Dark Angel
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- Jun 13, 2005
Right now I can't think clearly because my mom just informed me that she and my dad might separate. The main reason I'm so stunned by this is because they've been married almost 17 years now, and me being the only child, would have to choose between them if they did separate.
My dad, he was telling my mom that he was really unhappy and that he felt they were going down completely different paths. Then he tried to make her guilty and leave first, by saying that she's always out with friends etc. Which she's not, my parents go out about 3 times a week, and she usually goes out with them once a week. Then my mom says how she let's him have the option, but he never does anything with his friends from work, etc. He walks alone (when he exercises), he fishes alone, he does golf alone. My mom thinks it may be my dad's midlife crisis, because he is getting closer to 40, but we can't tell.
And I feel bad, because I don't know what to do to keep them together and plus the fact that if they do get a divorce, I'll have to choose one of them, which I can't do. I feel so upset and confused now.
My dad, he was telling my mom that he was really unhappy and that he felt they were going down completely different paths. Then he tried to make her guilty and leave first, by saying that she's always out with friends etc. Which she's not, my parents go out about 3 times a week, and she usually goes out with them once a week. Then my mom says how she let's him have the option, but he never does anything with his friends from work, etc. He walks alone (when he exercises), he fishes alone, he does golf alone. My mom thinks it may be my dad's midlife crisis, because he is getting closer to 40, but we can't tell.
And I feel bad, because I don't know what to do to keep them together and plus the fact that if they do get a divorce, I'll have to choose one of them, which I can't do. I feel so upset and confused now.