Girls are Crazy! (help thread)

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

I have sort of a problem.

 

Okay. There's this girl that I'm CRAZY about. I've really liked her for a long time, and we talk every now and then and w/e. She's perfect in just about every way, just I'm a pansy when it comes to asking out girls that I actually like. Now theres this other girl. She likes me and now she wants to go out with me. I've only ever met her once though, at a school dance. She's okay, I guess. She's pretty cute, she seemed nice, and w/e. But I don't think I could go out with her while I'm still crazy about Jolynne. So my question is: should I go out with this girl? I don't really see it going anywhere because of my feelings for Jolynne, but I dunno. Any help would be much appreciated.

 

P.S. Please don't tell me to suck it up and ask Jolynne out, I'm just wondering if I should go out with this other girl or not.

 

I agree with everybody on this one but it's all resolved (I hope?). Gosh, you're CRAZY over Jolynne and she sounds really awesome! Don't settle for the other girl just because she likes you. Your feelings to her aren't the same! I really do hope you'll have the strength and guts to ask her out soon though =P It's been like... forever

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

You know...I may end up posting in this thread alot, because here is another problem I had - today. Huzah, it is remarkable...check this out:

 

So this girl who sits behind me in Algebra won't leave me alone. And its driving me mad. She is doing all the typical stuff, like asking strange questions, telling me to get a purple mohark because 'tha'd be hot' and trying to steal my desk from me.

First of all, I'm uber-thick with women, so if this is flirting, how do I (in a nice way!) get it across that I'm not interested? Frankly, the age difference creeps me out (I'm 11th grade, she is 8th) and the fact that she is friends with my ex-girlfriend's best friend is not exactly comfortable either.

And does my ex's friend joining in on all this mean anything?

This is so bizarre! Ahhhh! Any help would be appreciated, thank you.

 

I also think a purple mohawk would indeed be very "hawt" It kinda sounds like flirting, like how younger girls do it lol. I mean, that's how flirting went for me when I was 13-14ish. (How old are 8th graders? 14? Different school systems sorry). It just sounds like a harmless crush though. You don't wanna be mean about "letting her down". She's young and she'll think you're a total dickhead if you just point blantly say "You're too young. I don't like you in that way. Not interested. Sorry" lol.

You can just not join in on her "flirtacious" approaches. Ignore her. Move seats. That'll be a big hint =D And if that doesn't work, talk to other girls lmao. Older girls. Hopefully she's take the hint and move on.

 

The Ex friend thing shouldn't be a problem, unless your ex happened to very very vengeful and this was her way of getting back at you. By uhh....telling her best friends friend to try and hit it off with you. And then accuse you of being a cradle snatcher and saying how you're a player and blah blah lol. My imagination is strange sometimes. It's highly unlikely lol! Girls are weird like that sometimes. :thumbsup:

[JammerG]

You know...I may end up posting in this thread alot, because here is another problem I had - today. Huzah, it is remarkable...check this out:

 

So this girl who sits behind me in Algebra won't leave me alone. And its driving me mad. She is doing all the typical stuff, like asking strange questions, telling me to get a purple mohark because 'tha'd be hot' and trying to steal my desk from me.

First of all, I'm uber-thick with women, so if this is flirting, how do I (in a nice way!) get it across that I'm not interested? Frankly, the age difference creeps me out (I'm 11th grade, she is 8th) and the fact that she is friends with my ex-girlfriend's best friend is not exactly comfortable either.

And does my ex's friend joining in on all this mean anything?

This is so bizarre! Ahhhh! Any help would be appreciated, thank you.

 

Clogz,

if you aren't interested and believe you need to set her straight then set her straight. Just say nicely (You know dumbass smile) "Look your cute and all but you just deserve better, because I will break your heart. And you know yourself you will find some one better"

 

Hope it helps

[pandemoneum000LP279]

dude

 

Dude you could just turn around, and start ranting on communistic propoganda, or call her a fascist pig And if that doesnt work you could catch herON FIRE!!!

[m. k. Shinoda]

I LOVE GUYS THAT MAKE SHORT CONVOS *drools*

 

yah haha my friend loves guys that whine when they sing.....

but if they whine too much bout things like AH! my left shoe lace is longer then my right one or DUUUUDEEEEE MY DICK IS ON FIRE.....then maybe she will get freaked out

 

i'd be very scared with this lol...

 

i think you should talk to her, not saying something like about heart breaking but trying to discover if she really really have a crush on you... i don't know it can be just a strange behavior (i know, i don't help that much *dies*)

[stupidsoul1]

When a GIRL is quiet, Millions of things are running in her mind. When a GIRL is not arguing,She is thinking deeply. When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions,She is wondering how long you will be around. When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,She is not at all fine. When a GIRL stares at you, She is wondering why you are lying. When a GIRL lays on your chest, She is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, She wants to be pampered. When a GIRL says I love you, She means it. When a GIRL says "i miss you", No one in this world can miss you more than that.

 

my friend just sent me that...it basically sums it up 0___o if anyone cares right now about what a stereotypical girl feels...lol i guess thats why GIRL is put it capitals...because they know it may not be true...

