Chi said:I know all guys are not pigs. Just like all girls are not bitches. I think if a guy doesn't want to get used, he should first talk to the girl to see if she's interested in him before asking to buy her a drink. But a lot of guys just take the easy route and ask right away "Can I buy you a drink?", "Do you want a drink?" Chances are of course she wants a drink if she's at a bar or a club.
I guess I don't know.. I've actually never tried to pick up a stranger in my life.. at a bar or anywhere.. But I think if a guy offers to buy a girl a drink he shouldn't have any expectations with it.. If she accepts and says thank you and doesn't even wanna talk to him.. that should be fine.. and wouldn't make her a bitch in my book..