I don't know much about the personality traits associated with the signs, but:I'm a Capricorn. Independent and emotionally distant at times.
My first husband was a Libra. He was a whinny baby and I broke him rather quickly.
My current husband is much more stubborn but he was born 10/22 so he borders Scorpio. Don't know if that would matter or not. Swings between lovey-dovey and detached. Can be a little selfish, but has moment where he is very giving.
My oldest son is a Gemini. Good kid but tries too hard to get people to like him some times. Kinda needy. Tries to be a leader, but often ends up a follower.
My Middle child is an Aquarius. He's the ultimate cool cat. He doesn't give a **** what people think and he is a ladies man. Born negotiator. Very messy.
My daughter is a Taurus. She is take charge and organized, but emotional and gets her feelings hurt easily.
These are my assessments. I don't know how they match up.
I'ver never been accused of being whiny. Cold, unaffectionate, detached, absolutely.