The Narcissistic Character

[mjr150]

Its gonna feel so good to finally decompress. Lets get the ball rolling here.

 

Does anyone here have anything to say about fuckers who are nice to your face but have a destructive way about them.

[Komrade Vostok Hazard]

Hmmm.,,,,people that are nice to your face but are consistantly lying through their teeth and saying shit behind your back?

 

I SAY THEY SHOULD BE FUCKING SHOT.

 

I'm repulsed at the way these self serving cocksuckers play their headgames with people and use them for their own fucking pleasures. I've recently had it TWICE in about three months. You trust them and give them your hand and they, being the self absorbed cunts they are slap it in your face and laugh all the way. Fuck them.

[RoyalOrleans]

I'm of the belief that if you open up to people, they will sink their teeth into you. Only reveal yourself physically, never emotionally. Be a mental and emotional monolith and only allow a few, a select few, to get close.

 

Privacy is the only thing sacred.

 

DTA... Don't Trust Anyone.

[TheJenn88]

I'm of the belief that if you open up to people, they will sink their teeth into you.

 

It's the sad truth.

 

Yet, at the same time, I think we've all played mindgames with people. Some of us have only done it slightly, others more. 99% of the people I know have lied, or deceived someone they know and are close with to get ahead even in the littlest way. Sometimes.. you just want something so bad you have "no choice" but to mindfuck them. Not that it's ever anything to take pride in... but I just think it's something that most people have done.

[Lethalfind]

I grew up in a family of manipulators and control freaks...I hate being dealt with that way, in fact try that shit with me and even if I wanted to do what that person is trying to influence me too do, I won't out of sheer biligerance. Speak plainly and clearly or not at all, I hate emotional bullshit and don't respond to it.

 

Having said that, there have been times I have had to use the same tactics on my family because honestly I think thats all they understand. I do my best to stay away from them. In my personal life, there is no room for that kind of thing. I shut people off like that.

[atlantic]

I can't stand controlling or manipulative people, lately, I seem to be surrounded by them; I usually just bluntly explain I can't stand that shit and avoid those people as much as possible. I also hate the way these people can never just come out and say what the fuck they are really thinking as twisted and distorted as it may be. I recently told one neighbor not to fuck with me, as kindness was not working!

[Lethalfind]

I can't stand controlling or manipulative people, lately, I seem to be surrounded by them; I usually just bluntly explain I can't stand that shit and avoid those people as much as possible. I also hate the way these people can never just come out and say what the fuck they are really thinking as twisted and distorted as it may be. I recently told one neighbor not to fuck with me, as kindness was not working!

 

LOL, I love it.

 

I usually respond with apathy and then ignore them, that really pisses them off. I did that at Christmas with my brother, he didn't know what to do, he just kept escalating and I watched...

[atlantic]

LOL, I love it.

 

I usually respond with apathy and then ignore them, that really pisses them off. I did that at Christmas with my brother, he didn't know what to do, he just kept escalating and I watched...

Oh, that is good! I wish I had that kind of control, but I don't like to leave any doubt for them. This one neighbor actually thought she was going to intimidate me, and I'm thinking to myself is this bitch crazy. She needed a reality slap.

[RoyalOrleans]

I was at a friend's house last night playing poker, but it actually turned into a party for my birthday (5/4) and my friend's (5/2). Anyways, this chick "Demi" shows up and is supposedly friends with my friend's wife. She is the perfect example of what we are discussing in this thread. Fake, arrogant, conceited, and obnoxious as all Hell broke loose.

 

So "Demi" decided to get in on one hand of Texas Hold'em, a game I take seriously as money was involved. She sat her sassy ass down and instantly started talking about her husband's job, how much money he makes, and her new Mercedes he bought for her. Just yammering and yakking... made me sick. My friends and I rolled our collective eyes, but they didn't say anything... we were deep into the game and this usurper came in to gab? Fuck no.

 

So I said to her as mean, cold and with the evilest look I could muster, "Shut the fuck up! Are you in? Either shit or get off the pot!". She got up and walked out of the room, to the driveway, and left. Good for me.

[atlantic]

I was at a friend's house last night playing poker, but it actually turned into a party for my birthday (5/4) and my friend's (5/2). Anyways, this chick "Demi" shows up and is supposedly friends with my friend's wife. She is the perfect example of what we are discussing in this thread. Fake, arrogant, conceited, and obnoxious as all Hell broke loose.

 

So "Demi" decided to get in on one hand of Texas Hold'em, a game I take seriously as money was involved. She sat her sassy ass down and instantly started talking about her husband's job, how much money he makes, and her new Mercedes he bought for her. Just yammering and yakking... made me sick. My friends and I rolled our collective eyes, but they didn't say anything... we were deep into the game and this usurper came in to gab? Fuck no.

 

So I said to her as mean, cold and with the evilest look I could muster, "Shut the fuck up! Are you in? Either shit or get off the pot!". She got up and walked out of the room, to the driveway, and left. Good for me.

LOL, I respect any person who says it like it is!

[RoyalOrleans]

LOL, I respect any person who says it like it is!

 

I take Texas Hold'em very serious.

[Lethalfind]

One thing I have noticed is that Narcissists LOVE to hear the sound of their own voice and they will drone on and on until you want to die to stop the noise...It also never occurs to them that someone else might know more then they do.

[builder]

There is only one cure for narcissism.

