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atlantic

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I once worked with a guy at Verizon who told me how to deal with my son's ex; he said: "People only do to you what you let them" ******* A right Ricky , thank you man". Words to live by.
 

Lethalfind

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OK, I think I have one.

An old high school friend gave me a job that I was over qualified for. She asked me to NOT tell anyone we had been friends before. All anyone knew was that she and I attended the same high school.

Over the three years I worked there she abused our friendship in that she tried to use me as a sort of mole to find out things about the people I worked with. I didn't let that happen. I felt like I was walking a fine line everyday. I didn't want to betray the good people I was working beside but I didn't want to **** off the person who had given me the job. I had seen she was a total ***** in the time I worked there.

When I got laid off, I danced and celebrated...AND TOLD ALL THE LITTLE SECRETS I KNEW ABOUT THE ***** WE ALL WORKED FOR TO THE PEOPLE WHO WERE STILL THERE BEING MISTREATED BY HER.

I guess my loyalty has limits...don't **** down my neck and tell me its raining.

I later found out that the ***** got fired...how hilarious. What goes around, comes around.

 

atlantic

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OK, I think I have one.
An old high school friend gave me a job that I was over qualified for. She asked me to NOT tell anyone we had been friends before. All anyone knew was that she and I attended the same high school.

Over the three years I worked there she abused our friendship in that she tried to use me as a sort of mole to find out things about the people I worked with. I didn't let that happen. I felt like I was walking a fine line everyday. I didn't want to betray the good people I was working beside but I didn't want to **** off the person who had given me the job. I had seen she was a total ***** in the time I worked there.

When I got laid off, I danced and celebrated...AND TOLD ALL THE LITTLE SECRETS I KNEW ABOUT THE ***** WE ALL WORKED FOR TO THE PEOPLE WHO WERE STILL THERE BEING MISTREATED BY HER.

I guess my loyalty has limits...don't **** down my neck and tell me its raining.

I later found out that the ***** got fired...how hilarious. What goes around, comes around.
OMG, reminds me of my cousin Deb, I used to work for a mutual fund comp, and relatives could not work with you, so we lied, and she amazingly got a job in my division. One day, she just walked out; of course, she warned me in advance, well my boss pulled me aside later that day and asked, "Where's Debbie" -you two seem pretty close (LOL): I never told. Of course I played stupid and denied really knowing her; now, another girl I worked with would have me leave work eary and I'd call in as her relative to get her out early so we could go out drinking together in Boston, and they fell for it everytime - lol!
 

eddo

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I once banned an obviously mentally incompetent jackass from a website.

****, who am I kidding?

I've done it twice.

 

clarity

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He had a drug problem, and he did stop. I lived with a guy once who used to beat me for talking to my girlfriends; once he knew I wouldn't put up with it, he didn't do it again either. Some men can stop.

are you still with this guy? once a man hits his partner ... he will do it again. if your still in this relationship ... i recommend you get out, however much you love/care for him. there is no love where there is violence in a relationship.

 

atlantic

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are you still with this guy? once a man hits his partner ... he will do it again. if your still in this relationship ... i recommend you get out, however much you love/care for him. there is no love where there is violence in a relationship.
No, he died of Brain Cancer, and I stayed with him til the end because I felt bad for him, and didn't want him to die alone, turns out he had a brain tumor, Medulla Blastoma, usually only afflicts children, his was a rare case.
 

eddo

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one that sticks in my mind is I had a neighbor who used to beat up his g/f, they lived above me; usually I would mind my own business, but one night I heard her scream not the baby, so of course I called the cops on him..... strangely enough we end up being best of friends til this day

He never hit her after that, and went for help and he turned out to be a pretty decent guy..... I did have to bail him out several times financially though, he had a pretty bad cocaine habit; but was able to pull thru

I lived with a guy once who used to beat me for talking to my girlfriends; once he knew I wouldn't put up with it, he didn't do it again either. Some men can stop.

I stayed with him til the end because I felt bad for him

So you like abusive realtionships? This completely explains your relationship with Wez. Girl, time to do a self check and figure out what kind of guys you are attracted to and why.

 

Lethalfind

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I dated a guy one time, he was cute, caring (he was a nursing student) had an enormous ****, could screw for days...the list of his positive attributes goes on...

He was also an alcoholic and had in the past abused drugs (fabulous nurse material I know). This was back when I was young, early 20's, I had no idea about drug abuse or problems with drinking since I was raised in a church where no one drinks. I saw he had a problem of course but didn't know about being co-dependent.

He swallowed a bottle of Darvocet one time because he was mad over an argument we got into. I told him to get to the ER or I would call his boss and tell on him. Once at the ER he was whining about how he had tried too kill himself and I didn't care. The psychiatrist was wishing she hadn't gotten this call. I told him if he had really wanted to die, he would be dead. He asked me how he should have done it rather then taking a bottle of medication...well I came up with a list...he could have jumped off the nearest bridge into rush hour traffic...the list went on. The psychiatrist was even more despondent at this point...

I told him after this stunt to get his **** and get the **** out...

nothing hard in that.

I was down trodden at this point, the *** was exceptional but not worth it in the long run.

 

Chi

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No Eddo dearest, but they are hard to get out off if you're in one.
What I don't understand is how one can get into one ****** up, abusive relationship after another. I was in a sucky relationship like that once and never again. I try to learn from my mistakes, if I see even one similarity I run for the hills in the OPPOSITE direction.....

 

atlantic

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What I don't understand is how one can get into one ****** up, abusive relationship after another. I was in a sucky relationship like that once and never again. I try to learn from my mistakes, if I see even one similarity I run for the hills in the OPPOSITE direction.....
Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
 

Lethalfind

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Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
Well isn't that the point, when they change in to who they really are, they come home to find their **** on the front porch and the locks changed??

Or are you one of those people who still believes that LOVE can change a person.

Let me just say that from experience, I have learned this is bullshit...

Absolute Bollox...

 

Chi

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Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
That may be true, but I would think your bs meter gets sharper and more cautious after the first time not to fall for the same **** from anyone else over and over again.

 

ToriAllen

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Some people put on an act at first, then they change into their true selves.
No, no, no. Everyone puts on an act at first. Some more than others, but they all do it. That is exactly why, should something happen to end this marriage, I will never date again.

 
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