What do I do?
- Thread starter timesjoke
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And other people display signs on chat forums that scream abuser..
Like grabbing onto personal tidbits of information to put in your pocket for later use to advance your own f cked up agenda like you just did with Atlantic, not caring whether it would hurt her or not.. Like you've done with me.. like you've done with Ali.. like you've done with eddo.. Like you did with ren in the last week.. like you do to anyone who dares confront your behavior.. usually works and shuts people up, eh? Other people are a means to an end for you.. nothing more. It's always about you..
Blaming someone else for situations you find yourself in.. abusers are always the victim..
Yes.. like I said.. I spent 18 years with a female you.. paint of my life.. you paint yourself.. I just point it out to you.
I learned a lot in those 18 years TJ.. Too bad for you..
I know.. you're always the victim..
Exit.. stage left..The stage is yours Wez, I know that attention is all you wanted in the first place and you got that so you should be happy
eddo
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ummm, not to get all involved and junk, but we are all guilty of that at some point wez: including myself, and also including you.
I dunno that it is fair to point that out about TJ when you (and like I said- me too) have done the exact same thing.
How many times have you yanked my being banned and my strained relationship with babiebec into a conversation? How many times have I done the same thing to you or someone else? Way too many to count, and definitely too many to be proud of...
Check that mirror bud.
Well.. If someone wanted to play the "I can hurt you emotionally more than you can hurt me" game with me as a means to justify why I should be banned from every website I've ever been on (here and The Jungle with a short stint on GF.) . I've definitely returned the favor to point out the hypocrisy of it all on occasion.. to you and TJ.. whom I've never tried to remove from anywhere..ummm, not to get all involved and junk, but we are all guilty of that at some point wez: including myself, and also including you.
I dunno that it is fair to point that out about TJ when you (and like I said- me too) have done the exact same thing.
How many times have you yanked my being banned and my strained relationship with babiebec into a conversation? How many times have I done the same thing to you or someone else? Way too many to count, and definitely too many to be proud of...
Check that mirror bud.
so.. if you can honestly say you or TJ have never tried to influence others to remove me from a website.. then yeah.. same thing.. otherwise.. not the same thing.. I can honestly say I've never done anything like that to you, TJ or anyone else.. can you say that?
.. and even tho I felt justified.. it doesn't make me feel good.. and no.. not something I'm proud of.. I don't like to hurt people in any way.. but.. I'm also not going to crawl in a hole and cry.. so.. if ya can't take it.. don't do it.. simple enough.
timesjoke
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Let's see if we can make a small amount of progress then Wez.
Can you admit that everything I said to you was in response to your claims about me? I don't have to reply, that is my fault and I admit to that fully, but can you not see that anyone can get tired of someone like you telling lies about them over and over again all over the forum?
What you say about me is not true, so to me that is a very ugly attack and I am not going to just stand there and let you spam over and over again untrue garbage without responding in kind.
So the real question, what is your motivation to tell the lies about me? Do you think you were being noble and comming to the aid of a damsel in distress? Believe me, Ren and everyone else on this forum is capable of fighting their own battles and do not need you to "save" them. Ren worked at prisons and is doing some kind of bail enforcing right now, she is a tough girl who could rip you apart with her bare hands if she wanted to. Do not mistake her being a woman as being weak.
No TJ.. you spent the better part of a year beginning right after I met you telling lies about me all over the forum because of a comment I made about soldiers that you didn't agree with.. you, eddo and brotherman did your best to have me banned.. epic fail.. So yeah.. I can definitely see how someone can get tired of someone like you telling lies about them over and over again all over the forum. I will never justify or validate it for you.. or take the blame for it.. I'm only responsible for myself..
Everything I've ever said to you is in response to the way you've treated myself and others around here.. I was in an abusive relationship for 18 years.. kinda a sore spot with me.. I know it when I see it.. I'm sorry.. you can disagree with me.. best I can do..
Everything I've ever said to you is in response to the way you've treated myself and others around here.. I was in an abusive relationship for 18 years.. kinda a sore spot with me.. I know it when I see it.. I'm sorry.. you can disagree with me.. best I can do..
timesjoke
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And part of what you were responsible for was your behavior Wez. I personally never wanted you banned, but I did say many times it was unfair for you to be allowed to openly break the rules over and over again without any form of increased penalties for your bad behaviors.
But what does that have to do with now and your behaviors now? Are you saying that this stuff your doing now is pay-back for what happened back then?
Again, everyone here is capable of taking care of themselves, you do not need to play big brother (or sister) and run off into battle for someone else. If they have an issue with me or anyone else, let them handle it.
All you did was bring up the past when it was things happening here and now that were being discussed. On top of that you were telling a lie about me, why do you think telling a lie about me was going to help anything?
You seem to get a lot of pleasure in trying to hurt other people Wez, maybe you should be looking in your mirror before you point your finger at me or anyone else because you started this mess, not me. Yes. I responded to it, but I can't respond to what you do not start now can I Wez?
Being that there were no rules to break at that time til you cried them into existence because you wanted me banned.. gotta disagree with ya.. sorry..
I'm responsible for all my behaviors.. unlike you..
Been the same person I've always been..
Abusers love to isolate people.. don't they? I'll make up my own mind.. thanks..
Pretty much stayed out of all the latest between you, Ali, and eddo last time round.. I'll pick and choose as I see fit..
There was a post made in the last week concerning you up to your old games.. what was the lie? That you were displaying abusive behaviors in trying to garner personal information from someone to use like a dollar? Again? ..The past is the present..
I imagine it does look like that from your view.. boodily hoo.. don't like it.. don't do it to anyone..
eddo
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timesjoke
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I was just trying to make the point that you were not some helpless female needing anyone else to do your fighting for you. We may not see eye to eye on much but I give you credit where it is due, your not like most girls, you can take care of yourself.
See, I can say nice things about you
