Single mothers equal big time idiots

[Anna Perenna]

I hate "single mothers". They always put their status in quotes like it is some badge of honor. HELLO! It's not honorable to spit out bastards. Well, frankly I could care less if you do, but you all seem to be having your hand out all the time. Plus you want to be patted on the back.

 

Please. You chose to eff up your life with your horrid spawn. Now you want us to help you financially, plus you want to hear how wonderful your dreadful, dull, adhd, bipolar kid is.

 

Yuck. Not going to hear it from me. The poor sperm donor dumped you, so why should we care. PLEASE.....Take your birth control. We have enough "special" kids!!!

 

Hey, I've got an idea.

 

How about if the dead beats who don't want to be good fathers stop sticking their unprotected dicks into women?

 

Just a thought.

[Elmoish]

Hey, I've got an idea.

 

How about if the dead beats who don't want to be good fathers stop sticking their unprotected dicks into women?

 

Just a thought.

 

 

A dull thought.

 

A woman that has to carry or abort a child has the problem.

[Anna Perenna]

A dull thought.

 

A woman that has to carry or abort a child has the problem.

 

But it's a RATIONAL & FAIR thought, dull as you might find it.

 

If a guy doesn't want to impregnate a woman, he can put a condom on. Or practise abstinence. Or fuck himself.

 

You haven't even considered rape here, I see.

 

And I am not a zealous pro-lifer or anything, but I doubt most women would want to have an abortion. Nor should they have to. Nobody wants to kill their own child, unless they feel they have no alternative. I am amazed that you would see it as just another option.

 

And if you want to place all the responsibility on the women, that's your prerogative, but you should know that if you are absolving yourself then you have no right to judge them, or even talk about what they do. It's none of your business.

 

Worry about your own dick and for the love of humanity, keep it in your pants. Nobody would want a ranting heartless bastard like you for a father.

[tizz]

Men have the luxury of being able to walk away. Women stick it out. That's why there are so many single mom's. It has been made acceptable by society for the man to simply walk away and do no more than write a check no and then of you are lucky. You are busting on the women here, but last I check we are not asexual creature able to reproduce on our own

[manicmonday]

And if you want to place all the responsibility on the women, that's your prerogative, but you should know that if you are absolving yourself then you have no right to judge them, or even talk about what they do. It's none of your business.

Worry about your own dick and for the love of humanity, keep it in your pants. Nobody would want a ranting heartless bastard like you for a father.

Amen. Why are women who get pregnate whores and men are innocent???

 

And for the orginal poster, who are you and what makes you so great? What are contributing to society that makes you the judge and jury on issues that don't pertain to you? Until you prove your not a waste of sperm, I suggest not judging on an issue that you have NO clue about.

[Elmoish]

But it's a RATIONAL & FAIR thought, dull as you might find it.

 

If a guy doesn't want to impregnate a woman, he can put a condom on. Or practise abstinence. Or fuck himself.

 

You haven't even considered rape here, I see.

 

And I am not a zealous pro-lifer or anything, but I doubt most women would want to have an abortion. Nor should they have to. Nobody wants to kill their own child, unless they feel they have no alternative. I am amazed that you would see it as just another option.

 

And if you want to place all the responsibility on the women, that's your prerogative, but you should know that if you are absolving yourself then you have no right to judge them, or even talk about what they do. It's none of your business.

 

Worry about your own dick and for the love of humanity, keep it in your pants. Nobody would want a ranting heartless bastard like you for a father.

 

Your idea of rationality is not based in reality. You give low rent men a great deal of credit by believing they should use condoms.

 

Here is a reality check: They don't use condoms because they could give a rats arse if the woman they eff gets preggers.

 

The woman should care a hell of a bit more than the man in this case. It is her body that might be impregnated.

 

Oh, the rape argument. Bwahahahaha. I know alot of single mommies that were raped!!!!

 

Some women use abortion as a form of birth control. You don't get out much, do you?

 

Re: judgement. Everybody does it. I certainly judge people by how they manage their life. If they are on the public dole for getting knocked up by a man that cares so little he will not marry her....yup...I'm judge and jury on that one! My money wasted on a really bad decision on her part.

 

"For the love of humanity"...wow. You should write romance novels!

 

Don't forget your pill tonight. I'd hate to see the genetic misfortune that you contribute to humanity.

[phreakwars]

Elmoish, it seems your focus is on a stereotype single mom. But it's not just single moms living off the welfare system, it's others who do the same. A perfect example:

 

 

My wife's sister and her worthless husband. He's the kind of guy that likes to work at a job just long enough to qualify for unemployment benefits, then he sits on his ass, does nothing but play video games and fuck his wife, lets her take care of the kids, and her have the steady (low paying, part time) job, and do all the cookin and cleaning too. Hell, he's so lazy, one time he made her change the tire on their car in the middle of winter while she was 6 months pregnant.

