hun you have to tell him you have feelings for someone else, if you don't it will just carry on like this forever, you stuck with andy crying when you tell him its over.have you ever heard of tough love? you have to be cruel to be kind, its unfair to you and him to keep a relationship going thats based on lies. your gonna make yourself miserible and your going to prolong his misery. you know your not gonna live happily ever after with andy and deep inside he proberbly does too, its just hard for him to come to terms with it, thats where you have to be the bigger person and tell him its over and you can't carry on making yourself unhappy just to keep him happy.