Relationships, good or bad?

I dont know. Every relationship i;ve had so far has ended because the guy cheated (******! grrr) but when i'm in a good relationship then everything is great and all problems seem to go away when im with them. I dont know, relationships confuse me.

Me and my two friends are on a break from guys atm because we have all just broken up with or bfs (one cheated, one decided he wasnt ready for a relationship and then went running off with his ex and one just played her) so atm in my opinion guys are bad and relationships are pointless. But that will all probs change next week when i find a new guy lol :rolleyes:

 

Sygy

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I dont know. Every relationship i;ve had so far has ended because the guy cheated (******! grrr) but when i'm in a good relationship then everything is great and all problems seem to go away when im with them. I dont know, relationships confuse me.Me and my two friends are on a break from guys atm because we have all just broken up with or bfs (one cheated, one decided he wasnt ready for a relationship and then went running off with his ex and one just played her) so atm in my opinion guys are bad and relationships are pointless. But that will all probs change next week when i find a new guy lol :rollseyes:
yeah, i went out with a guy for 8 months and he cheated on me. some guys are just like that and there is nothing we can do about it.

 

4everLP_Shinoda

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ok i thought i would post this topic to see other peoples opnions on this subject. 


personally for the most part i think they are a waste of time. you spend time with someone just so they get bored and lie and cheat on you. or all guys want is *** and once they get it they leave. why cant they say that straight up? they shouldnt sit they and lie and say they love you just to get in your pants. i respect a guy who says whats on his mind more than some one who lies.


 


then again im in a great relationship right now and i never knew they could be this way. my bf dont want just ***. hes there for me. he never puts me down and he trully cares about me. i trust him 100%. so im torn. i guesss with the right person reltionships can be good....no they can be great.


 


whats your opnion?
Honestly I can´t say either if they are good or bad because I have never been in one:(*cries*Good luck with your bf tho:)

 

ForgottenKid

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*sigh* I get what you guys are saying, and relationships are really just a big puzzle of emotion. You dont know whats gonna happen next, and suddenly you get mixed thoughts like "are the cheating me" or "am i just a here for public display".
 

Minzara

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My problem is all the women i've been with, just plays games, not saying all women do, just the ones i have been with. I don't like that game ****, its either you like me or you dont, so alot of my relationships have ended because of that.
 

ForgottenKid

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Agreed with minzara but the thing with men is that most of them are just using you. Woman get emotionaly and Physically drained when they try to figure out what their "man" needs, and most of the time they dont see how tired we are, and then the expect more from us.
 

Minzara

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I usally lay it out, right at the start what I want, which isnt ***, *** is a nice added bonus ,yes. One of the reasons ive ended a few of my relationships i ended, was because my GF wanted to be friends with benefits... Which i didnt want to be apart of that...she basically just wanted ***...with many other people too
 

Hyper

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meh, all i have ever asked, and still do ask, is that she lets me be me, doesn't press for certain things (***/money/etc..) and she'll always be with me because i'm me, not because someone else wants her to, or she thinks it's right, or because some bullshit reason, or a facade (i have a lot of those) but ME. rofl. not my car either, or **** like that (my band -- meet a lot of pimp as local groups [authority zero] [jimmy eat world] [cpt squeegee and the soap suds]) lol.
 

starr

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im having the weirdest worst relationship right now......i thought i'd say something....i need to vent
 

Xblackwidow20X

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well i agree with everone. lol. its good to see everyones opnion. my ex and i went out for 2 and 1/2 years and he cheated cuz i wouldnt sleep with him. but i was stupid and took him back after all that ****. and it was the biggest mistake.

 


but yeah if you find someone who can accept you for you and not try to change you i think it works out really good. i mean there will always be lil things that you have to sacrifce but thats life.


 

stupidsoul1

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i think relationships are bittersweet

lol i havent really been in one...but pretty close so i suppose it would probably suck even more, guys really love confusing people T__T

 

Minzara

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i think relationships are bittersweet
lol i havent really been in one...but pretty close so i suppose it would probably suck even more, guys really love confusing people T__T
girls like confusing people too lol, but thats if we were using sterotypes... everyone if different, i have learned that will, thinking all of one group if the same, is a huge mistake...

 

stupidsoul1

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Well lol i just meant from my experience like when he said stuff to his friends like "we have been out together many times" and its like wtf..one of my friends had to come along and go " he wants to go out with you"

see..that is confusing

 

sexy_LP_fan

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Well i gotten out of a relationship that lasted for almost 6 yrs.....we been seperated for almost 5 weeks when he called me elary in the morning and askes to talk to me and so i let him which was a mistake.....he said all this bullshit saying how he loved me and wanted to be back with me......i believed him actually.....but just today....he told me he wanted to be with some other chick.......now im thinking......."wtf am i doing?" im just going to ignore wtever he gots to say to me next time, and maybe stay single for awhile......see what happens.....
 

acdcrules04

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Honestly I can´t say either if they are good or bad because I have never been in one:(*cries*Good luck with your bf tho:)
yeah... i know that feeling, we should start our own club, The Never Been In A Relationship Criers Club or TNBIARCC for short :(

 

Xblackwidow20X

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Well i gotten out of a relationship that lasted for almost 6 yrs.....we been seperated for almost 5 weeks when he called me elary in the morning and askes to talk to me and so i let him which was a mistake.....he said all this bullshit saying how he loved me and wanted to be back with me......i believed him actually.....but just today....he told me he wanted to be with some other chick.......now im thinking......."wtf am i doing?" im just going to ignore wtever he gots to say to me next time' date=' and maybe stay single for awhile......see what happens.....[/quote']

my ex did the same thing to me we went out for about 4 years. some men really suck and are only out for themselves and they dont care who they push out of there way to get what they want.
 

azemkamikaze03

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I guess some guys are *****. But alot of girls ive dated there hard to please. I mean they want so much love and attention. There only so much love a man can give. I mean alota girls go out lookin for MR. right at the age 13. This isnt marrige its just dating....some chicks dont realize that
 
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