 

When the fucker IS working, he doesn't pay his bills, he buys stupid shit. Rent-To-Own all the way, then once his ass is jobless they are back on welfare and medical aid.

 

Right now, she's on her 3rd kid with the loser, he just got fired from yet another job and is seeking unemployment (as usual), in the mean time, another fucking kid is brought into the world by useless people, and who has to foot the bill ?? Medicaid or whatever it's called will basically pay all the bills for them, when, every one of my children, were paid for out of mine and my wife's own pocket. WTF ?? Where is this strange law that gives people who don't do SHIT to be of any value to society, FREE health care over people who are out there busting their ass to make a living ?? That's not right at all.

 

So I don't think you should single out SINGLE MOMS per say as being the ONLY burden to society, when the people you should be focusing on, are the useless people who want the world to pay them to exist.

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[Elmoish]

Elmoish, it seems your focus is on a stereotype single mom. But it's not just single moms living off the welfare system, it's others who do the same. A perfect example:

 

 

My wife's sister and her worthless husband. He's the kind of guy that likes to work at a job just long enough to qualify for unemployment benefits, then he sits on his ass, does nothing but play video games and fuck his wife, lets her take care of the kids, and her have the steady (low paying, part time) job, and do all the cookin and cleaning too. Hell, he's so lazy, one time he made her change the tire on their car in the middle of winter while she was 6 months pregnant.

 

When the fucker IS working, he doesn't pay his bills, he buys stupid shit. Rent-To-Own all the way, then once his ass is jobless they are back on welfare and medical aid.

 

Right now, she's on her 3rd kid with the loser, he just got fired from yet another job and is seeking unemployment (as usual), in the mean time, another fucking kid is brought into the world by useless people, and who has to foot the bill ?? Medicaid or whatever it's called will basically pay all the bills for them, when, every one of my children, were paid for out of mine and my wife's own pocket. WTF ?? Where is this strange law that gives people who don't do SHIT to be of any value to society, FREE health care over people who are out there busting their ass to make a living ?? That's not right at all.

 

So I don't think you should single out SINGLE MOMS per say as being the ONLY burden to society, when the people you should be focusing on, are the useless people who want the world to pay them to exist.

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Yep, of course you are right, Phreak. I just hear that phrase SINGLE MOTHER a bit too much lately. Always said like it's some kind of heroic thing. It's anything but heroic.

 

Your sister in law needs to stop the babies!

[Hamza123]

Elmoish your comments are quite out of context. My father was very abusive and he left my mother. We lived in Switzerland and we were quite poor. My Mom used what she had and we moved to Arizona and rented for quite some time too. 15 years later, My mother has her Internation Backualauria in Law and is a Class II Atorney in Canada. She saved my life, and she's a single mother, and she is a hero. So before you go on about single mothers, why don't you take a look at the other side of the coin. I don't mean to be rude at all or come down on you like this, but it's offensive and people become defensive over this situation. Do you have children, or are you a youngin'?

[Elmoish]

Elmoish your comments are quite out of context. My father was very abusive and he left my mother. We lived in Switzerland and we were quite poor. My Mom used what she had and we moved to Arizona and rented for quite some time too. 15 years later, My mother has her Internation Backualauria in Law and is a Class II Atorney in Canada. She saved my life, and she's a single mother, and she is a hero. So before you go on about single mothers, why don't you take a look at the other side of the coin. I don't mean to be rude at all or come down on you like this, but it's offensive and people become defensive over this situation. Do you have children, or are you a youngin'?

 

My comments are not out of context. There is a huge population of single mothers that wear the ID like a badge of honor. It is my opinion that they should be ashamed, not proud....and certainly not proud to have no father for their child/ren and expect help with the basic needs.

 

Your mom sounds like a smart woman who made questionable choices when she was younger.

 

You must know that if she had made better decisions while dating...her life and yours would have been much easier.

 

I'm glad your life turned out well, as well as hers.

 

I have a step daughter whom I love. I don't think I will have bio children.

 

Still am put off by the single mothers who want a pat on the back for doing a very wrong thing. Don't you see that it is not a service to the child for making very bad choices?

[tizz]

Ya and if she had made those "better" decisions Hamza would not exist and it is very possible she would not have been pushed to succeed as she did. Life is not about regrets OR judgment. It's about doing the best you can with what you got. It's amazing the inspiration you find in being a parent. I honestly pray you are NEVER able to reproduce and pass on your bullshit prejudice thinking to another generation. I would much rather go it alone and struggle a bit than allow any child of mine be influenced by the likes of you.

