Ahhlee
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- Mar 28, 2006
...to kick your wife and twin daughters, who are not quite 2 years old, out of the house?
My friend is a wreck. She's been married for 3 years and she just informed me that her husband has kicked her and her daughters out of the house, changed the locks, turned off her cell phone, cleaned out their joint bank account and has taken her car.
Her car was missing the other day when she was leaving work and she figured he must have come and gotten it (forgetting to tell her because he's an ass like that) so she caught a ride to her house from her co-worker. There were a couple of small bags with some of her clothes and some clothes for the girls sitting on the porch. Her keys didn't work in the lock, as he'd already had them changed.
She was the only one in the relationship working. He was dismissed from the Air Force and collects disability. From what I can gather, she had to put the girls in daycare while she worked because it was "too hard" for him to watch them while he sat at home smoking pot and watching internet porn all day.
Thank God her parents could take her and the girls in. She's living an hour and a half away from her business and is currently borrowing her dad's car to get back and forth in order to make a living.
I talked to her this morning and she's heartbroken. I sympathize with her, but I also told her she needs to be strong and get a lawyer right away to protect her and the twins. I know for a fact she's going to slip into anger mode soon and hopefully having legal counsel will prevent her from doing anything rash.
You know, if he wanted out of the relationship, fine. But HE should be the one to leave since it's easier for him to uproot and find an apartment for himself. To kick his wife and baby daughters out of their home when winter is setting in is completely heartless. A real man would have let them stay, even if he wanted out himself.
What an piece of sh!t.
My friend is a wreck. She's been married for 3 years and she just informed me that her husband has kicked her and her daughters out of the house, changed the locks, turned off her cell phone, cleaned out their joint bank account and has taken her car.
Her car was missing the other day when she was leaving work and she figured he must have come and gotten it (forgetting to tell her because he's an ass like that) so she caught a ride to her house from her co-worker. There were a couple of small bags with some of her clothes and some clothes for the girls sitting on the porch. Her keys didn't work in the lock, as he'd already had them changed.
She was the only one in the relationship working. He was dismissed from the Air Force and collects disability. From what I can gather, she had to put the girls in daycare while she worked because it was "too hard" for him to watch them while he sat at home smoking pot and watching internet porn all day.
Thank God her parents could take her and the girls in. She's living an hour and a half away from her business and is currently borrowing her dad's car to get back and forth in order to make a living.
I talked to her this morning and she's heartbroken. I sympathize with her, but I also told her she needs to be strong and get a lawyer right away to protect her and the twins. I know for a fact she's going to slip into anger mode soon and hopefully having legal counsel will prevent her from doing anything rash.
You know, if he wanted out of the relationship, fine. But HE should be the one to leave since it's easier for him to uproot and find an apartment for himself. To kick his wife and baby daughters out of their home when winter is setting in is completely heartless. A real man would have let them stay, even if he wanted out himself.
What an piece of sh!t.
