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Don't mind the title. I have my gun next to me, so it made sense. What this post is about, is pretty much how I feel regarding two things that have effected me recently. Heart break and ***. Just read it, you might like it.
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So one of my good friends recently broke up with his girlfriend. We won't go into detail about who, or why. It happened. And, one thing I noticed, was the similarities between their breakup and the breakup I went through with my ex. So I was laying in bed, just thinking. And this wondrous quote popped into my head. I do not know if anyone's said it before, but yeah.
Pretty much;;
"The facilitator of heartbreak is none other than love." - Isaac Kauwe
Now; I know coming from a teenager, this seems quite hard to comprehend. But think about it, if you never love anybody, there's no way your heart can break. This realization brings me to a controversy that I've mulled over in my head for about a year now. It raises one question.
What is love?
Virtually every adult will tell you that teenagers do not know what love is. They've only experienced heavy infatuation. Now, I used to totally be against this, but I've realized it's somewhat true. Nobody can actually define love. It's a feeling, an emotion. People can tell you signs of love, even "side effects" of love. But nobody can tell you what love is.
I've argued this with so many people. But nobody can undeniably define love. So what makes teenagers think they're in love? Is it the fact that they want to advance their relationship so fast? Based on today's media, that wouldn't be a hard scenario to believe. ***. Love. Scandals. It seems to be all teens think about. Well, the teens that are recognized by adults, and the public.
I believe they've effectively been labeled 'preppy'. Because of the way they dress, the way they act, who they hang out with. They make up the majority of schools, creating popularity and peer pressure. But what about everybody else. In order for people to be popular, there have to be unpopular people.
That's where I belong. I am not popular. I do not hang out with the people who's worries consist of who's going to be eliminated from American Idol, or which party they're going to this weekend.
What's my take on love? I do not know. I used to, don't get me wrong. I used to think I knew what love is. I even thought my heart had been broken and it's taken me almost a year to realize how wrong I was. I figure, if you love someone, you wouldn't be able to get over them. You wouldn't be able to stop thinking about them, when they've made so many decisions, that you do not agree with. Not only do you not agree with them, but they're things that repel you from certain people. Had I truly loved her, I wouldn't be over her right now, and I would be dead. I won't go into the later of the two.
So what about ***? That seems to be another controversial matter on my school campus. Is it cool? Is it right? Are you a virgin?
I have no shame in admitting that I am a virgin. It's actually something I take pride in. I've even been commended on it. By people I hang out with, by my parents, and even by some of my brother's friends. On the flip side of that coin, I've been made fun of for it too, which doesn't quite make sense to me.
I suppose it's the fact that people hold different values regarding ***. I see it as something so meaningful, that at my age, I cannot comprehend how meaningful it is. So, if I cannot comprehend the emotional aspect behind ***, why would I indulge in the act?
I was watching television this evening. The guy on the screen was talking about how we cannot live without ***. Which, I believe is not true. We can, I've lived the first seventeen years of my life without ***, and I am still as sane as anybody else. Okay, well that could be argued, but as a whole, my mentality is just as intact as someone who's ***'s gift to women. I believe it's not that we cannot live without ***, it's that people started having *** at such a young age, it's become sort of addicting. Kind of like alcohol, or drugs, people have become addicted to ***.
Now, girls who are addicted to *** are commonly viewed as *****, or whores, depending on if they get paid. And guys are viewed as pimps, if they sleep with multiple women. I believe that societies double standard regarding this has degraded women to the level that they believe they're no better than Miss Betty Hobilly on the television. Granted, a lot of the females I surround myself with have a lot stronger personality than to sink that low. But again, the "mainstream" teenagers, if you will, are who I am referring to.
So girls have developed a stereotypical male. Pretty much, he only wants ***, food, and beer. Which is totally unfair to the guys who are better than that, and actually want a relationship, and to have a good time, without ***. I suppose all guys do have sexual desires. Something I thought of earlier extricated a chuckle from myself.
"Show me a man without sexual desire and I shall show you a liar." - Isaac Kauwe
Having sexual desires is not a sin. It's human nature, to reproduce, that's why I have a *****, and females have a ******. However, acting on these sexual desires is what I believe causes somebody to lose character.
In closing, just treat people right. And don't go around ******** anything with the reproductive organ that fits with yours. ****, don't screw anything that's the same gender as you either. Just live life. You don't need *** to do it. A relationship would make life better. But don't give up.
