KathyA
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- Sep 13, 2006
I had my weekly doctor's appointment today. Having uncontrolled diabetes and being insulin dependent requires this.. I meet up with my endocrinologist usually on Thursday mornings.. Pretty much, I am his guinea pig. I try all new meds at his discretion. Some work wonderfully, and well others just make me terribly ill.
It has always been a collaborative work effort. Kind of like a team.. He (my endo dr) and my primary work together to get me the newest and best medicines on the market.
I went in this morning, my bloodwork was done immediately. As I am sitting there waiting on him.. I began to think just how different my life would be, if I didn't have this disease.. No more needles, no more finger sticks, no more weekly blood work, no more invasive testing.. None of it.. The thought immediately brings me to tears.. Why? Probably because I am tired, and a little overwhelmed by a test that he suggested I have, on the phone the day before. He walks in and sees my emotional state. Instead of asking me what is wrong. He says, "Kathy, maybe its time I suggest some zoloft or maybe even some Xanax." At this point, all was lost, the tears were gone and I was furious. How dare he even assume that those meds are what I needed. What if my tears were caused by a physical injury? He didn't even bother to ask. I am not about to pop a pill to make to make me feel better. I deal with my diabetes everyday, in every aspect of my life..Funny part is he cant control my blood sugars, but how simple it was to come up with a medicine that could control my tears. **** you.. Was all I could muster.. A line of utter drivel then spewed from his mouth.. "Kathy its nothing to be ashamed of, lots of mom's are on it."
I am not an advocate for the use of medicines that prohibit the brains normal thought patterns..
Unless of course its completely warranted in cases of psychosis or other mental atrophies such as post partem conditions.. I believe these women should be on medications at the first signs of a sprouting condition..
BUT FOR ME? Ohhh **** no.. A pill is not going to help make me a happy little homemaker.. My life sucks (medically) and I deal with it.. And if crying at times is how I deal, then so be it.. And screw you for wanting me to take a pill to dry my eyes..
Anyhow, I got home and called my primary, who agreed entirely with me. She promised to call my endo doctor and rectify this situation..
Since when has Zoloft and Xanax become mother's little helper? It seems that any time you talk to a mom these days they are on all sorts of medications. Just to deal with everyday things? When did it become a necessity that mothers need meds to function with everyday parental crisis'?
Again I am not referring to those actually in need of such things.. I just think its all to easy to write a prescription, rather than having the woman actually deal with the **** in her life..
What are you thoughts on this?
Should drugs as the ones I listed above be given out at random the way they are?
It has always been a collaborative work effort. Kind of like a team.. He (my endo dr) and my primary work together to get me the newest and best medicines on the market.
I went in this morning, my bloodwork was done immediately. As I am sitting there waiting on him.. I began to think just how different my life would be, if I didn't have this disease.. No more needles, no more finger sticks, no more weekly blood work, no more invasive testing.. None of it.. The thought immediately brings me to tears.. Why? Probably because I am tired, and a little overwhelmed by a test that he suggested I have, on the phone the day before. He walks in and sees my emotional state. Instead of asking me what is wrong. He says, "Kathy, maybe its time I suggest some zoloft or maybe even some Xanax." At this point, all was lost, the tears were gone and I was furious. How dare he even assume that those meds are what I needed. What if my tears were caused by a physical injury? He didn't even bother to ask. I am not about to pop a pill to make to make me feel better. I deal with my diabetes everyday, in every aspect of my life..Funny part is he cant control my blood sugars, but how simple it was to come up with a medicine that could control my tears. **** you.. Was all I could muster.. A line of utter drivel then spewed from his mouth.. "Kathy its nothing to be ashamed of, lots of mom's are on it."
I am not an advocate for the use of medicines that prohibit the brains normal thought patterns..
Unless of course its completely warranted in cases of psychosis or other mental atrophies such as post partem conditions.. I believe these women should be on medications at the first signs of a sprouting condition..
BUT FOR ME? Ohhh **** no.. A pill is not going to help make me a happy little homemaker.. My life sucks (medically) and I deal with it.. And if crying at times is how I deal, then so be it.. And screw you for wanting me to take a pill to dry my eyes..
Anyhow, I got home and called my primary, who agreed entirely with me. She promised to call my endo doctor and rectify this situation..
Since when has Zoloft and Xanax become mother's little helper? It seems that any time you talk to a mom these days they are on all sorts of medications. Just to deal with everyday things? When did it become a necessity that mothers need meds to function with everyday parental crisis'?
Again I am not referring to those actually in need of such things.. I just think its all to easy to write a prescription, rather than having the woman actually deal with the **** in her life..
What are you thoughts on this?
Should drugs as the ones I listed above be given out at random the way they are?