 

I never grew up with a father. We did just fine. My best friend had the whole famdamily and even the 2.5 kids (one was lost very early on) plus two cats and a dog and her family made a heap of money. She is hardly balanced, her mother is THE fakest person I have ever met and even has the audacity to portray her bullshit made up self to her own children and her father sexually abused her (yet her mother is married to him to this day) Granted other than that one major fuck up (he never touched her just himself) he is a pretty nice guy. Mean while this friend of mine is eternally torn over all the crap she has to deal with in her family and how it has affected her now that she has her own family.

 

 

I am pretty damn confident that I got the better deal, and would not trade a second of my single parent life for a nanosecond of her "perfect" family.

[angie]

My comments are not out of context. There is a huge population of single mothers that wear the ID like a badge of honor. It is my opinion that they should be ashamed, not proud....and certainly not proud to have no father for their child/ren and expect help with the basic needs.

Not all single parents are that way. All the single parents I know are quite responsible, respectable people who care more for their children than some couples I know.

 

Your mom sounds like a smart woman who made questionable choices when she was younger.

And you never made any questionable choices when you were younger?

 

You must know that if she had made better decisions while dating...her life and yours would have been much easier.

Again...no one is infallible, including yourself. Drop the god complex, please. It's very unbecoming.

I'm glad your life turned out well, as well as hers.

That is probably the nicest thing I have ever heard you say. The only nice thing, come to think of it.

I have a step daughter whom I love. I don't think I will have bio children.

Thank God for that. And wouldn't that have made your wife a single mother before you two got married?

 

Still am put off by the single mothers who want a pat on the back for doing a very wrong thing. Don't you see that it is not a service to the child for making very bad choices?

Who died and made you Osiris?

Everyone makes mistakes. It's how they handle themselves after the fact that is most important. If they learn from their mistakes, they are better for it. If not, then they will continue to screw up.

[Lethalfind]

I'm a single Mother and it is a badge of honor to raise a child on your own and do a good job of it.

 

Its a badge of honor for me because I have never been on welfare and I have never gotten any child support from her Father.

 

I'm proud of our family, my daughter and I.

 

Its unfortunate that your Mother, Elmoish didn't consider abortion the world would smell a little better...

[tizz]

Hell, I know few single dads pushing the same limits of human patience understanding and total joy

[Lethalfind]

Hell, I know few single dads pushing the same limits of human patience understanding and total joy

 

Absolutely Tizz, I didn't mean to be sexist...I believe Cogito is one of them.

I am dating a man who raised his two sons on his own because their Mother didn't want to be bothered.

[Hamza123]

My comments are not out of context. There is a huge population of single mothers that wear the ID like a badge of honor. It is my opinion that they should be ashamed, not proud....and certainly not proud to have no father for their child/ren and expect help with the basic needs.

 

Your mom sounds like a smart woman who made questionable choices when she was younger.

 

You must know that if she had made better decisions while dating...her life and yours would have been much easier.

 

I'm glad your life turned out well, as well as hers.

 

I have a step daughter whom I love. I don't think I will have bio children.

 

Still am put off by the single mothers who want a pat on the back for doing a very wrong thing. Don't you see that it is not a service to the child for making very bad choices?

 

My mother was with my father for 13 years until... Well I don't know what happend, my father got into alcohal I guess. You serve a point though Elmoish, but under certain circumstances and certain single parents, usually they are the deep minority of single parents that have done major wrong. also tizz and angie I deeply commend you for your words! Smart women . If it wasn't for my mother I would have been back in switzerland cooking and cleaning after his drunken behind.

[manicmonday]

Ya and if she had made those "better" decisions Hamza would not exist and it is very possible she would not have been pushed to succeed as she did. Life is not about regrets OR judgment. It's about doing the best you can with what you got. It's amazing the inspiration you find in being a parent. I honestly pray you are NEVER able to reproduce and pass on your bullshit prejudice thinking to another generation. I would much rather go it alone and struggle a bit than allow any child of mine be influenced by the likes of you.

 

Amen. You can't put all situations in a vacuum and give them the same judgement. I'm a single mother and I met I make WAYYYY more money than Elmoish has ever dreamed of. I don't really care if people judge or not, but it get's a little old when WOMEN are judged for being single and men are PRAISED for "leaving the bitch". Whatever. I don't need a man to help me in life and I refuse to have a man drag on my life to wear me down. If he want's to sit on the stool all day and be drunk, his problem, I will survive without him.

 

I honestly pray that you just have a vasectomy, Elmoish, and die with your judgements and regrets that you try to pass on to other people. It would be a colossel waste of sperm on your part.

[Jhony5]

I hate "single mothers". They always put their status in quotes like it is some badge of honor. HELLO! It's not honorable to spit out bastards. Well, frankly I could care less if you do, but you all seem to be having your hand out all the time. Plus you want to be patted on the back.