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So one of my good friends recently broke up with his girlfriend. We won't go into detail about who, or why. It happened. And, one thing I noticed, was the similarities between their breakup and the breakup I went through with my ex. So I was laying in bed, just thinking. And this wondrous quote popped into my head. I do not know if anyone's said it before, but yeah.
Pretty much;;
"The facilitator of heartbreak is none other than love." - Isaac Kauwe
Now; I know coming from a teenager, this seems quite hard to comprehend. But think about it, if you never love anybody, there's no way your heart can break. This realization brings me to a controversy that I've mulled over in my head for about a year now. It raises one question.
What is love?
Virtually every adult will tell you that teenagers do not know what love is. They've only experienced heavy infatuation. Now, I used to totally be against this, but I've realized it's somewhat true. Nobody can actually define love. It's a feeling, an emotion. People can tell you signs of love, even "side effects" of love. But nobody can tell you what love is.
I've argued this with so many people. But nobody can undeniably define love. So what makes teenagers think they're in love? Is it the fact that they want to advance their relationship so fast? Based on today's media, that wouldn't be a hard scenario to believe. ***. Love. Scandals. It seems to be all teens think about. Well, the teens that are recognized by adults, and the public.
I believe they've effectively been labeled 'preppy'. Because of the way they dress, the way they act, who they hang out with. They make up the majority of schools, creating popularity and peer pressure. But what about everybody else. In order for people to be popular, there have to be unpopular people.
That's where I belong. I am not popular. I do not hang out with the people who's worries consist of who's going to be eliminated from American Idol, or which party they're going to this weekend.
What's my take on love? I do not know. I used to, don't get me wrong. I used to think I knew what love is. I even thought my heart had been broken and it's taken me almost a year to realize how wrong I was. I figure, if you love someone, you wouldn't be able to get over them. You wouldn't be able to stop thinking about them, when they've made so many decisions, that you do not agree with. Not only do you not agree with them, but they're things that repel you from certain people. Had I truly loved her, I wouldn't be over her right now, and I would be dead. I won't go into the later of the two.
So what about ***? That seems to be another controversial matter on my school campus. Is it cool? Is it right? Are you a virgin?
I have no shame in admitting that I am a virgin. It's actually something I take pride in. I've even been commended on it. By people I hang out with, by my parents, and even by some of my brother's friends. On the flip side of that coin, I've been made fun of for it too, which doesn't quite make sense to me.
I suppose it's the fact that people hold different values regarding ***. I see it as something so meaningful, that at my age, I cannot comprehend how meaningful it is. So, if I cannot comprehend the emotional aspect behind ***, why would I indulge in the act?
I was watching television this evening. The guy on the screen was talking about how we cannot live without ***. Which, I believe is not true. We can, I've lived the first seventeen years of my life without ***, and I am still as sane as anybody else. Okay, well that could be argued, but as a whole, my mentality is just as intact as someone who's ***'s gift to women. I believe it's not that we cannot live without ***, it's that people started having *** at such a young age, it's become sort of addicting. Kind of like alcohol, or drugs, people have become addicted to ***.
Now, girls who are addicted to *** are commonly viewed as *****, or whores, depending on if they get paid. And guys are viewed as pimps, if they sleep with multiple women. I believe that societies double standard regarding this has degraded women to the level that they believe they're no better than Miss Betty Hobilly on the television. Granted, a lot of the females I surround myself with have a lot stronger personality than to sink that low. But again, the "mainstream" teenagers, if you will, are who I am referring to.
So girls have developed a stereotypical male. Pretty much, he only wants ***, food, and beer. Which is totally unfair to the guys who are better than that, and actually want a relationship, and to have a good time, without ***. I suppose all guys do have sexual desires. Something I thought of earlier extricated a chuckle from myself.
"Show me a man without sexual desire and I shall show you a liar." - Isaac Kauwe
Having sexual desires is not a sin. It's human nature, to reproduce, that's why I have a *****, and females have a ******. However, acting on these sexual desires is what I believe causes somebody to lose character.
In closing, just treat people right. And don't go around ******** anything with the reproductive organ that fits with yours. ****, don't screw anything that's the same gender as you either. Just live life. You don't need *** to do it. A relationship would make life better. But don't give up.
