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gotony! said:Some think the grass looks greener on the other side, but what one doesn't remember is that grass needs mowed too!!
snafu said:I never put anything in a box and tell you what it is but your wrong here.
We as a mammal breed with one for life. That
Peace said:Personally, I'm all up for open marriages as long as both individuals know about the situation and there are reassurances made to prevent the spread of STDs (testing and safe sex).
Peace said:In america today, majority, and yes majority, of marriages have one of the individuals cheat on the other individual.
Peace said:What to do about it? Why make it cheating? Allow both individuals to sexually explore their world, with honesty, and be able to bring back their discoveries to the bedroom. Further, it allows both people to appreciate the person that they are married to better.
Peace said:Maybe this was a little to "liberating" for most people who read this...
Peace said:I never during my previous post did I ever mention that I wanted an open marriage. I just said that it's something that people should start to consider.
Personally, I'm all up for open marriages as long as both individuals know about the situation and there are reassurances made to prevent the spread of STDs (testing and safe sex).
Peace said:I agree that relationships aren't about sex. The perfect relationship is one that is based off of mutual understanding, respect, and unconditional love. But sexual drive is something that needs to be understood and respected.
Peace said:To sexually desire someone other than the one you're married to is not unnatural . Considering that most animals have multiple mates, we do have animal instincts that cause us to desire more than one mate. It makes sense in the genetic sense. We're trying to spread out genes as far and wide as we possibly can. From an evolutionary standpoint, it's part of our genes to desire to have as much sex with a variety of individuals.
Peace said:However, we are human too. There are sensations that go beyond the animal instincts. We desire commitment and love.
Peace said:It doesnt' change the fact that a huge percentage of the population commits adultery. And majority of them state after the fact that they still love their committed partner more than the individual they slept with. And it still tears apart many marriages that would have been otherwise healthy.
Peace said:Not all people can make that sexual commitment. For those individuals, sorta like the guy who started this topics, if his partner was open to the idea, an open marriage would be very healthy.
Peace said:Sexual pleasure need not be emotional. It can be purely physical.
Peace said:My post isn't asking for all individuals to have an open marriage. For many people, a one-on-one continuous eternal relationship is a reality.
Peace said:However, for those whose eyes wander. Instead of hiding the situation, why not be honest about it and find someone who can also create an open relationship.
Sex offender joe said:I feel it's alright to hunt strange ***** while in a different town or country, no one is the wiser....but i stick to prostitutes, no strings attached.
im quite curious about the reason behind not having sex after 50?
QUOTE=Lethalfind]I have been married twice. I have not been one to withhold sex from my spouse or even my boyfriend if the relationship was too that point.
I have never endulged in an activity that could even be misconstrued as infidelity. My Father used to tell me "don't even do something that would give the appearance of inpropriaty" and I have not.
I was also raised to believe that if you fantasize about cheating, its as bad as doing it. I have entered into committed relationships because that was where I wanted to be, not because I wanted to LIE to the man I was committed to.
.No man in my life has even in anger made such an accusation too me. It is posible to live that way...more people in committed relationships should try it. If you can't live that way...do everyone a favor and stay single
Sex offender joe said:I feel it's alright to hunt strange ***** while in a different town or country, no one is the wiser....but i stick to prostitutes, no strings attached.
It's alright because you can use a different name in another town, and not having to worry about the bitch you just shot your muck into coming to your door in 9 months with a kid... Or if you were smart enough to give her a pearl necklace instead... to be showing up at your door looking for a ring to go with the necklace.clarity said:why is it ok to 'hunt strange *****' when in a different town/country, but not ok when ur in ur usual town/country?
if your partner is ok with u doing that, then its fine. if not, then well, its not.
phreakwars said:It's alright because you can use a different name in another town, and not having to worry about the bitch you just shot your muck into coming to your door in 9 months with a kid... Or if you were smart enough to give her a pearl necklace instead... to be showing up at your door looking for a ring to go with the necklace.
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Pearl necklaceclarity said:yeah i see wher eur coming from, but i dont agree that it makes it alright.