OK well I solved everything. I havent talked to Jay in the longest time. I have been talking to Mike all day. We were in a chat room together I started talking about this game me and my friends used to play (well actually I made it up just so I can see what will happen) So i like "Its a game where all ur friends, boy and girl, go out for a week. At the end of the week, you go like to the movies and if you guys kiss, then you guys are like actually together." And so we started and Mike asked me! Right now we are actually acting like a real couple. Its like so cool. lol.