 

A swift whack to the head with a baseball bat, followed by a long sleep in a shallow grave.

[Quarky1.0]

Its gonna feel so good to finally decompress. Lets get the ball rolling here.

 

Does anyone here have anything to say about fuckers who are nice to your face but have a destructive way about them.

 

I grew up in a family full of people like this.

My late mums first husband was a complete fucking arsehole, he cheated on her, beat her, was a alcoholic and basically to total prick.

He fathered six children with her, one boy and six girls.

The boy who hates his father has basically grown up to be exactly like him; he is a petty criminal, girl basher, control freak and an total fucking wanker, just like his daddy.

The oldest of the six girls, is a pathological liar and narcissist personality disorder.

The other are basically the same, but one is a drug fuck, ones a alcoholic who will screw for drinks. One is a control freak who suffers from agoraphobia, which only flares up when she has to do something for others. One is a just a slut and should at least charge for it, but she is so damn stupid she just give it away. They all have children and there children have grown up to be like them.

My mum died with a broken heart, because she knew they would all turn on my father (not there father), my sister and myself and guess what, less and one year after the death of mum, they tried, they tried to take my dads house from him and lay claim to his estate.

 

So my point is simple. With high grade personality disorders, you cannot win. You are damned if you and you damned if you don

[Lethalfind]

I grew up in a family full of people like this.

My late mums first husband was a complete fucking arsehole, he cheated on her, beat her, was a alcoholic and basically to total prick.

He fathered six children with her, one boy and six girls.

The boy who hates his father has basically grown up to be exactly like him; he is a petty criminal, girl basher, control freak and an total fucking wanker, just like his daddy.

The oldest of the six girls, is a pathological liar and narcissist personality disorder.

The other are basically the same, but one is a drug fuck, ones a alcoholic who will screw for drinks. One is a control freak who suffers from agoraphobia, which only flares up when she has to do something for others. One is a just a slut and should at least charge for it, but she is so damn stupid she just give it away. They all have children and there children have grown up to be like them.

My mum died with a broken heart, because she knew they would all turn on my father (not there father), my sister and myself and guess what, less and one year after the death of mum, they tried, they tried to take my dads house from him and lay claim to his estate.

 

So my point is simple. With high grade personality disorders, you cannot win. You are damned if you and you damned if you don

[manicmonday]

There is only one cure for narcissism.

 

A swift whack to the head with a baseball bat, followed by a long sleep in a shallow grave.

 

 

Ever the voice of reason and sympathy aren't you builder?

[builder]

Ever the voice of reason and sympathy aren't you builder?

 

Yeah. I'm onto it.

 

Narcissists are unreasonable, unsympathetic, irrational, intransigent, and the worst part, unthinking.

 

I'm calling for an open season on them. Starting right about now.

[phreakwars]

Yeah. I'm onto it.

 

Narcissists are unreasonable, unsympathetic, irrational, intransigent, and the worst part, unthinking.

 

I'm calling for an open season on them. Starting right about now.

Being a GF Mod requires you to be Narcissistic.

 

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[builder]

Being a GF Mod requires you to be Narcissistic.

 

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It pays to be antagonistic to appease the plebs.

[Quarky1.0]

Actually people with personality disorders are that way because of enviroment, or so says the psychiatric community. Its disorders like Bipolar, Schizophrenia, ADD and ADHD that are considered biologically based.

I try and just stay away, they are like quick sand, they suck you in.

 

I agree and disagree with you on this one. My father is a long-term mental health nurse and has seen it all, so what I say is coming from him. With the personality disorder is runs in the family and shows all the signs of a genetic disorder, however most PD's have a tendency to become bipolar, schizophrenic, ADD and ADHD, because of there base line personality defects. PD's are more likely to become junkies, alcoholics and criminals than any other section of society. Yes environmental surroundings can impact on how the personality disorders base line personality is form, but with the latest in house research that is going on in the mental health field (sorry I can't give out to many details, because I'm not supposed to know) there is a link between the genetic disposition and environmental effects on the development of the PD.

 

From personal experience with these type of people, i.e. my fucking step family. You are damned if you do and you

[Lethalfind]

I agree and disagree with you on this one. My father is a long-term mental health nurse and has seen it all, so what I say is coming from him. With the personality disorder is runs in the family and shows all the signs of a genetic disorder, however most PD's have a tendency to become bipolar, schizophrenic, ADD and ADHD, because of there base line personality defects. PD's are more likely to become junkies, alcoholics and criminals than any other section of society. Yes environmental surroundings can impact on how the personality disorders base line personality is form, but with the latest in house research that is going on in the mental health field (sorry I can't give out to many details, because I'm not supposed to know) there is a link between the genetic disposition and environmental effects on the development of the PD.

 

From personal experience with these type of people, i.e. my fucking step family. You are damned if you do and you

[Quarky1.0]

You can disagree all you want however the psychiatric community is the one who makes these distinctions, its not my opinion, its what is accepted by the field in the US and how people are diagnosed in the Diagnostic Systems Manual.

 

 

I don't know where you get your info from, but if you have a good read through this, you will see I have proved my point that there is a genetic link in all PD's.

http://www.focusas.com/PersonalityDisorders.html

 

Also if you do a simple search on personality disorders genetic link you will see more than one article proving my point.

Also I because of my father profession, I know what I'm talking about. I have a number of good friends in the mental health field and it is wildly know that there is a genetic link underpinning the development of the Personality disorder. To say there isn