OMG, reminds me of my cousin Deb, I used to work for a mutual fund comp, and relatives could not work with you, so we lied, and she amazingly got a job in my division. One day, she just walked out; of course, she warned me in advance, well my boss pulled me aside later that day and asked, "Where's Debbie" -you two seem pretty close (LOL): I never told. Of course I played stupid and denied really knowing her; now, another girl I worked with would have me leave work eary and I'd call in as her relative to get her out early so we could go out drinking together in Boston, and they fell for it everytime - lol!OK, I think I have one.
An old high school friend gave me a job that I was over qualified for. She asked me to NOT tell anyone we had been friends before. All anyone knew was that she and I attended the same high school.
Over the three years I worked there she abused our friendship in that she tried to use me as a sort of mole to find out things about the people I worked with. I didn't let that happen. I felt like I was walking a fine line everyday. I didn't want to betray the good people I was working beside but I didn't want to **** off the person who had given me the job. I had seen she was a total ***** in the time I worked there.
When I got laid off, I danced and celebrated...AND TOLD ALL THE LITTLE SECRETS I KNEW ABOUT THE ***** WE ALL WORKED FOR TO THE PEOPLE WHO WERE STILL THERE BEING MISTREATED BY HER.
I guess my loyalty has limits...don't **** down my neck and tell me its raining.
I later found out that the ***** got fired...how hilarious. What goes around, comes around.
He had a drug problem, and he did stop. I lived with a guy once who used to beat me for talking to my girlfriends; once he knew I wouldn't put up with it, he didn't do it again either. Some men can stop.
No, he died of Brain Cancer, and I stayed with him til the end because I felt bad for him, and didn't want him to die alone, turns out he had a brain tumor, Medulla Blastoma, usually only afflicts children, his was a rare case.are you still with this guy? once a man hits his partner ... he will do it again. if your still in this relationship ... i recommend you get out, however much you love/care for him. there is no love where there is violence in a relationship.
one that sticks in my mind is I had a neighbor who used to beat up his g/f, they lived above me; usually I would mind my own business, but one night I heard her scream not the baby, so of course I called the cops on him..... strangely enough we end up being best of friends til this day
He never hit her after that, and went for help and he turned out to be a pretty decent guy..... I did have to bail him out several times financially though, he had a pretty bad cocaine habit; but was able to pull thru
I lived with a guy once who used to beat me for talking to my girlfriends; once he knew I wouldn't put up with it, he didn't do it again either. Some men can stop.
I stayed with him til the end because I felt bad for him
What I don't understand is how one can get into one ****** up, abusive relationship after another. I was in a sucky relationship like that once and never again. I try to learn from my mistakes, if I see even one similarity I run for the hills in the OPPOSITE direction.....No Eddo dearest, but they are hard to get out off if you're in one.
Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.What I don't understand is how one can get into one ****** up, abusive relationship after another. I was in a sucky relationship like that once and never again. I try to learn from my mistakes, if I see even one similarity I run for the hills in the OPPOSITE direction.....
Do you consider it an act when they beat you?Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
Well isn't that the point, when they change in to who they really are, they come home to find their **** on the front porch and the locks changed??Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
That may be true, but I would think your bs meter gets sharper and more cautious after the first time not to fall for the same **** from anyone else over and over again.Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
I once beat a mans *** just for sport. I didn't even know who he was.I once shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die.
No, no, no. Everyone puts on an act at first. Some more than others, but they all do it. That is exactly why, should something happen to end this marriage, I will never date again.Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
You say that now.should something happen to end this marriage, I will never date again.