Way to not be the bigger man about it...
That's just it, You are part of the source. By your own thought process: Why should they quit when you dish it out as well?
Do you not see that this circular "he started it, so I have to continue it" baloney leads nowhere???
Defending and protection of life vs. irresponsible taking of a life? I don't think I agree with you. Your rights as an individual should not allow you to take an innocent life, just for the sake of inconvenience (but for now they do, even though I don't think they should.) And that isn't what happens in a war.
Another thing I thought of:
I don't know of a time when the U.S. has attacked someone without some sort of provocation. Ignoring warnings, ignoring U.N. resolutions, mistreatment of people, threatening (or attack) of our allies, attack of us, etc.
What kind of warning does an unborn baby have? What has it done to harm anyone else?