ok, I'll start, of course there are too many to tell - lol; but one that sticks in my mind is I had a neighbor who used to beat up his g/f, they lived above me; usually I would mind my own business, but one night I heard her scream not the baby, so of course I called the cops on him. Then a few months later the other neighbors got married and invited us all to the wedding, so I end up at abuse boys' house that night, and he tells me someone called the cops on him and he thought it was the people across the hall; so now I'm thinking wtf, I can't let them take the rap, so I confess fully expecting to get booted out; and strangely enough we end up being best of friends til this day - lol!
He never hit her after that, and went for help and he turned out to be a pretty decent guy; like I said crazy confessions. I did have to bail him out several times financially though, he had a pretty bad cocaine habit; but was able to pull thruSo your best friends with a guy who beats the **** out of his girlfriend's?
He had a drug problem, and he did stop. I lived with a guy once who used to beat me for talking to my girlfriends; once he knew I wouldn't put up with it, he didn't do it again either. Some men can stop.Decent guys don't hit their girlfriends and without serious intervention, they don't stop either...he has you snowed...
Well he should thank *** for you then.. Cause I would have let his *** to rot where I found it..He never hit her after that, and went for help and he turned out to be a pretty decent guy; like I said crazy confessions. I did have to bail him out several times financially though, he had a pretty bad cocaine habit; but was able to pull thru
Believe me, at first I wanted too; but he showed up in desperation needing money and pleaded his whole case to me, for which I helped him out , nothing more than symphathy really; but luckilly for his wife and daughter he got his **** together. Normally, I wouldn't have had the the time for him, and I did hate him at first, but he was really just in need of help, and I had plenty of time, my fiancee was in the hospital with brain cancer so what did I care. But come on now, don't you have any confessions miss Kathy?He never hit her after that, and went for help and he turned out to be a pretty decent guy; like I said crazy confessions. I did have to bail him out several times financially though, he had a pretty bad cocaine habit; but was able to pull thru [/quote
Well he should thank *** for you then.. Cause I would have let his *** to rot where I found it..
Oh ****, I hope that's not true LF!My confession is that whenever I have done something like you, give someone who is a scumbag a pass, it has come back to bite me.
So I don't do it anymore.
It is true, I am VERY careful about who I let in my life.Oh ****, I hope that's not true LF!
I think people like the President and CEO like it when people can speak frankly and openly too them. Many would be intimadated and not be able to say a word. I'm sure they valued your forthrightness.Ok, here's another good one, I had just started working for this company, and had no idea who anyone was. One day at lunch, I couldn't find a seat, so I pulled up to a table where the president of the company and the ceo were, and sat down; when they asked me what I would do to change the company, I happilly told them what I'd do. My new g/f tried to walk by me like she didn't know me; and I insisted that she sit down; she didn't speak a word the whole time. Anyways, the pres laughed his *** off; I worked for every division of the company and was there for 7 years til I decided to leave.
What made it so good was that I had no idea who they were, they thought it was hysterical - lol!I think people like the President and CEO like it when people can speak frankly and openly too them. Many would be intimadated and not be able to say a word. I'm sure they valued your forthrightness.
Something similar happened to me when I was going through flight attendant training. They treated us like dogs so I spoke up and respectfully said we are adults with college educations, families, and careers we are willing to leave to work for the airlines. Treating us like children is ridiculous. My classmates were telling me to sit my *** down because they were afraid I was going to get kicked out (I was already on thin ice) but figured it needed to be said. After our group, they updated the policies. Also got to meet the CEO, Gordon Bethune. We talked about the Left Behind book series for like an hour. lolI think people like the President and CEO like it when people can speak frankly and openly too them. Many would be intimadated and not be able to say a word. I'm sure they valued your forthrightness.