I must say, the advice everyone is giving this individual is sketchy, and not very nice. Maybe she is just trying to get out from under the yoke of an oppressive, restrictive individual, maybe she has pored her heart, soul & body into the relationship for years and as gotten nothing except an emotional black hole in return.
From her post it is obvious all she wants is attention from the man, and can any of you offer anything except your own bitter venom, your own self deprecating mental mind set, brought on by your own miserable lives, your hollow unfulfilling lives... No you can't, compassion and reality have been burned from your soul by the radiating light of your PC's screen, for shame.
Remember, love is the tree that all fruit springs from... Try to be a little more sensative in the future.
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