However capable the hands of the person caring for the child, sometimes things happen...I want to be notified. I ran into a situation at my job, before I had a cell phone where the school called my boss and she purposely didn't pass on the information to me because I was on the phone, she put the call center in front of my daughter's safety. The school called to tell me that a fire was getting close to my daughters school and they were removing them as quickly as posible. Then my 80 year old Mother called, she was staying with me, she had no car to go and get my daughter and had gotten a call from the school and was frantic. As I said, my boss delayed some 30 minutes telling me this information because I was in the que...I almost killed her when I found out, I told her that job would NEVER be more important then my daughter and I left to get my daughter at her school. The buses that were normally at my daughters school were being used to evacuate another school that was even closer to the fire then my daughters.
I can use the phone to make sure I have contact with my daughter and talk to other people as well, as I said, I have caller id that beeps in when I am on the phone, I have a panel on the OUTSIDE of the phone that I can see the name of the person calling without picking the phone up AND as I said I don't have to dial numbers, they are on voice response. All I have to do it touch a button on the outside of the phone and say the name of the person I am calling. Naturally I don't initiate something like that when my attention should be on the road.
I am pretty sure that even down here in Florida that people would have been shooting me the bird left and right if my driving were bad. I also have never gotten a ticket for anything like that so that makes me feel pretty sure that my driving is pretty good.
You don't think a screaming baby, maybe having dropped their bottle or wriggling out of their baby seat can be distracting? Never mind people who have pets in their car unrestrained, thats an accident waiting to happen right there.
I don't think your inferior in general, I think I',m better at multi tasking then you are. I am also more open minded in that I see its posible that some people can drive and talk on a cell phone without causing a problem and clearly some people can't. Your the one with the RIGID idea that NO ONE should EVER drive talking on a cell phone even if they use an ear peice...thats just unreasonable. If the lawmakers of my state agreed they would have made the law already.
Just because you CHOOSE NOT to use your cell phone in the car or only EVER use it in Emergancies does not the rest of the world will follow your lead, why would we? I often use my cell phone when my daughter and I are out, she calls members of our family and tells them what we are doing AND often sends them pictures (we both have picture phones as well as members of our family) of the beach, or a sand dollar she has picked up etc. Cell phones are for alot more then just Emergancies. Its pretty narrow of you to think that aren't.
As for me feeling controlled...NOT. You are a very controlling person, that comes across in what you say and in your general approach too life assuming the opinions you express on here are genuine, thats pretty consistent with the perfectionist personality you clearly have. The world would be an awful place if we were all alike...having said that I will continue to talk on my cell phone in the car and if you and your kind don't like it, you better stay off the road...No one makes me feel controlled, grew up in that environment and it just doesn't work on me anymore.
I don't wish to change or control your opinion about your own actions...however I think your feeling that EVERYONE has to do what you say is unreasonable. My comments about being more talented were tongue and cheek, you brissle like a wet cat...who is being the child? However if there was a way to test what we are discussing, I think I would probably win. I have never been in an accident that I caused...I have never driven drunk or anything close, I have never gotten a ticket or driving recklessly, I have been quilty of speeding but I have not gotten a ticket for more then 4 years. I have been driving for 24 years, I started with a learners permit at 15. I can comfortably drive in places like Dallas, Boston, Atlanta...all those places where you hear its SO terrible to drive. I have driven through Atlanta at rush hour, pulling the largest U-haul trailor they have with no problems or concerns on my part. As a 21 year old I drove straight through from Boston to Dallas with only a couple hours sleep on the side of the road. More recently I pulled a trailor from Dallas to Orlando, stopping once for the night. I have'nt found the vehicle I can't drive, everything from my Fathers Kabota tractor (with or without the implements) to my Fathers Peterbilt cab over (although I never got a license to drive the Peterbilt) down to normal cars, stick shifts to automatics.
Do you also think that truckers shouldn't be allowed to talk on the CB? I can do that as well, either in a normal truck or in the Peterbilt Cabover, that bad boy had 15 gears, way too much fun...I haven't driven a long nose truck, I hear the ride is more comfortable because the cab isn't sitting over the wheels...
I am clearly alot more relaxed behind the wheel then you are.