DarkShadow
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I cried when i watched lion king' date=' and mufasa(If i spelled that right) died.... that was sad. lol[/quote'].....
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man who cry
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SNiPeRViRuS
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Okay, I love donuts.
Now back on topic. I put that men who cry are dumb. Reason? Well, because if he cries, he lets his guard down. He is now open to attack. It does not matter how strong you are, it is how strong your mind is. When you cry, you are leaving your mind open. Think about it, when people cry, they become irrational and do things they regret. Most men keep emotions inside, so if they do cry, their irrationality becomes extreme, thus leading to stupid actions.
Second. What the **** do you accomplish by crying? You lose face to some peoples eyes, and you gain cuteness from other people. Thats it. You dont get the problem solved, you only have a pity party with yourself. The problem is still there, but you have only delayed the amount of time it would take to fix it. They should move on and not get so emotional.
I wont address the religious matters because people have different beliefs.
That is why men should not cry. I havent cried in years, and I dont lose control. I have other ways of letting my emotions vented. Crying is an irrational, pathetic excuse for attention.
Now back on topic. I put that men who cry are dumb. Reason? Well, because if he cries, he lets his guard down. He is now open to attack. It does not matter how strong you are, it is how strong your mind is. When you cry, you are leaving your mind open. Think about it, when people cry, they become irrational and do things they regret. Most men keep emotions inside, so if they do cry, their irrationality becomes extreme, thus leading to stupid actions.
Second. What the **** do you accomplish by crying? You lose face to some peoples eyes, and you gain cuteness from other people. Thats it. You dont get the problem solved, you only have a pity party with yourself. The problem is still there, but you have only delayed the amount of time it would take to fix it. They should move on and not get so emotional.
I wont address the religious matters because people have different beliefs.
That is why men should not cry. I havent cried in years, and I dont lose control. I have other ways of letting my emotions vented. Crying is an irrational, pathetic excuse for attention.
DarkShadow
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Sometimes you can't help but to cry...
like for instance look at me....my life is so ****** right now....am I allowed to cry?
dude....I'm not bashing your opinion but maybe you're right....but who says people can hold it in ALL the time? What if your closest love was killed? Would it be wrong for you to cry then? No...I didn't think so.
End of disscussion.
like for instance look at me....my life is so ****** right now....am I allowed to cry?
dude....I'm not bashing your opinion but maybe you're right....but who says people can hold it in ALL the time? What if your closest love was killed? Would it be wrong for you to cry then? No...I didn't think so.
End of disscussion.
twilightcrimson7
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SV< you have some good points. but rmemeber, not everyone is built, or has been through the same things as you. Some people have less control, and just have to let it all out. Sometimes crying is the only way we can make sense of things. Sometimes, it makes you feel better afterwards. But it does weaken you for a moment, true. But weaknesses make people who they are. Weaknesses are inevitable. everyone has one, whether you think so or not. essentially, if you have control like you do SV, then obviously its ridiculous to cry. But other people dont, so its perfectly normal
DarkShadow
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I couldn't have said it better myself.
SNiPeRViRuS
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Of course I have a weakness. Thats my arrogance. I see what you mean, but that still doesnt get into my head. There are situations where people "cant help" but cry. But what is that going to do for you? If a loved one was dead, I would pray for their souls and be happy that they no longer need to suffer here on earth.
SNiPeRViRuS
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I have been through and still go through some tought times. I havent cried because I know that I can get past it and that everything has a reason.
twilightcrimson7
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then, you my friend, are genuienly unique
DarkShadow
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I agree.
SNiPeRViRuS
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How am I unique? I just use what resources are given to me and do that best with them. I dont ***** about things that I cant control. This is what everyone should do. It would make the world better. I am not saying that people shouldnt be emotional. I just say that we need to control them.
twilightcrimson7
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we should, but we don't. your unique cuz you can take your own advice. Its a compliment, buddy, take it or leave it heheh
hehehSNiPeRViRuS
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I still blame over emotional people for most of societies social problems.
twilightcrimson7
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*rolls eyes* nuttin can be perfect.
Yackiestinger
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I cried when I fall on my head and it wa hurting me so much...now I have scar like 3 inches long (I'm hiding it with my hair cuz it looks scary)
and once when I crying because of girl....(I loved her so much but she lied to me and she had another bf and she left me. I thought I will never gonna see her again and I didn't want to see her)
...soon I realised she cryed for us too, she told me...then she came back to me
I have forgiven her..
That's my message for you darkshadow
move on with your life and maybe she'll return back to you
and once when I crying because of girl....(I loved her so much but she lied to me and she had another bf and she left me. I thought I will never gonna see her again and I didn't want to see her)
...soon I realised she cryed for us too, she told me...then she came back to me
I have forgiven her..
That's my message for you darkshadow
move on with your life and maybe she'll return back to you
SNiPeRViRuS
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Yet the crying never solved your problem. The people who realized the problem fixed the problem. I never asked ppl to be perfect. I just asked for a stop to irrationality.
LPGotLinkinPark
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I see SV's point. I don't totally agree with it, but crying does tend to make people think irrationally. The last time a actually cried (like a big, long cry) was when my friend got hit by that car. And yes, I was thinking completely irrationally..........although, I'm not sure if it was the crying, or the event that happened in front of me that made me think that way.
Otherwise, I think crying is a good way to just let out emotion. Sure, it doesn't solve anything, and it may not get you anywhere closer to solving your problem. That's not the point though. People cry to just let out emotion.........At least it's better than just killing yourself.
Otherwise, I think crying is a good way to just let out emotion. Sure, it doesn't solve anything, and it may not get you anywhere closer to solving your problem. That's not the point though. People cry to just let out emotion.........At least it's better than just killing yourself.
SNiPeRViRuS
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SO is listening to music. At least when you listen to music, you can feel that other people out there are not feeling good too. And it blends you in with everyone else and doesnt draw attention, nor does it make you as vulnerable. But I respect everones opinion to cry. Go ahead and do it if it works for all of you. But LP works fine for me.
LPGotLinkinPark
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I like to listen to LP too when I'm not feeling good. But it's not always on hand.
SNiPeRViRuS
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True, but its what works for each individual that really counts I guess. Whatever makes yall happy.