Is it because he's a man???

[snafu]

I'm OCD...and can't put out if the house is a sty. It's the way I am...I get turned on seeing men do household stuff...or better yet...having it done as a surprise when i get home.

**** I get in trouble for cleaning up. That's because I throw everything away that I deem garbage.

 

[mercury]

you said that on page 1

 

[Ahhlee]

Wow, my previous answer made me look like I wouldn't mind living in a garbage heap. That's not true. I value a clean house.

I guess when I'm living with a man, I don't get too bent out of shape if things aren't done "just so". I mean, I expect a bit of cooperation to help keep the house in order because I don't want to feel like I'm someone's maid, but I couldn't see myself calling him at work to gripe because he left hair in the sink after he shaved...lol.

To be honest, I'd make a joke about it somehow when he got home. That way I'm able to address the issue without making a Federal case out of it, but that's usually how I roll.