SD is on to something though... happiness in a relationship does get repetitive..
If you ALWAYS give it up, there is just no fun in that.. Guys like to work for the *****, just not too hard or they'll give up and find it somewhere easier.
Teasing a **** works best... bending over to sweep trash in a dustpan counts as teasing a ****...
Hey, were guys !!!
******** about your inner relationship problems I.E. bills/kids/mother in law, can really get some guy out of the mood real quick..
But there is a key point to be made here
Men NEED women... we need them to tell us how ******* stupid we are being, we need them to prevent us from doing stupid ****, we need them to nag at us to get off our lazy ***** and take out the trash, we need them to remind us to do **** we always forget about, but the problem is, when you CONSTANTLY nag at us, we simply get fed up and find someone else..
Plus, if you have a large *** drive (like my wife) and want it all the time, we can actually get sick of ***.
O.K. not that I'm complaining
Probably after 4 or 5 years of marriage, there was a point where maybe I questioned my love for her.. And it wasn't that she EVER did anything wrong, it was probably more or less going through the usual twists and turns of life with the same person, **** happens, and you just get sick of it..It more or less had to do with the fact that we lost Madison (Our daughter) she was my pride and joy and made everything in my life complete, losing her took a lot out of me mentally and destroyed part of the relationship because of how it affected me.(long story, please don't ask).
Almost ALL couples will go through this at one point in the relationship, and if the factors are setup right, ONE OF THEM will cheat.
Oh I admit, I could have VERY EASILY cheated on my wife with my ex girlfriend (who I still hang out with ) back then, and my wife would not have been the wiser, actually, at one point she even suspected that I might have been cheating on her... I was hanging out with my ex allegedly more then I was with her.. Well, for one thing, my EX is probably more matched to me then my wife is... as in, we have more things in common and have about the same attitude, and my wife is more of a laid back quiet person who doesn't like to really socialize. I guess what prevented me from cheating on my wife was the fact that my ex and I go way back, we have known each other for 15 years, we dated for only 1, but have been friends since we were kids. So my reasoning was, if I was gonna cheat on my wife, with my ex girlfriend, I would simply leave my wife out of respect for the EX. Sure I admit I love my ex still, I always have, but we made a ****** couple for one thing, and my wife has NEVER done anything to me that would make me want to, or would justify me cheating on her. So after all these years, one thing is clear, there may be love between me and the EX, but we both are much happier being the best of friends. I don't think if I would have known her as long as I have, that the situation would be the same. I probably WOULD have cheated on my wife.
But like I said, I think EVERYBODY goes threw that phase in a relationship... where they question there love for there partner, its acting on that, that ruins the relationship.
It's too easy to just give up because of the nagging, or because of other problems and just cheat, then it is to back up for a sec and actually talk to each other.
And personally, I'm not one of those type of guys that could really face myself if I hurt someone like that just for something like *** if I get nothing in return besides the ***.
But then, some guys don't seem to mind at all, they come up with a pathetic excuse as to why they did it, not just once, but many many times. And what it comes down to, is its all mental and not physical as to why your partner cheats, so don't ever think great *** will hold a relationship together.
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