I picked real man, but I agree with what has been said before. There must be a good reason to the crying... just not because of shallow stuff. Anyhow, I think crying shows emotion, so it's good that man are in touch with them. And it's an escape, it's a bad sign if they always keep things bottled up inside (I talk a bit against myself here, because although I'm a girl, I tend to bottle things up quite a lot... but from personal experience, I know that's a bad thing to do), so it's healthy to cry once in a while, for a good reason. I saw a wonderful movie yesterday, called Garden State, and one of the best scenes is where the main character Andrew sheds a tear after years and years of not being able to cry. It was so sweet.