Actually I took J5's comments to mean that women are lying, cheating, cock-sockets pretty much never to be trusted or relied upon... I see by your comments you agree.

Thats why you stuff it in while it is still soft.

Is it taking it Imus far? or Kramer far? exactly what is actually to far?? and does this definition of "To Far" apply equality to all, or just a select few?? Should someone be criminally punished for satirical blogging? If we make fun of the gay GF members is that also a criminal act? what about the Black, Latino, Asian, Eskimos etc.. GF members is making fun of them going "TO FAR" As well? Is calling people from Georgia Red Neck, sister-fuckers going "TO FAR".... if so then why does everyone get to say what ever the fuck they want about WHITEY???? answer me that will you, and make sure the answer makes sense and is equally applicable to everyone & everything.

 

In fact to make an absolute fucking nuisance of my self to society I am going to start a class action suit that will target:

All comedians

TV personalities

8a businesses

Ethnic TV channels

Sports leagues

The Mrs Black American pageant

Black collages

Black magazines

Latino organizations, clubs & events

Texas border towns

Homosexual associations, clubs & events

China town commercial & residential districts

Women only fitness centers

The Catholic Nun school

The girl scouts

The professional nursing industry

The professional beauty shop industry

M.A.D

Malt Liquor & Menthol cigarette advertisers/manufacturers

All Rap groups and music producers

FUBU

Urban Wear

Spike Lee

Russel Simmons

The Black Caucus

All political associations based on an ethnic agenda

etc....

 

Feel free to add some more obviously insulting organizations to the list as you all may see fit. This class action suite will be worth trillions & trillions, and I am going to get the same lawyer that won against big tobacco to spear head it.

 

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Dont' forget Geico.

[snafu]

O they are on the top of the list. I am tired of all the English accent advertising, what because you have an accent you are more creditable?

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What about the poor caveman's rights?