 

Please. You chose to eff up your life with your horrid spawn. Now you want us to help you financially, plus you want to hear how wonderful your dreadful, dull, adhd, bipolar kid is.

 

Yuck. Not going to hear it from me. The poor sperm donor dumped you, so why should we care. PLEASE.....Take your birth control. We have enough "special" kids!!!

 

 

What a fucking moron. All I have to say i'm afraid. You're a god dam moron.

[Elmoish]

 

Amen. You can't put all situations in a vacuum and give them the same judgement. I'm a single mother and I met I make WAYYYY more money than Elmoish has ever dreamed of. I don't really care if people judge or not, but it get's a little old when WOMEN are judged for being single and men are PRAISED for "leaving the bitch". Whatever. I don't need a man to help me in life and I refuse to have a man drag on my life to wear me down. If he want's to sit on the stool all day and be drunk, his problem, I will survive without him.

 

I honestly pray that you just have a vasectomy, Elmoish, and die with your judgements and regrets that you try to pass on to other people. It would be a colossel waste of sperm on your part.

 

Hey Manicmonday...

 

I am not putting all situations in a vacuum. However, I do judge...especially if people drain the public teat.

 

Women SHOULD BE JUDGED for getting pregnant with no father to help.

 

Methinks you think you make wayyyy more money than me because you got some idiot to impregnate you and are living off the proceeds.

 

Doubt YOU make make more money though...

[tizz]

Elmo, me thinks you are WAAAAAAAY overestimating the amount of child support mothers get!!!!!

[manicmonday]

Hey Manicmonday...

 

I am not putting all situations in a vacuum. However, I do judge...especially if people drain the public teat.

 

Women SHOULD BE JUDGED for getting pregnant with no father to help.

 

Methinks you think you make wayyyy more money than me because you got some idiot to impregnate you and are living off the proceeds.

 

Doubt YOU make make more money though...

 

Actually jackass, I make a six figure income all by my wittle self with my education and he doesn't pay jack shit. He would have to have a job first. I didn't get pregnate by myself, he just decided he couldn't be a MANMAN and get out of the bar. He's probley your not so distant cousin in the jackass gene pool. I don't need him. My 8 years of EDUCATION pays for my living. I don't I'll ever see a dime from him. But that's ok because I don't have to see his drunk self picking up my baby for "visitations".

 

One word-vestecotomy. Make an appointment, hell I'll send you a check to pay for it.

[snafu]

You go girl!

 

Elmoish

[snafu]

Actually jackass, I make a six figure income all by my wittle self with my education and he doesn't pay jack shit. He would have to have a job first. I didn't get pregnate by myself, he just decided he couldn't be a MANMAN and get out of the bar. He's probley your not so distant cousin in the jackass gene pool. I don't need him. My 8 years of EDUCATION pays for my living. I don't I'll ever see a dime from him. But that's ok because I don't have to see his drunk self picking up my baby for "visitations".

 

One word-vestecotomy. Make an appointment, hell I'll send you a check to pay for it.

 

You go girl!

 

 

 

Elmoish

[Elmoish]

Actually jackass, I make a six figure income all by my wittle self with my education and he doesn't pay jack shit. He would have to have a job first. I didn't get pregnate by myself, he just decided he couldn't be a MANMAN and get out of the bar. He's probley your not so distant cousin in the jackass gene pool. I don't need him. My 8 years of EDUCATION pays for my living. I don't I'll ever see a dime from him. But that's ok because I don't have to see his drunk self picking up my baby for "visitations".

 

One word-vestecotomy. Make an appointment, hell I'll send you a check to pay for it.

 

 

 

Sorry, not buying your "I make a six figure income all by my wittle self".

 

Yes, darling...we get that you didn't impregate yourself. Bad, bad, bad choice on your part.

 

Wow....your poor kid.

[manicmonday]

Sorry, not buying your "I make a six figure income all by my wittle self".

 

Yes, darling...we get that you didn't impregate yourself. Bad, bad, bad choice on your part.

 

Wow....your poor kid.

 

 

I don't care if "your not buying it". It's the truth. I put my self through college, all 6 years of it to get my Master's. While you are showing that you don't even qualify for a GED. Do you even know what that stands for? It wasn't just my choice. It was his to go back to sit on the bar stool, not mine. But it's my choice not to get him off it because I don't NEED him. I hope when you get to hell, he's sitting there beside you so you canchat for eternity in hell about how bad I am. My kid is awesome thank you. At four months old, he's already shown more maturity than you.

 

Get a life loser. Or go get hit by a car. That's even better, go play in the street and see what consequences come from that.

 

Edit: 6 years to get my Master's, 2 years to get my Cosmetology Licence and Massage Therepy License. Going back next semester for my Doctorate in Pyschology.