Asking for help for the first time, please........

[immortal89]

ok, guys, i wanna join this band, I mean its like I really really wanna join it and the thing is my parents are so not gonna allow me to join it, and its even harder to convince them since i'm an indian.

So if you guys can come up with some masterminded ideas to convince them to let me join, id be highly obliged to yas.

People please help, i reaallly wanna be a part of that band.

 

[Allied]

Why don't your parents want you to join?

Would it be possible to keep the fact that its a "band" hidden from your parents and just say you're going to hang out with some friends and listen to music.

 

[azemkamikaze03]

I agree. Just say Im going to chill with "Joe and Marie" so I'll be back. ANd They wont know you are in the band.

 

[immortal89]

um...doesnt work that way. My parents dont like lies.

 

[Clogz]

Ah well. How can your race be an issue, anyway? If you got the talent and skills, why should they care?

 

[stupidsoul1]

im indian.. im in a band.....whats up with ur folks?

just point out u maybe a disgrace to ur race but you dont live in india and ur not like them....

all you gotta do is point out how much this means to you

 

[stupidsoul1]

Ah well. How can your race be an issue' date=' anyway? If you got the talent and skills, why should they care?[/quote']
most indian people are majorly old school....i mean really old school its really important to be socially acceptable..its also important to be a boy being in a band isnt socially acceptable.

 

[Clogz]

Ahh I see. Thanks for the enlightenment stupidsoul1.

 

[Suicide King]

Just let them know how much you want this and how much it means to you.

If all fails you can always turn to the good ol' puppy dog face

 

[immortal89]

my parents kno no puppy face. dude hu cares, all i ever want is denied, this'll be another one.

 

[stupidsoul1]

maybe you're doing the puppy face wrong...it always works

ur parents are mean.....i know this isnt the first time ur parents have objected to something you want to do =( *hugs*

 

[NVme4ever]

even im an indian. almost facing the same problem as u exept the thing is first i am a girl secondly my problem is with going out with my frnds. they think i cant take care of myself. how much ever i tell them i am mature enough they wont listen

but anyway dont worry . they will understand . i no how orthodox indians can be as i am one. just keep telling them

after a year or so they might listen .

keep it going

 

[SNiPeRViRuS]

hmm, prove to them that you can be trusted. prove to them that you have accomplished your goals and this is just some R&R. otherwise, you should not want to join a band. studies first. (am i sounding like your parents? cuz this is how mine sound)

 

[immortal89]

even im an indian. almost facing the same problem as u exept the thing is first i am a girl secondly my problem is with going out with my frnds. they think i cant take care of myself. how much ever i tell them i am mature enough they wont listen
but anyway dont worry . they will understand . i no how orthodox indians can be as i am one. just keep telling them

after a year or so they might listen .

keep it going

after a year? i kno wat u r saying exactly the same condition here.

dude, i htink i'll try snipevirus idea, tell em i 'll be good at math get good marks in bio, but i hate those subjects,,aaaaaaaaargh i'll try and let u kno if it worked

 

[stupidsoul1]

good luck!

thank *** im not a traditional indian.......

 

[SNiPeRViRuS]

Lucky you. My parents are liberal, except when it comes to studies and certain things like earings and tattoos. It drives me insane. They are only like that with me though. My bro gets whatever he wants.

 

[NVme4ever]

snipevirus ,

your thing is so much like me

even my brother gets what he wants. and i dont

immortal r u a traditional indian???

wat cast????

 

[Chestersbabi7]

hmmm...tough one mon...

 

[azemkamikaze03]

well not if u think about it!