[pandemoneum000LP279]

When a GIRL is quiet, Millions of things are running in her mind. When a GIRL is not arguing,She is thinking deeply. When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions,She is wondering how long you will be around. When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,She is not at all fine. When a GIRL stares at you, She is wondering why you are lying. When a GIRL lays on your chest, She is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, She wants to be pampered. When a GIRL says I love you, She means it. When a GIRL says "i miss you", No one in this world can miss you more than that.

 

my friend just sent me that...it basically sums it up 0___o if anyone cares right now about what a stereotypical girl feels...lol i guess thats why GIRL is put it capitals...because they know it may not be true...

OK what happens when a girl who can throw harder than you nails you in the ribs with a brick from about six feet away?

[Hyper]

OK what happens when a girl who can throw harder than you nails you in the ribs with a brick from about six feet away?

 

she's in love :thumbsup:

[pandemoneum000LP279]

You sure? Cause shes ........ yeah well I dont feel like talking about my problems so whatever dude.

[misery]

You sure? Cause shes ........ yeah well I dont feel like talking about my problems so whatever dude.

Then why'd you post in a 'help thread'?

[LPGotLinkinPark]

When a GIRL is quiet' date=' Millions of things are running in her mind. When a GIRL is not arguing,She is thinking deeply. When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions,She is wondering how long you will be around. When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,She is not at all fine. When a GIRL stares at you, She is wondering why you are lying. When a GIRL lays on your chest, She is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, She wants to be pampered. When a GIRL says I love you, She means it. When a GIRL says "i miss you", No one in this world can miss you more than that.[/quote']

 

That is good. Lots of it explains girls. lol We are complicated creatures I must say.

[pandemoneum000LP279]

Well...I dont know exactly, its not exactly a help thread its more like....ok it is but I didnt come in here looking for help.

[stupidsoul1]

LMAO

 

it doesnt really explain me....but oh well....

 

 

a brick?! i guess that means she is crazy for you XD wooooo

[shahfire]

OK what happens when a girl who can throw harder than you nails you in the ribs with a brick from about six feet away?

1. she likes u alot!!!!!!

2. she hates u alot!!!!!

3. she hates and loves u. as in she cant stand the sight of u but yet she has some feelings for u.

[pandemoneum000LP279]

OH yeah thanks dude that really helps me.......NOW IM MORE CONFUSED THAN BEFORE AGGGGGHHHHHHH

[LPGotLinkinPark]

What she meant by number 2 is that us girls, we get this thing for guys that when we see them we don't feel anything and may do mean things to them and stuff. But later just sitting around she may just have the huge thing for you....very complicated.

[pandemoneum000LP279]

What your making noooo sense, and I another strange thing about our "relationship" that was unplanned and is weird, we started going out exactly six months before and after her birthday, its just like eghh thats different, BUT YOU ARE MAKING NO SENSE

[stupidsoul1]

WELL THEN!!

she means sometimes girl's feelings change...

you know like some times they think of you, some times they dont, some things make them change their mind or PMS could affect it.

[pandemoneum000LP279]

Or shes just crazy about me and I couldnt keep her away with a 12 feet wall...

[JammerG]

Or shes just crazy about me and I couldnt keep her away with a 12 feet wall...

 

Exactly, a chic in love will find away... Especially if she wants your attention. Just don't take the Brick throwing Too seriously. She was just trying to get your attenetion... hehehe

[pandemoneum000LP279]

uhmmm ok, thanks.....(for what im not really sure) but yeah....

[misery]

Okay. What's with you ladies and all the mixed signals? I posted this in Hyper's journal as well. I mean, one day, a girl will be flirting and w/e, and then the next day will barely even notice you. Like wtf. Anyone care to explain it?

 

Disclaimer: I know not all girls do this. So please don't flame me, we don't need another gender war or anything going on.

[stupidsoul1]

sometimes us girls want to change our minds, you know...like we get influenced by our friends and our style and if u dont fit into all of that a girl has to think really hard if she likes u or not.

 

i dunno...im just guessing

 

if i like something or dislike something i just say it

[acdcrules04]

i really dont' know hmmm.... like i dont' even get myself, but my guess would be that maybe she was in a good mood one say and then maybe she was depressed the next, or maybe (not to be mean) she just flirted with you because she had no one else to flirt with, seriously my friends are always doing that to guys, i think its wrong, but whatever

[immortal89]

GotLinkinPark?']What she meant by number 2 is that us girls' date=' we get this thing for guys that when we see them we don't feel anything and may do mean things to them and stuff. But later just sitting around she may just have the huge thing for you....very complicated.[/quote']

 

Dude, that happened to me. I remember last year on Ahtletics Day, I saw this guy who is looking at me hardout and I'm thinking to myself "What a freak!!"

Dude, after a couple of weeks, I started liking him and now this year's Athletics Day is gone and I am totally crazy about him.

All during the time when i liked him, he went out with htis really popular chick even hto he is not popular at all They broke up and my mates reckon he is a disasterpoiece at looks. I'm too shy to ask him out and i fear rejection.

 

So all I am saying is there is no Love at first sight. I totally did not like when i first saw him and im really trying ot get over him now.