too young to love?

Black_Thought

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thanks black thought but see the thing is i dont know if he lies when i ask him things like that. i have a feeeling he is even more confused than me.
You`re welcome.

Hmm.... Let me get this straight. You tried asking him? Or maybe you don`t trust him enough if you think he`d lie..

I see no reasons for him to lie to you.

After you answer, I`ll see if I can give you any advice.

 

misspiggy

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You`re welcome.Hmm.... Let me get this straight. You tried asking him? Or maybe you don`t trust him enough if you think he`d lie..

I see no reasons for him to lie to you.

After you answer, I`ll see if I can give you any advice.
i have asked him and he says either "i guess" "no" or "i dont no"

but through his body language he misleads and you end up thinking he likes you.

 

Black_Thought

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i have asked him and he says either "i guess" "no" or "i dont no"but through his body language he misleads and you end up thinking he likes you.

Hmm.... I`d say go for it. You only have to regret what you didn`t do and we don`t want any regrets now, do we? :)

 

misspiggy

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Hmm.... I`d say go for it. You only have to regret what you didn`t do and we don`t want any regrets now' date=' do we? :) [/quote']i dont now our relationship is so confusing cuz we'll be all happy and sappy and like mushy and then the next day we end up fighting or we just get so annoyed with each other.
 

Black_Thought

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i dont now our relationship is so confusing cuz we'll be all happy and sappy and like mushy and then the next day we end up fighting or we just get so annoyed with each other.

Been there. Done that :rolleyes:

It all depends on you guys. The most important part is not to focus on the are-we-in-love-or-not question but to make the most of your relationship.

If you go on questioning your relationship you`ll end up destroying it. At least that`s what I think.

I never thought I`d say this but .. don`t give it that much thought. Just "go with the flow". Wait and see where this thing is headed.

 

misspiggy

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Been there. Done that :rolleyes: It all depends on you guys. The most important part is not to focus on the are-we-in-love-or-not question but to make the most of your relationship.

If you go on questioning your relationship you`ll end up destroying it. At least that`s what I think.

I never thought I`d say this but .. don`t give it that much thought. Just "go with the flow". Wait and see where this thing is headed.
thanks black thought ill try but if i ever need anymore help ill post something else on this thread.

 

misspiggy

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another something

ok well besides the silvestre dilemma i kinda have this little "looks crush"

okay his name is gus and thats pretty much all i no. and he is really hot. ok but here is the problem he is in the 7th grade and im in 8th and most of my friend think its wrong for me to like him i mean im probably only a few months older than him. is it wrong for me to like him or not becussae of the grade difference?

 

Black_Thought

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ok well besides the silvestre dilemma i kinda have this little "looks crush"okay his name is gus and thats pretty much all i no. and he is really hot. ok but here is the problem he is in the 7th grade and im in 8th and most of my friend think its wrong for me to like him i mean im probably only a few months older than him. is it wrong for me to like him or not becussae of the grade difference?

Nah. It`s not wrong. But you can`t fall in love with a person you don`t know. I know why I`m saying that :rolleyes:

When you fall in love with someone, you fall in love with the whole being if you know what I mean. The looks, personality and so on. Everything.

If you like his physical appearence (but you don`t know more) then you should find out more about him and if he`s worth it, go ahead.

Age doesn`t matter.

YOU have to like him, cause you would have a relationship with him, not your friends. Their opinion counts, yes, but not as much as yours.

 

misspiggy

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Nah. It`s not wrong. But you can`t fall in love with a person you don`t know. I know why I`m saying that :rolleyes: When you fall in love with someone, you fall in love with the whole being if you know what I mean. The looks, personality and so on. Everything.

If you like his physical appearence (but you don`t know more) then you should find out more about him and if he`s worth it, go ahead.

Age doesn`t matter.

YOU have to like him, cause you would have a relationship with him, not your friends. Their opinion counts, yes, but not as much as yours.
thats really good advice black thought thank you

 

misspiggy

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ok well besides the silvestre dilemma i kinda have this little "looks crush"okay his name is gus and thats pretty much all i no. and he is really hot. ok but here is the problem he is in the 7th grade and im in 8th and most of my friend think its wrong for me to like him i mean im probably only a few months older than him. is it wrong for me to like him or not becussae of the grade difference?
ok i actually talked to him today and he was really rude and in my eyes the sourness he showed just made him really ugly.

 

Black_Thought

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ok i actually talked to him today and he was really rude and in my eyes the sourness he showed just made him really ugly.

Just what I said. Looks aren't enough. The being as a 'whole' is important. Every bit matters.

Sorry to hear this happened, but I saw it coming.

 

misspiggy

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Just what I said. Looks aren't enough. The being as a 'whole' is important. Every bit matters.
Sorry to hear this happened, but I saw it coming.
i know but im passed that. i still think he is kinda cute but i terribly miss silvestre. :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

 

Mikes_Shadow

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Are you sure its love not ****? In year seven your hormones are developing' date=' (stupid hormones can backfire), but it means you could just be confused with how you are feeling, attracted to him, not fully the whole package. Just give it a bit of time, try to see clear, if you still want to be with him, then your in love.[/quote']
Stop sounding wise!! XD lol

Okay.. I'm 13 and I have a BF.. My mum doesn't seem to have a problem with it.. Even though he happens to be mum's student... *too confusing* gah! Ruth you know Nick!
 

sexy_LP_fan

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Well i first fell in love when i was 12..hes was 13....we been together for almost 6 years...im 17 and hes 18...but we're not together anymore, but it was love for us....it sux,...but yeah im moving on....
 

Clogz

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I have been infatuated, and I have also been in love. And there is a huge difference.

An infatuation makes me you obsessed with that person, you daydream, write notes you never give, practice asking him/her out and never do...thats infatuation. People who are infatuated are usually happy just watching from afar.

Being in love, I think, is driven by a totally different force. Its strange, and I can't really describe it, but if you are in love you will know because its different. The best rule of thumb I can give you is this: If you have to ask if its love, then it probably isn't.

 
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