Lethalfind
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- Aug 8, 2005
- Location
- Massachusetts
How would you feel if the person you are seeing doesn't want to tell their family about you?
Evidently it was mentioned that we were seeing each other and his daughter-in-law got upset. His opinion was she was jealous of the time and money he would be spending on me and Diane. Well we decided to NOT see each other and then decided to see each other casually. I say casually because that has been my approach but he seems VERY attached to me except in the matter of letting his family know about it.
He has told me in order to avoid conflict within his family he has not mentioned we are seeing each other again...
I am frankly offended by this. He says he wants a long term relationship with me but he's going to keep that from his entire family??
So far I have adopted a wait and see attitude on this matter. He is spending Thanksgiving with his son and daughter in law (the one who was upset), so it will be interesting to see if something comes out when he is up there.
BUT what do you guys think.
Evidently it was mentioned that we were seeing each other and his daughter-in-law got upset. His opinion was she was jealous of the time and money he would be spending on me and Diane. Well we decided to NOT see each other and then decided to see each other casually. I say casually because that has been my approach but he seems VERY attached to me except in the matter of letting his family know about it.
He has told me in order to avoid conflict within his family he has not mentioned we are seeing each other again...
I am frankly offended by this. He says he wants a long term relationship with me but he's going to keep that from his entire family??
So far I have adopted a wait and see attitude on this matter. He is spending Thanksgiving with his son and daughter in law (the one who was upset), so it will be interesting to see if something comes out when he is up there.
BUT what do you guys think.