Look' date=' I'm just saying is that you need to think outside the box before you attack someone. Say woody were to have commited suicide, for not feeling welcome, for being called a hoe. Maybe there are other problems in her life and the b/f thing was the last staw and then people like you come along and just make it worse. Then how would you have felt? You would have been part of the problem. Sometimes instead of arguing for whats right, you have to shut up and deal with the situation gently.[/quote']she shouldnt have lashed out at every male tho, tahts just practically asking to be flamed